Lady Leo falling for Leo man

This topic was created in the Leo forum by LadyLeox3 on Tuesday, July 31, 2012 and has 9 replies.

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@LadyLeox3
14 YearsLeo

I'm falling fast and deep for a Leo man.
His charm is winning me over. He is the gentleman i've been looking for. (It's only been 3 weeks)
(Yes, i've slept with him (yes i know it was soon) but the sex it off the chain!)

He always calls me beautiful.
I am always the first person he text when he gets off work.
He tells me he is addicted to me.
He makes sure to tell me goodnight every night.
We live 30mins away from eachother, so we only get to see eachother twice a week, so he reminds me that he misses me.
He reasures me when he knows that i need it. He keeps telling me that he's not running and that he is dedicated to making this work.

The only down side is, I'm very insecure, I've been hurt a lot in my past, so im so afraid of getting hurt by him. Its making it very difficult for me to open up and feel comfortable around him and im afraid this is going to bore him and make him leave.

I need advice on how to get over this...
the do's and dont's when you start off with a Leo man...
I want him to stay around...i like this.

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@BigGirlPanties
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Advice: Don't try to manipulate your behavior to suit a man by his horoscope sign.
Advice: Seek therapy to find the core issues of your insecurity and how to treat that
Advice: SLOW THE HELL DOWN!! 3 weeks and he is *addicted*? Hos is addiction love?

Love you, know you, find your security within you...

Thats my advice. I am a leo.

GOod luck

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@callmegenesis
14 Years

I'm going to throw this out here for sake of discussion, and knowledge of what is out there. What LadyLeo has described in her post is not a healthy way to begin a relationship. Lady, go Google sociopath, narcissist and psychopathic traits. If I had not been through this with my ex Scorp, I wouldn't be suggesting this. It sounds like you are in the "lovebombing" stage by him. Just do a little research on this and make your own conclusion. I also agree with BGP....slow down. I know it's hard to do when you think you have found your "soul mate" and you have been hurt. This isn't necessarily a Leo thing you're describing, it's a much bigger picture. Just be careful.

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@LadyLeox3
14 YearsLeo

Posted by callmegenesis
I'm going to throw this out here for sake of discussion, and knowledge of what is out there. What LadyLeo has described in her post is not a healthy way to begin a relationship. Lady, go Google sociopath, narcissist and psychopathic traits. If I had not been through this with my ex Scorp, I wouldn't be suggesting this. It sounds like you are in the "lovebombing" stage by him. Just do a little research on this and make your own conclusion. I also agree with BGP....slow down. I know it's hard to do when you think you have found your "soul mate" and you have been hurt. This isn't necessarily a Leo thing you're describing, it's a much bigger picture. Just be careful.

Ohh this just freaked me out a bit.

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@CrazyConfusedGemini000
14 Years

I would say just take it slow. Let things happen naturally and dont change your self for any one. Just be you. Leos can sence fakeness and dishonesty real quick. If they ask you something chances are they already kniw the answer. They just want to see if you will be honest. They test you alot. But looks like he likes who you are so keep beeing you. 🙂

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@callmegenesis
14 Years

Also remember that YOU are the prize. You are not auditioning for his leading lady role. Sounds like your self esteem and self confidence have taken a hit with the previous failed relationships. It is a huge red flag when someone says they are "addicted" to you very early on in the relationship. You are who you are. You shouldn't be afraid of boring a man. A real man in a real relationship will find everything about you is interesting. Just don't go all in right now. Miss a few phone calls and don't be so eager to answer his texts. Also sex with a sociopath/narc is ALWAYS off the hook. That is their MO....get you hooked emotionally to them then the games begin.

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@cassibird89
14 Years

Just basically what they all have to say ^
Go into every relationship like its your first ever! NEVER bring your insecurities or past baggage with you...every new person is a new chapter...a new chance..and if it ends shitty, it ends shitty...but you know how to get back on your feet, heal, and move on with your life!
Do take it slow however...let a friendship form between you two first...which trust will come alone with that...because any great long lasting relationships are the ones that are of two best friends.
Best luck to you love!