Leo guy confusing a pisces woman

Disappearing- appearing again - and then disappearing again! what shit!

So there is Leo guy who has been a good friend. Good enough that we discussed personal life quite often, but not as close to know or demand every small detail. He knows that I liked him. But since he never seemed serious I closed the chapter and cut him off a year ago. Suddenly he turned up on new years in my city for office work and wanted to catch up for drinks. He got all upset for not being in touch most of last year.. and wanted to know everything.. every tiny detail about my personal life. Just a matter of chance I was actually singly right now.. he asked all possible questions and when i asked him why should he care, or why does it matter to him.. he said it does a great deal.. he mentioned he is looking for a serious relationship.. he gave a lot of hints... but then after that evening he just left!

He has done this several times in the past as well. Dont know why he stirs me up like that... hate it! can someone help explain if this is normal Leo behaviour please..

To add, the signs that I keep getting from him are:

He is overtly chivalrous around me.. Will always open the door of the car, pull the chair for me.. will make sure I stay back for an extra drink and drop me back home..Will occasionally give a very warm look in my eyes. If I dont look into his eyes, he will raise his glass for cheers and make sure to point out that I must look in his eyes for the toast.. He will keep prodding about the guys in my life and keep bringing back my ex's to know if I have any feelings for them! Why all this? I dont get it.. 😢

He has never given me any special gifts though..He also always compared his salary to mine (Though he was fairly senior and well placed.. making good money.. I used to make more money than him earlier... not anymore though.. now we are at par)

Please help guys!!

Maybe he's claimed you, but doesn't want committment. Like, he feels like you're his and he has special privilege in your life, but doesn't want to commit to a relationship with you, or at least not yet? Possessive but without a good reason to be. Haha. I'm not sure. Though, it seems like he wants to be apart of your life (if you believe what he says is the truth), but he doesn't know when and he's having a hard time giving up what he has now for it. Or, even though he says he wants to be something with you, he has other options that he hasn't fully dismissed yet. As for the reasoning, it might not be something genuinely good. If he has paid you no mind in a year, it makes me wonder, why does he show potential interest in you now? He could be desperate or some of the things holding him back could have cleared up, such as, you're single now, etc, yet they're still holding him back from going for it head on? I don't know. I'm basically just talking to myself at this point. Just, take time to feel out his intentions, and if he does make a direct move, just remember that if he's disappeared after showing interest before, being in a relationship may not make him stop. Or, if you're not interested, then there's nothing to worry about or think about too much.

Posted by Scenic
Maybe he's claimed you, but doesn't want committment. Like, he feels like you're his and he has special privilege in your life, but doesn't want to commit to a relationship with you, or at least not yet? Possessive but without a good reason to be. Haha. I'm not sure. Though, it seems like he wants to be apart of your life (if you believe what he says is the truth), but he doesn't know when and he's having a hard time giving up what he has now for it. Or, even though he says he wants to be something with you, he has other options that he hasn't fully dismissed yet. As for the reasoning, it might not be something genuinely good. If he has paid you no mind in a year, it makes me wonder, why does he show potential interest in you now? He could be desperate or some of the things holding him back could have cleared up, such as, you're single now, etc, yet they're still holding him back from going for it head on? I don't know. I'm basically just talking to myself at this point. Just, take time to feel out his intentions, and if he does make a direct move, just remember that if he's disappeared after showing interest before, being in a relationship may not make him stop. Or, if you're not interested, then there's nothing to worry about or think about too much.

