Leo man making me go crazy.. please help!

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Hello! So I'm trying to figure out this leo guy and I'm at a total loss. He's 23 years old and we both met in a group project in class, he's studying abroad and going back to his country in a month. He comes off as this very masculine, cocky, confident, very fun, active and stubborn guy but I feel like its a facade almost because its so intense. He is extremely good-looking as well. I'm a gemini and I immediately knew I was interested in him right when we met. We started spending a lot of time together for this class and there was definitely a connection, we started hanging out outside of class and going there together, partying at night together, etc. My problem is that I can't figure out what the hell he is thinking. I've met some of his friends and every time I do, they already know exactly who I am and tell me that he talks about me alll the time, making fun of him. So I'm wondering why he's not making any moves at all? Why is he spending time with me and acting like some crazy cocky guy, txting me stupid questions constantly about our class (stuff he really doesn't even care about), talking to all his friends about me, and not doing anything about it? This was our last weekend before I moved home and he was being very strange too. Friday for example, i see him and his friends walking up to me and my friend outside and he just walks right up to me, takes my face, and starts kissing me for the first time. I walked away for about 5 minutes after that to say hi to a couple people, but then he started really flirting with my friend (whos dating his best friend...) and his friend starts yelling at mine because he was so angry. and it was a huge deal, for some strange reason. weird. and long story short... I haven't seen or talked to him since, but all of his friends came over on saturday night, all night, and one of them was telling me that this guy is very into me, talks about me all the time, he's sorry that he's not here, etc. I'm confused, any advice!? I really fell for him hard ( i know he probably seems like an ass haha) and I don't want to never see him again if he felt the same way. By the way, I really refrain from showing any interest at all, so he's probably not totally sure how I feel about it all. And I messaged him sunday asking if he was leaving today, no response. I neeever get like this about guys, have never used one of these forums, so I'm going to a whole new level right now. Thanks so much for any advice!
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Gems along with Virgos have been the hardest friendship/relationship for me to crack! I seriously need a decoder ring! You guys are not textbook and are really hard to read! Your non-verbal actions completely counter your verbal remarks. I feel this way about the men, don't know if applies to female. Saying that, he's probably not sure how you feel about him and don't want to reveal too much of his feelings for fear of being rejected.

It's very true about Leo Men and their egos! Bruise them and they'll roar!! Really!! It's not just a figure of speech. When he kissed you? Maybe you didn't let him know that it was great! He became embarrassed and probably felt rejected. He is now not calling because of that night. He's probably hoping he'll never have to explain his actions.

I'm really biased about Leo Men. Didn't have good relationships personally with them(2).
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Haha yeah, I'm thinking something along those lines though. Especially the part about hoping he will never have to explain his actions. In addition, I was spending a good amount of time and studying with one of his other close friends I met, not through him though, just coincidental, I'm thinking he thinks there's something up with that and he thinks I'm interested in him. This guy is complete opposite. I have no idea, never been more confused by a guy in my life and from what I read about Leos, he fits the description exactly so I'm turning to this. I definitely agree with the part about him hoping he will never have to explain his actions. I don't need him to explain anything, I really don't care, but I just have no idea how to let him know that and fix it. Any ideas? I typically would just drop it and forget about it, I rarely ever get attached to men at all, but for some reason it's not possible with this guy. Haha not liking it too much.
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Posted by kimr22
and then what the hell is up with the dramatic personality shift in social situations with the leo guys?! Is that typical? I got to know him 1 on 1 really well first, then go to seeing him in party mode... where he just seems like a cocky man-whore if you don't really know him



"A c@cky m@n-wh@re" - That is hilarious! There's a first for everything!

Yes, my ex-husband LEO pulled that one on me too! We were dating, I kept talking to his best friend most of the night because he was running around being super hostess of his party. Nothing was going on with his friend and I! Well, he decided to provocatively dance with a female to make me jealous! Being the Leo Woman I am, I saw right thru it! Later, while we were married, I found out that same friend I was talking to had more than "friend interest" in me!
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Posted by LoveBucket

There is nothing wrong with the Leo -- it's not his ego, it's not his sign -- you two are a country away -- he's not trying to develop a relationship with someone who lives a plane ride away. He's a young carefree grown kid at 23 trying to get his education on -- at this stage in his life, he's just living and having fun. At 23 he's what, getting his graduate on -- the semesters are quite short, yet someone who's supposed to be detached from emotions has, in such a short period, fallen head over heals in love with him?

IMO, you are not in love with him -- you are in lust with his swag. Yes, he likes you and yes, Leo will talk to their friends about who we like, but in terms of BEING IN LOVE -- he's not where you are b/c for him, he's not in your country to fall in love -- he's there for a hot minute to take his class and then back home to his country he goes.
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I completely agree with you under the circumstance you're explaining. He has been here for a year now, he's still here for another month and then returning in the spring and we were going to travel. I'm most definitely not in love with this guy, not possible... he's just the first guy that confuses me like this. I'm not some oblivious girl, I have plenty of experience with guys and know how it works. This was much different though for both of us and it's the strangest way he's dealing with things now.. so since I'm obviously clueless I had to get some input and everyone on this board are pretty intuitive and helpful! And I think leos are great, i just don't understand this one that's all 🙂
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Posted by kimr22
Hello! So I'm trying to figure out this leo guy and I'm at a total loss. He's 23 years old and we both met in a group project in class, he's studying abroad and going back to his country in a month. . . . So I'm wondering why he's not making any moves at all? . . . I'm confused, any advice!? I really fell for him hard ( i know he probably seems like an ass haha) and I don't want to never see him again if he felt the same way. By the way, I really refrain from showing any interest at all, so he's probably not totally sure how I feel about it all. And I messaged him sunday asking if he was leaving today, no response. I neeever get like this about guys, have never used one of these forums, so I'm going to a whole new level right now. Thanks so much for any advice!



I couldn't read all of your posts though I struggled through some of the OP. How some of these folks just sit up and read all of these posts from top to bottom and left to right, I just don't have that umpf/craziness in me!! 🙂
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HaHaHa! Classic!
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Posted by LoveBucket


I couldn't read all of your posts though I struggled through some of the OP. How some of these folks just sit up and read all of these posts from top to bottom and left to right, I just don't have that umpf/craziness in me!! 🙂





So glad I'm not the only one with this problem.... is it just me or is it almost impossible when the punctuation and grammar is discombobulated and the sentences just seem to run together? I just can't do it! I mean I can handle some disorder, but... ugh... I don't have the patience to sit and read what appears to be an endless string of verbal vomit.

And I'm not singling out THIS OP... just in general. Although.. I couldn't get through it either and just skipped to the next post. lol
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Nobody can stroke your ego endlessly . I mean that is so revolting and boring ugh. can we make a distinction between mature /immature leos please ? It's not fair how leo is only equivalent to ego only ! Yes ego is a big part of us but there is also heart and a bit of passion and personality . It's just irritating and not all Leos males are that annoying .



Although my Leo boyfriend annoys the shit out of me from time to time... I still adore him and I do believe that even though his ego is quite large, his heart and passion are so much bigger that it almost negates the egotism. 🙂
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Haha well I apologize my post didn't quite do it for you guys, thanks for the help though, I'm all good now. If you have such a big problem then why do you sit on here all day and post on forums anyways? Yes, I came across this, decided why the hell not, and made one single post, thinking maybe people knew something about astrology on here since I find it interesting but know nothing at all. There's no way I would make another one. But I never understood the logic in having this virtual life with all your forum buddies. Thanks again.