Leo back after a year? He does it AGAIN!

Him:Leo-43 yr old, never been married
Me: Scorp-39 yr old, divorced, no kids

We were set up on blind date summer '06...we had a great time and went on another few dates. He attacked me with passion, not giving into sex, but playing around....I am also a very passionate, seductive scorp, couldn't help it.

He called to make another date in 06 for a Sat night and POOF....dissapeared.

Skip to....

Dec 07...he emailed me on Linked in..."how are you, call me if you want to get together sometime 555-5555". I reply politely how are you...nice to hear from you." thats it. At 11:30 that night he then TM's me "Are you up"(2x)...I do not reply. Next AM on way to airport he TM's constantly, told him going OOT. He Asked for a date when I got back..constant attention.

Friday: Declined the night I got back (spent 12 hours in airport due to snow)

Sunday: he asked via email about Sunday. Said Fine via email. Sunday no call.

Monday: "I just got ur eml at wrk and I am so pissed, I wanted to see you, " even sent a TM saying the same.

Monday PM: He calls again. I explnd "had a great time when we first dated but was not going to go through the "make date then blow off like last year..it is unacceptable" He said he did not remember what or why last year ended up the way it did and he was feeling horrible.

Monday: Asked what I was doing for XMAS eve...told him had plans.

Tuesday(XMAS): called me from his rents house to go for a XMAS drink. Nothing was open so he came here,big mistake. I was showing him the changes I made to my house since last he was there...got to the top of the stairs and he just attacked me, picked me up and took me to the bedroom. No SEX...but playing around. (meanwhile I have not had sex for 15 months due to mastectomy~ all better now...) He stayed for hours, watching TV and caressing my hair, staring at me saying how beautiful I was. He was going OOT next day. Did not hear from him until....

Jan 8th: LM saying he was still OOT til Monday and wanted to know my plans for the week. I did not call back. I was OOT.

January 10th: I LM : "I'm returning your call"...more professional tone as I was with co-workers.

Now Nothing......

WTF—————?

He sounds like an irresponsible idiot, how does someone disappear for over a year and not remember why? Especially when you were going in for major surgery, very thoughtless. He could have at least sent some flowers as any friend would.

And now he's back to his old tricks...if I were you I would exact some Scorp revenge and drop him like an anchor...he needs to learn a lesson...

He had no idea I had BC....I was not diagnosed yet at that time. He stopped calling and I forgot about him...until he popped up last month out of the blue.

I just had reconstruction 2 months ago...

I just don't get it....thanks softcookie

I'm sorry for you illness, I guess he gets a pass for not knowing. But he still sounds unreliable and immature, I wouldn't waste too much time on him...

Hi Sophie,

43 years old and never married?? Sounds like he has commitment issues too. I used to date a Virgo who only seemed to want to be with me during the holidays. For 2 years straight in a row he Fully commited until right before Valentine's day and then nothing. He tried that crap again this year and I told him to erase my number and e-mail and never contact me again. I'm a scorp too who just started dating a Leo. I'm already confused by the relationship. It's awesome and scary at the same time. Read my posts under "The Leo and his Den". The intensity and passion is almost suffocating. Got to keep my Scorpio head on my shoulders for this one. 😉

Proverbs- the whole stste knows him well, he is a coach at a hockey team for the state. Very well respected. Does a lot of charity work and everyone says so many reat things about him.. Maybe he just sucks at the dating thing.

GSlove---wow...right before V-day?
Does that mean he didn't want to have to buy flowers? ;-X

I don't think it's a sign issue...I just think it's how some men are.

His ego may have been bruised since I waited 3 full days to call him back. Granted he did call to make plans Saturday night while he was still OOT, but hell, 10 days after he came over XMAS?

And I have many 40+ friends whom never got married. Leo had a 6 year relationship with a a woman who had children (that was over 4 years ago)

sorry for the typos, spilled soda on my keyboard few days ago...so some of my keys still stock...:-)

lol..i find it interesting .. had a thing with this leo once...every time we run into each other..had the best time..the thing was only ..it kind of happens every year and a half 😢

Hey! Any updates on this??

yeah i wanna know too!! it's been about a year now..maybe i should try to run into my lion again ? lol

Hello my friends!
Have been out of town. Heres the update: He never returned my return call. Hmm...
So...I decided to text him last Sunday, as I need some "lovin" hehehehe (as I know there will be no "relationship"..he texted me immediately:

ME: "Been OOT for a few days, got my butt kicked by my customers in Chicago..want to get together for a drink this week?"
LEO: "Hey you! Would love to get together!"
ME: "How about Thursday"
LEO: "That could work if I am in town, will know tomorrow"
ME "When you find out let me know.."
LEO: "OK will do... and I will rub your butt to make it feel better!!"
ME: "I'll do your's and you do mine"
LEO: "Now we r talking...the problem is I won't stop at your ass..."
ME: Sounds Great...call me when you know....
LEO Will do

Guess what? Never heard from him.
I send him a text Wednesday "Are you in town tomorrow?"...never heard a damn thing.

