Leo's & Gifts

OK so I want to send Mr Leo a gift as a sort of thank you for all his time and attention - he finished work early a few times to take me out and would not let me spend a penny. I tried to pay but he insisted that it was his treat.

So I would like to send him a gift in return. Is it ok to send one so early on and will he appreciate it, or will he think it's too much?

Thanks.

Sleep with him and tell him how incredibly awesome he was?

T .. most Leo's I know are very spiritual, in their own personal ways, of course .. so maybe send him a book about the mysteries of life, different ways for spiritual growth, though, not religious.

Write him a poem about how he makes you smile.

** Sleep with him and tell him how incredibly awesome he was?

That's a given

That's very sweet of you thetis, it's not too early and he will definitely appreciate the thought.

But I wouldn't make the gift expensive, the best gifts are from the heart. 🙂

I love giving my leo gifts...flowers, chocolate candy, find out what his favorite band is and give him a T-Shirt (authentic) if you can try ebay, favorite cd, give something thoughtful, try a nice candlelit dinner and nice bottle of wine, don't skimp on your leo, pull out all the stops. Basically find out what his interest are and go with that, good mind blowing sex is a grandiose idea, the biggest gift of them all and use BIG, EXPLOSIVE words in bed, he will love it. Stroke that ego all night, he will absolutely purr.

Well he is in Spain so taking him out for a coffee or what DK said is sort of difficult!

"don't skimp on your leo, pull out all the stops"

Tiki I'm glad you said that because what I was considering was getting him an Ipod because he LOVES music and when I showed him mine he was really taken with it and he doesn't have one.

I was just worried he would think it too expensive a present, but he must have spent a fortune on me during the time we spent so I figured that would at least make up for it.

And he already knows I think he's amazing, when I like something about someone I tell them. 🙂

Oh girl do it! LOL! He will love it! My leo loves the little gestures but he also loves the nice big gestures, I love spoiling people but I had to eeeeease up on it because I can get out of control when it comes to friends and family but yes that would be a really nice gesture of affection and he would definitely appreciate it.

Fantastic thanks Tiki!

Someone else suggested another gift that was more of a smaller, but more sentimental gesture so I think I will do both.........although perhaps not together lol. 😛

Load naked pictures of yourself accompanied by music on the Ipod. Alright I'll stop lol.

figures that an air sign would post this... my mate's camera phone is the worst.

Figures that a fire sign would post this.

Unless a sneaky little Aqua were to steal the footage and proceed posting said footage on those sites. I thought Leos liked attention lol?

can't even take a dump w/o it being photographed.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

Geez... Exactly how many people have Virgo rising? Seems like half the people on Earth do.

HAHAHAHAHAHHAHHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! I'd to crap my pants from laughter if I ever saw those.

I always have more clean boxers if I soil the ones I'm wearing so bring on them pictures. I'm willing to risk my clean crisp Hanes' for a good laugh.

Prring Leo, you seem quite knowledgable when it comes to astrology. Question for you that came out of the cap board.

Does your venus sign trump your sun sign when it comes to love?

For example...if a loyal Leo had a venus in Gem, are they more prone to cheat or would the sun sign limit your venus tendencies?

Hmm...wait, a Leo can't have a venus in Gem...but anyway, you get the picture.

Thetis go with your gut on this one, Ipod isn't too fancy considering its a long distance relationship and he will enjoy something that was specially gifted for him and plus he will look at it and think fond thoughts of your thoughtful gesture, nothings too big for a leo, leo men love gifts, so don't worry about splurging, I did it and it didn't backfire on me so I think you will be fine.

so prringleo I hear virgo's and leo's don't mesh well, Do you find it difficult to deal with leo men? Jus curious, you are very knowledgable inregards to astrology. Something in your chart would have to balance you out with a leo male right? Hope I'm not prying too much, just a thought.

I wasn't going to say anything lol. But now that you bring it up I just might.

yeah i hear you LK, she said she had 2 gifts, one not so big and the other was the Ipod, I personally think he will be okay with it either way but hey I'm not psychic so this is why I told her to follow her instincts. Being that its long distance he would appreciate it, I wooed my leo early on and yes it was rough at first, very rough but he never not appreciated the little things I did.

Wow prringleo, thanks for the insight, i should have you do me and my leo's chart...I will post and maybe you will have time to go at it.

I don't think the IPOD is too much, Thetis isn't exactly on food stamps

crapping plastic garden gnome

They make those? Crap I need to hit up Ebay for one of those suckers.

LeoKitten,

You're lucky you have so much virgo in you! I have the moon and venus in Cancer...totally lame, if you ask me. 😉 I'd prefer the virgo.

It sounds like he spent a mint on her, I'm just saying that Thetis is a little older and in a different tax bracket. That's not too much.

And yes, you do have too much Virgo...

Why offset his gesture by paying for you by going out and buying a gift that large so early on? Why get him a gift period? If he insists that it's his treat, then thank him and sincerely mean it.

Have you two established any exclusivity? It's way too early for a gift. If you get him anything, get him a card that simply says "Thank you".

Thanks Prring Leo! You've inspired me to learn more about astrology. I'm getting the feeling that my cap's other planetary influences are incompatible with my own, haha.

spending that much money on a 2 week old relationship might make him feel obligated.

the original gesture was to say "thank you" was it not? make something, just keep it simple and sentimental.

