Leo Girl & Ex-Conflicted

I really like my Leo. I also care for her and respect her but the thing is I'm still trying to mentally get over my ex. What do I do?

You don't DO anything until you ARE in fact, over your Ex....?

Take some time out and get yourself sorted, it's better for both of you 🙂

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Posted by wagtail
You don't DO anything until you ARE in fact, over your Ex....?

Take some time out and get yourself sorted, it's better for both of you 🙂

Thanks. I just don't want to lose her in the process...

That's the part I'm having an issue with.

Posted by vanballmoos

Posted by wagtail
You don't DO anything until you ARE in fact, over your Ex....?

Take some time out and get yourself sorted, it's better for both of you 🙂

Thanks. I just don't want to lose her in the process...

That's the part I'm having an issue with.

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Yeh I'll be honest - that could happen.

I've had a Libra pursuing me for a little while- but he was also keeping his Ex-options open - not because they had a chance but because she was still on his mind...
So, the brakes went on- (mucho appreciated on my end) but now he's come back around about two months later, after completely putting her behind him and I'm ZERO interest now... It'd take a bit of work to get meh back on the reg...
Back of the queue buddy.

BUT if he'd played it like- stringing me along while getting over her, I wouldn't be taking his calls at all...

Posted by wagtail

Posted by vanballmoos

Posted by wagtail
You don't DO anything until you ARE in fact, over your Ex....?

Take some time out and get yourself sorted, it's better for both of you 🙂

Thanks. I just don't want to lose her in the process...

That's the part I'm having an issue with.

Yeh I'll be honest - that could happen.

I've had a Libra pursuing me for a little while- but he was also keeping his Ex-options open - not because they had a chance but because she was still on his mind...
So, the brakes went on- (mucho appreciated on my end) but now he's come back around about two months later, after completely putting her behind him and I'm ZERO interest now... It'd take a bit of work to get meh back on the reg...
Back of the queue buddy.

BUT if he'd played it like- stringing me along while getting over her, I wouldn't be taking his calls at all...

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Ugh yea you're right. I have no intention of stringing anyone along. Like I said I respect her. Let me ask you this since you were on the receiving end, by him telling you this did you think in some way that he must have cared for you and could've seen some kind of future with you for him to be so honest with you?

@vanballmoos
It's probs not just a Leo thing-
I mean, Honesty is typically appreciated by either party in a relationship righ'?

I would think highly of a man who vocalized that, yes. As long as my instincts weren't telling me he was talking jibber-jabber just to run game.
And as long as he followed through.
You say- I need to take time, I have serious intentions about you but my Ex is occupying head space and it's not fair to you so Ima jump off here and sort it.
Then do that. Jump off, don't text- call- message on and off or keep me updated. SORT IT.

You're a Man- act like it. A Leo woman wants her man to deal with his shi and keep it locked down without running to her for constant approval.
You become a Team when things get committed, but until then do you.
Just sort yourself out - then hit her up when you got her 100% on your mind.
It's worthwhile 😄