Here's the deal: It has been 2 years since I have had sex. I am trying to get some action (SEX) before next Thursday as I am having another breast surgery and have 8 weeks of healing to do.

He is the perfect guy...huge sexual chemistry and passion....

He is the perfect guy to get some action with...not the PERFECT GUY.
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yeap.. planing with them gets you nowhere..has to be that there and then ..or you'll just end up waiting until u literally run into him again..or at least it was always so wih me and this leo..and he was always the one saying he'll call, that he won't forget, that we'll finally have our 5 min..never called ...so we had our 5 min (although literally 5min 😢 when i ran into him the next time (after a year and a half mind you)..at which point i just went for it, he didn;t turn away ..but it was 5 min ..and he never called after ..i think he wanted me as much as i him ..i want to think that..but yeah ..guess i'll never really now what he thinks of me ....hmmmm

Funny you mention that upss...

Christmas he called me at 4:00 and was over my house by 8:00.
Other times its ALWAYS last minute...
Anytime I have planned anything with him further than that very day...he just flakes!!

So I guess I planned it too late in the week...but why would he not text me saying "out of town, lets reschedule"

Maybe you should just call him or TM him like I did.
I sucked it up and just did it..

I am actually watching Leo who's on tv right now (the college hockey games are televised)

Argggg!!!

The games is at a college that is literally 20 minutes from me...

sometimes ppl just forget to cancel , if it wasn't totaly a set thing, like date,place time..but what i would like to ask why does he says he is gonna call , without me saying anything in that direction, it was his words, "are you home tomorrow, is this still your number, we have to see each other "

haha..well maybe u just text him , hi stranger..looking good, i'll be waiting after game at gate blabla...

UPSS...it's a man thing...not a LEO thing..the "I'll call you" but never does has been an issue for all woman worldwide! HA! Is he a F++ buddy for you?

As far as the text goes, I already TM him on Wed with no reponse...so not doing that again. AND...don't want him thinking I am actually watching him on TV ..hahahaha! He'll think I'm a freak!

lol yeah ..too true (although i didn't mean a simple polite sentence at the end of date saying i'll call you ..i meant him saying it in a way that you just have to think he really wants you )

lol yeah wish he was my fbuddy..he's an old story and sooo over (i think) basically it was always awesome chemistry but impossible timing..

I think LeoKitty may be right. Maybe he just broke up with someone and was feeling lonely over the holidays. People, men in particular, tend to call all of the exes after a break up to try and take away the pain. If you play it cool he just might come around when he get's over the other relationship. If you have any feelings for him at all then don't be his rebound girl.

thank you GS....even though he really was not an "ex" but someone I went on 4 dates with and never from again.POOF

I am laying low...oh well...another 8 weeks w/out sex (can't be touched and much healing after Thursdays surgery)...ufff....what is a girl to do? :-p

Back to DD batteries..hahahhaha...unless I can find someone to shag w/in 5 days!!! HAHAHA

Well you know you could find someone if you really wanted to :-)That's what Match.com is all about.

Hey All!
I have decided.... first time shame on you, second time shame on me.

Not worth the frustration. Have not heard a word from him.

But if I read him as he has been, he will text or call at some point.

Two can play at this game. So when he does make contact to go out (always a last minute "What are your plans tonight" I'll tell him "ya, lets meet up tonight...I'll call you in a little bit" or make plans for a specific place.

Then I will go **POOF**

I just made the same decision Sister!! Check out my posts under "The lion and his Den". Of course now that we are letting go they will probably come back and we won't want them anymore. LOL

Like I said air with fire and water with earth .....

Scorpio's go very well with Capricorns, Virgos,Cancer and Pisces. They do not go with Leo or Aquarius the opposite sign is Taurus.

GSlove:
I saw your posts on what happening with your LEO....I think its just the fact that you made yourself too available so he feels he has control and you will always be willing/able/ready to see him or talk with him. TAKE IT AWAY.

Do not answer the phone, DO not text back,IGNORE HIM. You have been too available. His ego will be hurt.

All I can tell you is it may backfire or it may work.

When I did not return LEO's call for 4 days and I finally returned it, he never called back.

I could also blow him off like he did me and never talk to me again or call and wonder what happened. Either way....treat those how you want to be treated.

He is a typical man, Leo or not. They need the chase. Enjoy your life, do fun things for yourself, projects, whatever. Us woman tend to obsess about men and "what if's" "why does he do this"....and forget about what makes us happy. We need to be 100% confident and happy within ourselves before we can be happy with any one else.

Here is a great book..."Ten Stupid Things Woman Do to Mess up Their Lives"