Leo leo girl pls I am confused

I'm chasing that Leo girl for a couple of months. Its not only about sex or flirt. I have feelings for her. I told her sweet things many times because I mean it. Finally I told her that I want to be with her and we kissed each other. When we are outside, we spend nice time together. Its like we date in a funny strange way. However we see each other rarely, mainly because she has a lot of work. I understand that and I'm telling it all the time. I'm giving her all the time she needs. I know she likes me too. The problem is that she doesn't talk too much and sometimes she acts shy or distant, and I have to guess about her feelings. She never tells me how she feels. I'm afraid she will be mad at me if I ask about her feelings. I always have to be the first to text her or the first to call her. She doesn't do that and she goes out with me when she decides. Nevertheless I'm in love with her, but still haven't told that to her. Should I do that or wait? I am ready to fight for her heart no matter what, but I am confused. Pls give me an advice what should I do? Thank you in advance!

Posted by xdimplez
just tell her you love her... do it...

I told her, but she said that she doesn't believe that. She even stopped sending me kisses at skype. I'm not sure that she kisses me truly. It is very confusing. In my opinion she doesn't want a relationship at this point of her life.

Posted by leoliza
"I love you" is the grandest gesture there is. She's either a)not that into you or b)scared. Maybe come forward then pull back a bit and see if she misses you.

Maybe not that into me. She was very lovely and happy with me the week before and suddenly after 3-4 days, she says she doesn't want a kiss, but in general she wants. She doesn't want to tell me how she feels. She says that she is that kind of person. I asked her to give me a chance and to be honest. She says ok (I'm not sure if she is telling the truth). I intend not to text her 3-4 days in order to give her some time. Will that be ok ?

dont tell her you love her, leos are very affectionate so if shes not showing obvious clues maybe there's something in the way youre not noticing about what she wants

give her the independence she wants with some outright public flirting. you gotta play the run away, lalala you'll never catch me game with her to win her... hah

what is your sun sign?

Posted by aurora
I have a shy female Leo friend, and she is usually very cautious at the beginning. She is sensitive, but not weak at all. She is just aware that having "feelings", feeling butterflies, is not enough to start a relationship. She has to be sure that the man is a good man, trustworthy, honest... Couple of months may not be enough to know that.
Maybe try to be her friend for a start.

I just looked at her chart and she is Leo moon, Mercury and and Mars in Cancer and Venus in Virgo if that helps.

I was going to post and ask OP if she possibly has Merc or Mars in Cancer 🙂 I have both, he has really described me - I have feelings, lots of them and feel them very very much thanks to the cancer placements (moon too), BUT that fooping Merc in cancer makes me very quiet about them and I find it soooo difficult to express them coherently, they usually come out in a complete jumble - I have to think and ponder on something for hours if not days before I can try to voice it (this is to do with love relationships mainly) and when I do voice it it comes out wrong - recently I tried to explain my position on something to my Taurus and I swear it took about 4 hours to try to explain it in a way that he could understand it, and because of the jumbled mess of my explanation he was upset for most of that time until I could finally get some logic out of the Mercury - I felt it but couldn't explain it - I go quiet becuase I need the time it takes to feel all aspects of the feelings i'm having before I can talk about them.

Oh, Just saw the date, this is an oldish post - wonder what happened?