...or are you trying to buy him?

dk go to www.perpetualkid.com

there is a whole SERIES of odd gnomes.

OH MY FAWKING GAWD!!!!! THIS IS LIKE!! OH MY GAWD! JACKPOT! Thanks LK. I'm going on a shopping spree. HOLY CRAP HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!

*** spending that much money on a 2 week old relationship might make him feel obligated.

Then should she feel obligated because of all of the money that he dropped on her? I initially said that it should be something simple, but the IPOD is something practical that he would like and use. And it's not too romantic so he wouldn't feel obligated.

Now go clip your coupons and let Thetis be... 😉

Prring Leo,

So your Mars can affect your relationships? I thought it touched more on how one communicates?

Holy crap I hope I can get this stuff in by tomorrow. OMG KEY CHAINS! FLASHING LICENSE PLATE BORDERS!!!!!! WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN ALL MY LIFE!

Then should she feel obligated because of all of the money that he dropped on her?

looks like she already does... 😉

ROBOTS!?!?!?!?!?! HOLY SHIT LOL! This is why I love Leos. They know where all the cool stuff is.

I dated a Leo. She moved away. I don't want to talk about it. But holy crap I love this site hahahahahaha! I literally need to buy everything.

I don't know. My cap guy has a gem moon and he is NOT a communicator by any means, hahaha!

It's going to be odd paraphenalia galore by tomorrow morning. I'll probably end up playing with the boxes and bubble wrap rather than the toys themselves.

OK well this is the reason I asked for the opinion of other Leo's, as I myself worried that it may be too much.

The gift idea was NOT to buy him at all, and regardless of whether or not this is going to be a full-blown relationship we have agreed to keep in touch and stay friends. The main reason I wanted to get an Ipod is because he loves music and he really liked mine, so it was the first thing that sprung to mind.......because he liked it not because of the price tag.

However, I was not intending on purchasing an 80G video phone or anything like that, I can get a brand new video Nano for ?129.00.

Considering what he spent on me I didn't really see it as being totally extravagant and as I said the onus was more on getting him something I KNEW he would like.

I do appreciate everyone's points though, Proverbs what you suggested sounds like a good idea too.

In any case I've not went ahead with anything, I'm just at the pondering stage because I really would like to say thank you.

And I'm not into buying anyone's affections at all, I just like to spoil people I like if I can......Jupiter on the Ascendent in the 12th house lol.

Thanks again everyone I do appreciate the input. It is early days so I don't want to overdo it.

"Buy him a good CD with a sweet poem or card for now..."

Now that could be a good idea Chocolate, we like the same sort of music but there are some good British bands he's only semi-heard of. I know what his music tastes are already so I could get him a couple of CD's of good UK bands I know he would like.

Although I like Nyx's idea best I have to say lol. 😛

Just a shame he's so far away!

RFL I have already sent a card to his parents at their restaurant to say thanks for making our stay so enjoyable - we met them already in June but it was nice to catch up with them again, and they totally went out of their way to look after us.

I will however be sending him a card, I just wanted to have a gift to go with it!

Well I bought a couple of CD's for him last night - so I will be posting them shortly. I'm going to send them with a small card which I'm going to attempt to write in Spanish lol, just to show a bit of an effort. 🙂

He loves snowboarding, handy seeing as I live in Scotland, so when he comes to visit in December I'm going to take him up north. I ski very well so I said I would teach him if he likes. And maybe I'll try my hand at snowboarding!

lol Chocolate I'm with you on that one! 😛

Hey chocolate, thanks for all your posts.

Mind games are not for me I have to say, I had it done to me for a while by someone else (but that's another story) the only problem I have is impatience. When I want to be with someone I want to be with someone, I LOVE having someone to fuss over. And it's hard when they are not there to do that. When I lavish affection I lavish it big time, that's just who I am.

As for "enjoy the moments" lol that is so true, my family and closest friends keep saying they have never seen me so happy. 🙂

"Allow for him to miss you"

I know what you mean. In a way I like that that, I like having to miss someone......if it's all out there for me straight away I often wonder if I really do want it. Having the time to think about it allows me to see whether or not, once a few weeks have passed, I still truly want it (Gemini moon lol).

It's just hard when it's in the initial stages because I'm so consumed with getting to know them better and spending time with them. But on the flipside time apart will let us both know if the time we spent together really did mean something. Although already......I know it did to me.

I have to say I feel sort of stupid in a way, never ever dated a Leo male (and don't even know of any females!) but you lot in here have been so helpful and warm..........I can't help but kick myself lol what have I been missing out on for so long!

Well a lot of what I have read so far says go by his actions, and honestly he could not do enough for me. He's text me a couple of times since I've been home (in English too which I think is really sweet that he makes the effort) saying that he is sorry he cannot take more time out to talk but he is still very busy at work - although by the end of this month things will be quieter - but that he is thinking of me.

I am so smitten I cannot even begin to tell you. He is just a ray of sunshine on an otherwise dark day. 🙂

Honestly I feel so sad because I keep going on about it lol but I have never met anyone like him.

Leo's are ruled by the sun, well that sounds about right, I feel warm just basking in his glow. 🙂