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hello there.. from my personal experience with Leos, if they keep disapearing on you then I suggest you don't get involved emotionally. Take it for what it is. I have been back and forth with a Leo for about 8 years. He always comes and goes. He always leaves the minute we start to get intimate. I am so use to this already that I just see him as a friend and nothing more.I know not to involve my feeling with him and just have fun. recently tho I did tell him that I am ready to close that chapter in my life and he said he understood why. Its like they know what they are doing and push your buttons just to see what they can get away with. My dad was a leo and he never acted like this with my mom or any other of his female friends. He was always loyal and showed that he truly cared for the person he was with. So it really depepnds on the person. I suggest you put your foot down and be striaght forward with him. Don't let him walk all over you just to get an ego boost because from what your saying this is exactly what it sounds like and your feeding him. tell him how much you hate the hot and cold bullshit and you are not going to stand for it no more. To be honest he probably disappears because he knows he can come and go as he pleases when dealing with you. He may care for you but probably not enough for him to change his ways. please be careful, leos are romantics at heart and they can sweep you off your feet, but they can sweep you under the rug and forget you also. good luck and hope things work out for the best.

LeoLiza, SensualCancer..

Kudos. Very beautiful interpretations 🙂

Posted by SensualCancerChika
hello there.. from my personal experience with Leos, if they keep disapearing on you then I suggest you don't get involved emotionally. Take it for what it is. I have been back and forth with a Leo for about 8 years. He always comes and goes. He always leaves the minute we start to get intimate. I am so use to this already that I just see him as a friend and nothing more.I know not to involve my feeling with him and just have fun. recently tho I did tell him that I am ready to close that chapter in my life and he said he understood why. Its like they know what they are doing and push your buttons just to see what they can get away with. My dad was a leo and he never acted like this with my mom or any other of his female friends. He was always loyal and showed that he truly cared for the person he was with. So it really depepnds on the person. I suggest you put your foot down and be striaght forward with him. Don't let him walk all over you just to get an ego boost because from what your saying this is exactly what it sounds like and your feeding him. tell him how much you hate the hot and cold bullshit and you are not going to stand for it no more. To be honest he probably disappears because he knows he can come and go as he pleases when dealing with you. He may care for you but probably not enough for him to change his ways. please be careful, leos are romantics at heart and they can sweep you off your feet, but they can sweep you under the rug and forget you also. good luck and hope things work out for the best.

This sounds exactly like what was going on with my Leo 😢
It's not fair.

Posted by iteen
Disappearing- appearing again - and then disappearing again! what shit!

So there is Leo guy who has been a good friend. Good enough that we discussed personal life quite often, but not as close to know or demand every small detail. He knows that I liked him. But since he never seemed serious I closed the chapter and cut him off a year ago. Suddenly he turned up on new years in my city for office work and wanted to catch up for drinks. He got all upset for not being in touch most of last year.. and wanted to know everything.. every tiny detail about my personal life. Just a matter of chance I was actually singly right now.. he asked all possible questions and when i asked him why should he care, or why does it matter to him.. he said it does a great deal.. he mentioned he is looking for a serious relationship.. he gave a lot of hints... but then after that evening he just left!

He has done this several times in the past as well. Dont know why he stirs me up like that... hate it! can someone help explain if this is normal Leo behaviour please..

smh. the leo i know keeps "popping" up as well. i, like you, cut him off and figured i would never talk to him again. he has recently resurfaced to "stir up" emotions again, and i hate it too! (im a scorpio).

this time around ive learned to not take it seriously and go on with my life. if he contacts me he does, but i am not waiting on it, nor do i feel like i need to initiate any conversation. he mentioned the other day when we were last messaging "we're cool now". its really just annoying, but its like that saying you cant control how someone treats you, but you can control how u react. move on and live your life and dont give it much thought.

oh, and dont let him in on all the details of your relationship status or if you're dating or whatever. you may have already told him, but i've learned to keep some info to myself. someone one who comes in and out of your life doesnt deserve to know everything, eff that

Posted by leoliza
He's probably thinking —How could she just leave ME like that!? I'm so great, doesn't she get it? I'm gonna show her how great I am, then leave??_?? Leos literally think like that. It's silly, but we think we are the best, and when others don't see than in us, or are able to pass us up, it scars our ego, and if we feel that way for you, our hearts. If someone leaves me once, I never trust them again..as I would not leave someone I was truly serious with.

lol, my goodness SMH