LEO TM'd Me....Now what?

So after a full week with no contact except a text message last Wed...LEO TM's me now and says:

"How are you? I just got back last night. What are your plans for the week?"

Now...In one way...I'm thinking that it was pretty rude of him to do n/c after we were "sort of" intimate...and then expects me to jump when he sends a text message.

Another part of me says its only been 2 damn dates so we have no bond nor expectations.

So what now?

Do I wait a bit and then just TM to say "call me" or do I wait a day and make him suffer.

I'd like to see him Friday but I also don't want this behavior to be acceptable.

...Another part of me says its only been 2 damn dates so we have no bond nor expectations....

Exactly. text him. Or call. There may be some bond but it's too soon for expectations.

I would definitely give him a friendly call. See, so you did hear from him. I had a feeling you would hear from him soon.

Thanks all....OK...Well I responded an hour later to his text

"Hey You!...Call me...."

Not a word yet....

Are you as annoyed as I am yet Sophie? lol!

So Thursday night, I pretty much broke up with him. Told him you aren't ready for a relationship (Which is what HE said and which is how he is acting) and that it isn't really fair to either of us. yadda, yadda.

He calls me Saturday. He calls me Sunday. He calls me Monday ... and in a hurt voice says, "were you expecting it to be one of the other five guys you are seeing?" WTF?!?!

I told him 5 was close. hee hee!

He said after Thursdays converstation he felt I needed a few days to get over my issues. WTF—? The issue I have is YOU aren't wanting a relationship, you have pulled back, so now I am going to start seeing other people. YOU made that choice about not wanting a realtionship. NOT me. WTF!

He said something about calling me later in the week to set something up ... which he hasn't ... WTF?
Get. Your. Head. Out. Of. Your. Ass!

I am just going to start seeing other people. Because this is crazy.

If he wants me to himself, he knows what to do.

Sorry that this wasn't helpful to you re: your situation.

Just wanted to say I feel for you.

Hi Little sparrow...
Sorry to hear about your situation...and yes...these are HIS issues, not yours. You are doing the right thing, and once you start backing off and seeing other people maybe he will realize what he is missing.

Amazing how they want what they can't have...goes for ALL men of any sign.

As far as me...its so new that I am giving some leway but also want to tell him that actions speaks many things...and going from one extreme (calling/TM everyday) to the other (N/c for a week except for 2 TM's) tells me theres something not right. The Text messaging is abnoxious.

Oh well, hang tight girl!

Sophie68,

Just hang in there. The Leo guy will take contact with you again. I'm sure of it. You have nothing to worry about. Be a bit aloof and you will see things will start to look up just when you least expect it.

Thanks Mystical....

I am so wanting to see him, its been a week and a half...ugh..I really have to play it cool....and next time...no type of intimacy at all...:-)

No kidding about the issues being mine. I was sitting there thinking you've got to be kidding me! You are the one flipp flopping all over the place because you just broke up with someone. You are the one blowing hot and cold. You're the one who doesn't know what you want.

I am pretty damn stable. Why would I stick around for that when I can get someone who know what they want is me?

I guess the fact that I don't want to deal with his crap makes it my issue not his. lol!

You hang in there too!

Hey!

It has been a week and a half since I have seen my leo as well. Weird.

I think it is the sense of entitlement that pisses me off.

You are really pretty and wonderful and a real catch ... I don't want to be tied down but I want you off the market and to wait for me.

Whatever!

lol!

I didn't know I was so pissed off till now.

Sophie68,

I understand you very well. No intimacy so early in the relationship. You have to keep a little mystery around you. That is what I'm doing although in my case the guy is at sea now. He is a real winner (ironically meant) and well, the put it truthfully I'm not doing a thing. I've stuck to my guns and will continue to do so even though it's hard.

No!

Oh wait. There it is. Sweet indifference. Right you are. Carry on! 🙂

DB - Now is the real other side. You knew it was coming in a matter of minutes. lol!

