Leo Women

Well I don't visit this board very often because I don't know many Leos - I have recently come accross a Lioness & was wondering—

What are likes/dislikes
Are u especially proud
Do you like stealing other peoples boyfriends
Do you have no loyalty
Are you cool cucumbers all the time or do you have faults
Do you like humor

What are likes/dislikes: You may have to review the Virgo board to find out mine.

Are u especially proud: Yes, at times.

Do you like stealing other peoples boyfriends: Was your boyfriend 'stolen' by a kitty?

Do you have no loyalty: Loyalty is a Leo trait. Doesn't mean it always applies.

Are you cool cucumbers all the time or do you have faults: I have a million faults.

Do you like humor: Absolutely.

Now tell us what happened?

Frickn Bleeb.

K I wasn't upset until I thought about it.
Mr Aqua bf has a couple visiting us - both Leos - they are both very cool & we all clicked right off & were having great times. The girl was saying I was so pretty & so awesome & I was telling her the same & she is a very cool chick. The dude was a bit more quiet than she but all the same very cool - real people.
Out on the weekend with Mr Aqua Bf & them (as well as about 10 others) and when we got home after a big trashy night mr bf says that this couple want to have a foursome with us!! I declined & said I have had the "threesome/foursome" go side ways before & its all fun & games when u are off your head but the next morning it gets tricky & someone, 9 out of 10 times, gets hurt.
Now looking back on it (& looking at the photos from the night before) I came to realise Mr Bf & this leo chick were the instigators - they talked privately about shagging & Mr bf months ago when he told me about her - said she was hot. The photos of them getting cuddly made me think even more.
Now I do blame him - but she was flirty with him more so than him being flirty with her.
I am confussed because I like her & her man but I really did not like that.

By asking questions like "Do you like stealing other peoples boyfriends" this says you are already upset which is why I asked.


And, because of this..

....... - they talked privately about shagging .........

It seems your man is just as much to blame. Also, him telling you she is hot says alot about the amount of respect he has for you. If he ends up with her, it doesn't sound like it will be because she 'stole' him. By the way you describe it, it seems he already likes her.


...The photos of them getting cuddly made me think even more....

Keep the photos and look at them for as long as you can until you are convinced he is bad news. That's the best advice I can give you, I'm sorry.

I agree with purrrfect. that whole situation to me is just completely messed up.

I know its messed up 😢 We were all messed up on the weekend so I am putting it down to that. There are close friendships but hey thats just too close & I don't think our relationship needs a boost just yet (like a threesome to get things exciting in the bedroom). I wish it was never brought up cause i have no respect for this girl anymore - Mr bf is young & I don't think he was serious at all but I do think she was

Your problem is with your bf and the lack of definition surrounding the boundaries of your relationship.

You both need to define what is appropriate and not appropriate within the context of your relationship. Then you need to stick by it. If he can't or chooses not to, you need to let him go but you need to define the parameters of your relationship. If threesomes etc. are fine with you, you can't be angry he is seeking others to fill that part of your relationship because it is within the context of acceptable behaviour.

You are probably right there Little Sparrow. I don't like to give Mr Aqua boundaries. If I change my mind later on I don't want him to say "but you said you didn't want that".
So I think maybe what I should do is say well this is where I am at now & I am happy with our sex life as it is now 🙂

Can I ask a personal question? I am honestly curious.

Do you really think inviting other people into your bed improves your sex-life? If so why and how?

Thanks!

If you don't want to answer you don't have to. I am just curious.

hehehe...I'm curious too

lol @ us

Can I ask a personal question? I am honestly curious.

Do you really think inviting other people into your bed improves your sex-life? If so why and how?


Curiosity killed the sparrow -
🙂

Um - well for one - does it have to be a bed?? Can I invite them to the kitchen bench? 🙂
As for improvement - more bodies to play with - the other guy might have a big dick & the other chick might be a good lick 😉

rotf!!

haha!!

Are you guys satisfied now?? lmao!! 🙂

oh my gosh! lol that's hilarious

hee

You ask a stupid question .....

Thanks Pisces!

this thread needs pictures!!! 😛

This man approves of your kinky bedroom behavior...

mm beefcake!

hey softcookie..I have Leo in the 9th house too...do you have any idea what that means? hehe

awwww .... Cookie finally posts his photo.

wheels, purrrfect is much better at the details of astrology, the houses always confuse me. Time to read up again.

LS, you wish I was that hirsute 😉

choco, I think the bottom shots (no pun intended) would be found in the membership area of fuzzybears.com

yeah, I've been working out

HEY! You did find Harold!

*sigh* *sniff, sniff*

Memories of LiBrat.

OMG! What is that in the background?? Ewwww

I think it's a pillow that needs to be circumsized...