Is this flirting?

So, I went out with the leo guy again to a hookah bar because it's been a long week and I thought it'd be nice to see him again. Blah blah, fast forward, we went to this bar to get something to eat. And this same night, my school's team was playing a basketball game that I really wanted to watch. The leo knows I care a lot about my team (or ncaa basketball in general), so in the bar, one of the tv's was playing the game. Right before we departed, we hugged and he had asked me how my team was doing. I wasn't really paying attention to the tv much at the time, but I told him I was trying not to think about it because it would make me too nervous. So before we left, he told me I should text him the final score when I found out if we won or not. Now, this sounds really trivial, but I thought it was kind of interesting and endearing because earlier he told me he didn't even follow basketball that much, but he knew that I did, and him not even going to my school, he didn't really have to know. So, for a guy who doesn't blatantly flirt or anything, was this just a nice gesture or was this a way to sort of reach out to me?

Also, I'm asking because I can be completely oblivious sometimes. lol

Candeh I totally followed that and that was just a friendly gesture. He likes you genuinely and just wants to be on your level. You like the game so the best thing he could think of (not usually following b-ball games) was to ask you to keep him in the loop as to the score.

Posted by Candeh15
So, I went out with the leo guy again to a hookah bar because it's been a long week and I thought it'd be nice to see him again. Blah blah, fast forward, we went to this bar to get something to eat. And this same night, my school's team was playing a basketball game that I really wanted to watch. The leo knows I care a lot about my team (or ncaa basketball in general), so in the bar, one of the tv's was playing the game. Right before we departed, we hugged and he had asked me how my team was doing. I wasn't really paying attention to the tv much at the time, but I told him I was trying not to think about it because it would make me too nervous. So before we left, he told me I should text him the final score when I found out if we won or not. Now, this sounds really trivial, but I thought it was kind of interesting and endearing because earlier he told me he didn't even follow basketball that much, but he knew that I did, and him not even going to my school, he didn't really have to know. So, for a guy who doesn't blatantly flirt or anything, was this just a nice gesture or was this a way to sort of reach out to me?

Awwww, I think it was def. a way to share something that's important to you.

I know I'm not into sports, and if I liked a guy who really was and felt this could help us bond more, I might try to understand the sport(s) he's interested in, as a way to show I'm interested in HIM.

I'd think it was just a friendly gesture if he WAS into sports. If you say he's not, then it comes off as much more than that.

Posted by THEKingofLibra
Shit you overanalyze everything, don't you?

It was flirting for sure. But one of those 'worship me by telling me things that are important to you' Lionfag ways.

I guess for you to get the obvious flirting signal a guy would have to whip his dick out and rest it on your lap?

Hey a virgo girl's gotta do what a virgo girl's gotta do.

And if you're so sure, why don't you come this way and show me how flirting is really done. :p

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So, I went out with the leo guy again to a hookah bar because it's been a long week and I thought it'd be nice to see him again. Blah blah, fast forward, we went to this bar to get something to eat. And this same night, my school's team was playing a basketball game that I really wanted to watch. The leo knows I care a lot about my team (or ncaa basketball in general), so in the bar, one of the tv's was playing the game. Right before we departed, we hugged and he had asked me how my team was doing. I wasn't really paying attention to the tv much at the time, but I told him I was trying not to think about it because it would make me too nervous. So before we left, he told me I should text him the final score when I found out if we won or not. Now, this sounds really trivial, but I thought it was kind of interesting and endearing because earlier he told me he didn't even follow basketball that much, but he knew that I did, and him not even going to my school, he didn't really have to know. So, for a guy who doesn't blatantly flirt or anything, was this just a nice gesture or was this a way to sort of reach out to me?

Awwww, I think it was def. a way to share something that's important to you.

I know I'm not into sports, and if I liked a guy who really was and felt this could help us bond more, I might try to understand the sport(s) he's interested in, as a way to show I'm interested in HIM.

I'd think it was just a friendly gesture if he WAS into sports. If you say he's not, then it comes off as much more than that.

