Leo man likes me but doesn't say it.

This man I have known for about an year was introduced to me by a college friend. He would call me once in a week and talk to me for 2-3 hours about anything and we connected. Now, we are in the same city and he would want to spend time with me. He loves analyzing the person that I am, my characteristics, the way i behave, things I do. I often joke about how I am a guinea pig to his experiments.

The strange things he would do are, invite me to a party and then drop the plan suddenly. I came to know later that he did end up at that party. This weekend there was a big bash happening in town and he never asked me to come. The problem is that he would always want to hangout with me alone in my house. The other day, some friends were gathering at his house to hangout and he told me , but never invited me. I confronted him 2 days ago and was really angry at him, and he never called back , but texted saying that i say wrong things when I'm angry ( duhhh, Yes angry people do that, but people like you make us angry!!!!!!!!)

His talks suggest that he is attracted to me, he is very subtle. But his actions say a totally different story. We had a fight few days ago, where he asked me for my assignment and I just gave it to him. He in return made changes to few answers of mine which were incorrect and submitted. For the deadline to submit the assignment at noon, he calls me at 11.55 and tells me that I should make changes, which is impossible. During the fight, this "LEO MAN" starts crying. Attention people, he sobs for about 5 minutes.

This is a new turn I have experienced with leo men.

What is this one trying to do? Any insights—

this "LEO MAN" starts crying? Sorry, I just lost it there.

Did you frustrate him in any way? Maybe he was crying because he wanted to help and there were way too many mistakes and didn't have the time?

@Damnata - He said he would cook something nice for me, and he didn't end up coming as one day, he was at some party and the other day he said he was busy with some presentation, but a common friend later told me that he was having drinks with some friends the same night, So I was angry as he kind of lied to me. I was angry for this thing plus the assignment thing. He started crying and said that he doesn't like it when I take him wrong as he really values me.

@geminicandle - The hard thing with this Leo is that he says that he doesn't care about little things that go wrong in his life, but I think he cares too much. He is not honest (I'm not sure if that's the right word to use), but it seems he shows himself to be perfect, and tries hiding the imperfect traits. He is hiding things, which bothers me too much as a Cancerian. :/

@geminicandle - I didn't know the sensitive side. That is news for me. Well, i do agree with you, they are sweethearts 🙂

Posted by geminicandIe
Leos are very, very sensitive. Don't be fooled. Quite insecure too.

But I do love and respect leos.

does this count for leo dominant men??

oh yeah on sensitivity if so.

I gather that he thinks your weak

Only because you haven't put your foot down on his BS

If you guys are dating and you both agreed that you 2 are dating, then it's wrong for him to make plans then go to the place without you

I bet you let him slide and he knows it, then he tells you about hanging out but didn't invite you

So I have to ask are you guys dating or just friends or what?

@TaurusNikki - We are just friends.

Posted by Cancermermaid


I often joke about how I am a guinea pig to his experiments.

You nail it just there... He is playing with you

Is very simple: If a man likes you he will ask you out. All the "exceptions" of that fact are delusional rubbish.

Cut your losses and RUN

@LittleMissPerfect - Well, he is a friend. Are you suggesting to end the friendship as well?

Well.... he makes plans with you and cancel last minute, mentions parties and doesn't invite you, etc.
In my book that's a shitty friend.

Yes, you are right. He did all those things and hence I am mad at him. I know I won't call or talk to him first. But he, the sugarcoat type of a person he is will approach and again say all the crappy things and make me believe as if he is right. I get weak at those moments, and can't be thick skinned.
😢

So you are making a conscious choice of having that type of person in your life, that's on you woman, can't help you with that...

Well, thanks 🙂

Posted by LittleMissPerfect

Posted by Cancermermaid


I often joke about how I am a guinea pig to his experiments.

You nail it just there... He is playing with you

Is very simple: If a man likes you he will ask you out. All the "exceptions" of that fact are delusional rubbish.

Cut your losses and RUN

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I agree RUN, he is so not serious about you, HELL the man is not even trying to hangout with you at all, or even trying

Either grow a back bone, or just be used, it's up to you, but that's fucked up

Hey people, he called and I told him that I'm not taking his crap anymore. I asked him to not bother me again.

I hate these sorts of people, putting masks over their faces for god knows what they want from us 😢

Thanks everyone for putting things to perspective for me.

XOXOXOOXOXOXO

😄

See... You are not weak *big hug*

Coming from a Leo. You did the right thing. Being a Leo we obsess over the person we want to fall inlove with. We will call you, ask to hangout everyday, bend over back wards for you. Do anything for you. Totally ignore him it will bug him so much if he really likes you.