Leo male & the 2nd date!!!!

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Need to know what to do!!!! I can not wait to see how this plays out! Any tips or tricks I need to keep in mind for a 2nd date with my leo candidate? Do's and dont's? Anything!? I plan on being myself of course, but any specifics will be appreciated! Thank you & read below if you need to know what happened to determine!! 😄


THE FIRST DATE: We met online, spoke for a week prior to meeting and had awesome conversation via txt/app!! He asked to get together this weekend and then yesterday finally met up! We met at his favorite local wine-bar and the awesome conversation continued and was magnificent! We talked about everything and there were so many laughs and the chemistry seemed to be strong on both our behalfs and we are both very good looking and outgoing people - he's new to the area and doesn't know very many people and mentioned he wants to go camping before it gets too hot and happened to also say "just need to find a partner in crime for the adventure...", of course my scorpio heart melted!! We had a great time, as we were leaving we decided to celebrate the holiday yesterday (420) he jumped in my car, it was a bit sketchy to just smoke in the car so he offered we just drive over to his place up the road. He had this super cool apartment and his dog was THE SWEETEST!!!! We relaxed on the couch and he put on a zombie movie (for me because he happens to know my love for zombies lol) we talked and talked and at one point our knees were closely touching and we scooted a little closer. He was such a gentleman! It was time to go and he walked me out to my car with his dog. He gave me a very warm hug and said "Chelsea... it was a pleasure to meet you I had a great time please get home safe." Lol and I got in my car and the song "Dear Future Husband" was playing.... HAHAHAHA I died.
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Posted by Montgomery
I think you're already doing it right.

I'm happy for you. 🙂


I have to ask (because I ALWAYS do)--

where are your Moons?




Thank you!!!!! I think I am too, but I find myself feeling so giddy with anticipation ahhh its killer lol. We have not yet contacted eachother (yes its just the day after meeting) and I am curious with a leo --- should I contact him or wait for him?! Lol I am sooo over-analyzing this but he is so heavy on mind, it was a dream date with a dream guy I can't help it lol!!

My chart is listed on my profile, but I am scorpio with a taurus moon. I wish I knew his moon sign!!
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Posted by Ssupes
More of the same. Just don't give more than you can keep giving up front.

If you back off or withdraw he might get a little confused/insecure. Won't go well then. Communication is key to making it successful with him.

Other than that, just enjoy each other and let things go the way how you both feel like they should.

Best advice I can give.



"don't give more than you can keep giving up front." --- Meaning give only what I can keep giving kind of thing? Well lucky for the situation at hand I always myself, as a scorpio I am only altered by negativity - meaning I basically feed off others energies and perceptions and I only change if I sense change which is basically inescapable lol..

We hung out monday (yesterday evening), I am thinking of texting him to see how his week is going (or something along those lines) on Thursday. Is that decent timing/ok? Share your opinions
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Posted by Ssupes
More of the same. Just don't give more than you can keep giving up front.

If you back off or withdraw he might get a little confused/insecure. Won't go well then. Communication is key to making it successful with him.

Other than that, just enjoy each other and let things go the way how you both feel like they should.

Best advice I can give.



"don't give more than you can keep giving up front." --- Meaning give only what I can keep giving kind of thing? Well lucky for the situation at hand I always myself, as a scorpio I am only altered by negativity - meaning I basically feed off others energies and perceptions and I only change if I sense change which is basically inescapable lol..

We hung out monday (yesterday evening), I am thinking of texting him to see how his week is going (or something along those lines) on Thursday. Is that decent timing/ok? Share your opinions

Yes, that's what I mean. Be yourself! That Leo feeds off of you too. Unfortunately, if your feeling down he will also come down with you. If he can't cheer you up then he will be disappointed and butt hurt. Lol. Let him see inside you and learn you. He will study you and see what u like and don't like. When he figures it out be ready for the focus to be on you. Might make u feel suffocated at times.
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Thanks @ssupes! Great advice I appreciate it and good tips too. So you think its OK to txt him tonight?! Or too soon?! When would you as a leo male expect to hear from me?! Or would you prefer to say something to me first?
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Posted by dontgetmewrong
Be kind, sincere, respectful of yourself and be fun. Be talkative and interested in what he has to say. Good conversation they love. They're talkative people. TRUUUUST ME!!!!! The most important though is be sincere. Their hearts are sensitive once they catch real feelings for you.



Thank you @dontgetmewrong!!! So you think its OK to txt him tonight?! Or too soon?! Or would a leo male prefer to say something to me first?
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Posted by Ssupes
Just initiate. He will let you know what's up fairly quick! Lol



Let me know whats up? I like the sound of this... maybe... LOL, curious by what you mean! As in he will tell me if he is not interested, or maybe appear in obvious ways that he's not?

But sweet! As a scorp I dont like games/tests played on me (grrrr lol) when I like someone I want to talk to them, wish it was this way for everyone. Like it probably was in the 1930's lol. I shall update here later/tomorrow, we will see what happens!
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Posted by Ssupes
Just initiate. He will let you know what's up fairly quick! Lol



Let me know whats up? I like the sound of this... maybe... LOL, curious by what you mean! As in he will tell me if he is not interested, or maybe appear in obvious ways that he's not?

But sweet! As a scorp I dont like games/tests played on me (grrrr lol) when I like someone I want to talk to them, wish it was this way for everyone. Like it probably was in the 1930's lol. Think I am gonna wish him a happy earth day and ask about his week. I shall update here later/tomorrow, we will see what happens!
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Posted by Ssupes
Just initiate. He will let you know what's up fairly quick! Lol



Let me know whats up? I like the sound of this... maybe... LOL, curious by what you mean! As in he will tell me if he is not interested, or maybe appear in obvious ways that he's not?

But sweet! As a scorp I dont like games/tests played on me (grrrr lol) when I like someone I want to talk to them, wish it was this way for everyone. Like it probably was in the 1930's lol. Think I am gonna wish him a happy earth day and ask about his week. I shall update here later/tomorrow, we will see what happens!
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Posted by Ssupes
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Posted by Ssupes
Just initiate. He will let you know what's up fairly quick! Lol



Let me know whats up? I like the sound of this... maybe... LOL, curious by what you mean! As in he will tell me if he is not interested, or maybe appear in obvious ways that he's not?

But sweet! As a scorp I dont like games/tests played on me (grrrr lol) when I like someone I want to talk to them, wish it was this way for everyone. Like it probably was in the 1930's lol. Think I am gonna wish him a happy earth day and ask about his week. I shall update here later/tomorrow, we will see what happens!



He won't play games with you. He will let you know what he's thinking and where he wants things to go. Talk to him. Don't shut him out or you'll lose him. Just saying. Be upfront and he will appreciate it.
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I am very confident individual but when it comes to men that make my knees weak it makes my confidence weak too LOL... Is it average for a leo to wait for the woman to txt after a first date or does it mean anything that he hasnt contacted me yet/first? I am super bored work is slow, trying to stay busy and I like to type so here I am :-P
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Posted by Ssupes
Just reach out to the guy if u want. Stop worrying about if it's time or right. Just follow your gut and do what u want.

Best advice I can give



Went ahead and texted him earlier today and didn't get a reply :-/ so bummed!
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Yeah, I would have said wait... following your gut, though

is always a good bet.

Truly, some people will be the exception.

Let the next move be his, but don't stress about it.

Srsly.

And keep us posted.

🙂