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Lol he plays rugby, a sport I really don't understand, but I ask him to tell me about it. But he told me he didn't follow basketball that much, even his own team, which I could understand because at one point in time I didn't either.

I did actually text him the score because we won and I was too excited and had to tell everyone lol.

hi, i'm a Leo female and when we are interested in somebody we want to know all about their interests - genuinely wanting to know everything about anything you are into and getting involved in it.

No, it was not flirting.

flirting is something a person does when they are trying to attract another .. this was the second date, so he no longer has to flirt to get you.

So, he says something to be nice ... and you have to analyze something more to it?

:::: shakes head ::::

Sounds like you are well on your way to over-analyze this Leo, just like you have the other men you've talked about in here.

Heaven forbide you actually let something flow naturally ... without critiquing it to the point that it becomes insufferable.

Wait .. am I on the Virgo board ?

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Shit you overanalyze everything, don't you?

It was flirting for sure. But one of those 'worship me by telling me things that are important to you' Lionfag ways.

I guess for you to get the obvious flirting signal a guy would have to whip his dick out and rest it on your lap?

Hey a virgo girl's gotta do what a virgo girl's gotta do.

And if you're so sure, why don't you come this way and show me how flirting is really done. :p

Are you asking me to have sex with you?

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I'd like you to take me out first.

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Shit you overanalyze everything, don't you?

It was flirting for sure. But one of those 'worship me by telling me things that are important to you' Lionfag ways.

I guess for you to get the obvious flirting signal a guy would have to whip his dick out and rest it on your lap?

Hey a virgo girl's gotta do what a virgo girl's gotta do.

And if you're so sure, why don't you come this way and show me how flirting is really done. :p

Are you asking me to have sex with you?

I'd like you to take me out first.

Maybe if I get hired by CIA, I'll swing by 😛

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Well hey, I'd like to work with the FBI. Looks like we have something in common, sort of.

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Posted by THEKingofLibra
Shit you overanalyze everything, don't you?

It was flirting for sure. But one of those 'worship me by telling me things that are important to you' Lionfag ways.

I guess for you to get the obvious flirting signal a guy would have to whip his dick out and rest it on your lap?

Hey a virgo girl's gotta do what a virgo girl's gotta do.

And if you're so sure, why don't you come this way and show me how flirting is really done. :p

Are you asking me to have sex with you?

I'd like you to take me out first.

Maybe if I get hired by CIA, I'll swing by 😛

Well hey, I'd like to work with the FBI. Looks like we have something in common, sort of.

Let me guess.. you are the Criminal Minds version with tits?

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Pretty much, but I figure if my life does go in that direction, it'll be more realistic than CM and less exciting... but still really exciting.

^^ I saw him live!

Posted by celticlioness
hi, i'm a Leo female and when we are interested in somebody we want to know all about their interests - genuinely wanting to know everything about anything you are into and getting involved in it.

The leo actually did this more than once. For example,we got onto the topic of wrestling, and he asked me who my favorite wrestlers were. As I was thinking, I asked him if he watched wrestling because I was going to start picking out specific people, but he told me he didn't watch wrestling. Still, he wanted to know.

Posted by P-Angel
Sounds like you are well on your way to over-analyze this Leo, just like you have the other men you've talked about in here.

Heaven forbide you actually let something flow naturally ... without critiquing it to the point that it becomes insufferable.

Wait .. am I on the Virgo board ?

*shrug*

I'm not asking if the guy wants to marry me. I was just curious, and I thought it was cute. And I only really asked because I got on the topic with my roommate. Generally, I'm letting things happen.

That's so sweet Candeh! He's just trying to be sweet and is genuinely taking an interest in things you like. He wants to make another way for you to contact him b/c he really is interested in you.
I hope it all goes well and good luck! 🙂

Curious about what?

If you have to ask what being nice means .. then you might as well ask if he wants to marry you .... because obviously (the existence of this thread), once you feel for a person, you lose any common sense you have.