It actually has been a good relationship for me because I know I am willing and want a partner again, which prior to this .... I did not know. So I can't be too mad because it helped me to realize the wonderful benefits of being in a relationship again.

Previous, I decided I wanted to be relationship free ... and have been for a almost an entire year.

I think I am ready to move on from my old partner and find a new one.

Probably not the Leo cause his fruitloops are loose all over the table, but one that is more appropriate and suits me.

Hi Leo...
Thanks... is it normal for Leos to go from one extreme to the other in the begining of dating?

Good Question Sophie.

I like my leo friends. I think they like me cause I am light touch and don't need a lot of their attention.

🙂

...Leos take forever to attach themselves but once we do, we're hooked unless there is some MAJOR f'up......



ha! I can relate to this. You know it's funny. My bf and I were best friends before we were together, it took awhile. He did something that made me jealous, he didn't do it on purpose though. In fact, I hooked him up with someone else. And guess what. I got jealous! lmao!! My own damn fault. I never did it again. In fact, yeah, my whole attitude changed after that omg...

Oh boy girls and guys...
I am losing my touch!

I have an appointment in Boston tomorrow that was switched from Friday so I texted
LEO (UGH!) saying

"I'll be in town tomorrow...meet for a drink?"

What am I thinking?

You are thinking that you'd like to meet him before you go to Boston. Nothing wrong with that. See what he does.

Unbelievably, I got a call from Virgo guy a half an hour ago. Sudden he calls me after 12 days. I was upbeat on the phone. Actually, I was shocked to hear from him. Seems like when I didn't take contact with him he began to wonder. Anyway I love the way the started he conversation. He said "Hi". I said: "Hi". He said: "I think it was about time for me to call you". I said: "Yes, you are right". Then the conversation took off. We were on the phone for 16 minutes. He completely astonishes me I can tell you that much.

OK OK.....he called last night at 9:30....I did not answer (was in tub) and he did not leave a message...

he then text me "I just tried calling you and can't get in touch with you".

So I text him back..."Try again"

He did...he asked how the "beautiful sophie" was (awww...) and said he was still recovering from his AZ trip. Asked me in depth questions about what I have been doing, where I have been going, bla bla bla. He really wanted to know details.

LEO "So, you'll be in town tomorrow? I'm suppose to go to the Red Sox but would rather see you so maybe I won't go to the game. Either way, I would like to take you out again so tell me when you are free...My schedule is open. I know you are a very busy girl and like to plan early...so when can you book me in?"

ME: "I only have a few hours to meet you tomorrow night so maybe that won't work...why don't you go to the game. I can see you Saturday night.

LEO "Saturday night it is...I'll call you tomorrow to let you know if I am going to game anyways"

So there y'all go...the saga continues

Our leos are on the same cycle Sophie.

My leo has returned and we had a great conversation last night. In fact, he even came over for a few hours. He was very honest and open. I am feeling much, much better about things.

Little Sparrow..isn't that weird, huh?

This time though...I am becoming unavailable and a little aloof... I just TM'd him I

" My Customer wants to go to dinner after meeting this afternoon...go enjoy the Sox game...see you Saturday"

And DB...you are very right!!!!

Actually, I would think it would be your Scorp.

I don't know any Scorps who don't make make a lot of money.

Little Sparrow...
Heeeee so true...Scorps do seem to bring in the $ $ $ ...

...Scorps do seem to bring in the $ $ $ ...


pssh not mine. But I love him anyway. lol

money = power

I think that is why.

hola chocolate... 🙂 How are you hun?

Happy. We are going to see a major fight this weekend. No rules 🙂 I can't wait.

And you? Any plans?

Chocolate sweetie...you never know who you are going to meet...especially at a rib festival!

Purrr~~have a great wknd...sounds like fun!

Yeah, if you want to meet a man it sounds like you will be in the right place chocolate. In fact, bring your own bottle of BBQ sauce. lol A little squirt and "ooops, darn. I spilled this all over my leg, oh dear. Will someone please help me clean this up??"

I predict you will meet a nice Taurus 🙂

Thank you sophie, I love fights! You have a great weekend too.

Purrrfect...
You are too funny!
LMAO
Go get 'em chocolate!
And Purr...don't step in that ring!!

Chocoalte!
LMAO....qualifications at the BBQ...."gooood licker"....HHAHAHA
Tough to find one of those!!!
I'm looking forward to the long weekend girl!
You enjoy and get saucy my friend....:-)

Yup...we're on for Saturday night...

hughes vs. gracie baby

I have connections lol

Aw, see sophie? Nothing to worry about. You 2 have plans. I am happy for you 🙂

oh purrrfect...it gets better!
its 6:30 here and he has not called!
I texted him @ 5:30 saying "where and when do you want ot meet?"
Nothing
Nada
No phone call...nothing...
I have made other plans for the night.....

When/if he calls....I'm going to tell him to lose my number at this point. I could have made other plans..had other dates...WTF...MR. Text Man couldn't text me to tell me he had to cancel if he's that much of a coward...

just be flat out honest with him about everything

leos like devotion so he might be trying to see if you will go off with anyone else first before he takes you as his, he knows he is good enough for you he doesn't need to tempt you or play any games to win you, leos are very loyal, like once they are with you thats it for them so you don't have to worry about loyalty and thats what you seek right, I'm pretty sure leos have loyalty and scorps have devotion and that what either sign looks for too. seen too much of it.

Spary...I was blown off...theres nothing to be testing me about. It was RUDE and I don't deserve that. Its saturday night and could have had other plans.

HE is the one who initiated this date! And then not even a phone call??

I feel like telling him to screw when he does call!

(((Sophie)))

I am sorry he blew you off.

You seem to have no shortage of admirers. There will be another one soon.

I have never been "blown off" like this...at least a guy would call early on and cancel or say something came up...but to TOTALLY diss someone...no call, no TM.

Friends say this is not his nature so something must have happened....I don't buy it.

As a Scorp (I guess any sign in this situation) of course I am fuming and ready to blow up.

I really don't know how to handle it if he does call...let him explain?
Give him a second chance if its an acceptable excuse?
Well, it better be good.

I am seeing other people thats why I was pissed last night because I could have been out with one of them. Mr. Text Message King could not even blow me off via Text Message...thats what I find strange.

My God...this is a 40 year old man...not a teenager. Other than the TM @ 5:30 yesterday asking where and whern he wants to meet, I have not called him. Friends say I should have but I am too pissed.

Perhaps its due to another woman, but c'mon, have the decency to say "can't make it tonight"

"hughes vs. gracie baby"

Purrrfect are you a fan of mm too! UFC! I saw this fight on tv yesterday! But I was so going for Gracie! Or atleast I so wanted him to win, but he lost 😢 My heart was torn apart I tell you...

I saw all the fights before that one too... oh the funniest one, did you see how loooooong alessio carried diego on his back? Oh that was sooo freaken funny, he was soooo calm... I kept thinking, 'Man this guy must be a Taurus' LOL I wanted his hottie ass to win too 😛 I bet on the first two fights with my bf and won... ya baby lol

:O You are soooooooooooo lucky if you saw it in person! I am so jelous! lol jk You shoulda waved at the camera! Man I am such a fan of mm! LOVE it! Who were you going for?

GRACIE RULES! I don't care if he lost... and wow... his arm looked like it was about to pop but it didn't, talk about focus!

....oh the funniest one, did you see how loooooong alessio carried diego on his back?....


tc OMG! That was friggon FUNNY!! We were like WTF is he DOING— People were getting pissed because he wouldn't let go. I was rooting for Gracie too. Hughes beat the living shit out of him though. That last part when he just kept POUNDING on him was insane, pretty crazy to see it live. A lot of the fights in between I didn't get to see too much of because we were upsatirs in the bar a lot. Some of them were over sooo fast. But yeah, we were all pretty disappointed he didn't win too. 😢