Well we are in the same boat! LOL I suggest you let him tell you. He will! It's new for me too, it is great. You know they say some places that we don't work, but I think that isn't true. What you want to ask, isn't a bad thing, but since your a LEO remember it's one of are traits to want constant verbal praise. If you feel it, it's there. Remember sweetie your 1st mind/thought is ALWAYS right. ALWAYS!!!! What ever you feel 1st is what it is. Be safe & don't sell yourself a dream, get to know him. It's always best. Get to know his flaws, if it's been 3month or less definitely WAIT.
You a LEO right? The man GOD has prepared for you will come into your life! I believe this!!!
No matter how hard it is, there is a reason for what we go through in life. We may not understand it rigt away but in due time we always do, especially if we are open to learn from past experiences. You know what, the text break up or seperation wasn't the nicest. However you both spoke about your friendship so, you just make sure that the closure you got was enough. Why I say this is because you'll definitely keep this in the back of your mind. You will not get passed it/him if you don't... Do you read in your leisure time? I read a lot, I love to read... If so check out this book by "Ekhert Tolle, A new Beginning" a GREAT book it's geared to self you individually. GET it, if & when you can. You learn a lot about yourself, as well as other people...
Best of wishes goes to you & yours. You are going to be fine, life is what we make it & remember you are the controller of your happiness NO ONE else is...
haha, i've been super close to a cap man for 2+ years now. we never got it together because of bad timing but we've been intensely attracted the entire time. he STILL won't verbally say anything. he definitely acts like i'm his when he's around but won't say anything because he has a gf (won't bring her around me, ever!). i thought we were at a point in our relationship, and i've been patient, where i could ask him to express these thoughts. i simply wanted to know what he THOUGHT of me. mind u, i didn't ask him how he FELT about me. i know/knew better than to ask that from him. we had a roller coaster of a ride in the past year so i wanted to make sure that we were still on the right track and that he didn't think less of me now is all. not a loaded question. well he flipped out and became extremely defensive. i guess i know not to ask that again. he's cut me off for the time being but he'll come back around... he always does. i don't know why he became so hostile but i could literally feel the energy become erratic and riddled with anxiety. he and i have this telepathic thing going on so i knew it was best to just walk away and let him go. he obviously felt very uncomfortable and i hadn't intended on that. i guess i'll just have to wait another 2 years... hey, even caps need a push once in a while!
Ha I fell inlove with a Cap man when I was younger. We are still friends and the funny thing is he wants me back. However once a Leo has made up their mind that the won't be with you it's very difficult to convince them otherwise. I think they make a pretty GREAT combination. Capricorns are very romantic, sweet and loyal. They are wonderful caring people. The problem comes when Capis get jealous/embarrased of Leo's interactions with other men. Capi men are dominant but like most earth signs they are not going to tell you or show you that they are. They will do it in a subtle way with rude jokes and they will start distancing themselves from you. In order to make it work Leo has to act more reserved. The problem is...do we really want to?
Ha I Know what you mean. My cappie and I had broken up then we had a roller coaster ride that literally lasted YEARS. Over the course of those years he probably had about three girlfriends. I wouldn't suggest that you keep giving in to him, Capricorn men are cheaters. I think he has more respect for me now that he is single and I insist to him that we are friends and nothing else, than when we were "more than friends" and he was committed with someone else. And now that I look back, he had a pretty good reason. lol Now he is CHASING me. Don't know if Caps need a push, more like a pull. lol
Cap.- Leos are extremely social and they believe in treating everyone equally. Friends and the person that they love are in the same level which can get really confusing. Of course the person that a Leo loves is very important. But the problem is when a Leo has to compromise their friends for their partner. Caps hate that Leo is so blunt, but Leos get confused because Caps (though very romantic) don't communicate their feelings.
oh my gosh, the jealousy thing. holy crap! he intensely watches me around other men and has once even walked out because i (subconsciously) touched another guy's arm and smiled at him. he seriously thought i was trying to get with the guy. we also attended a party together and i ran into this guy that i hadn't seen in months. the guy gave me a hug cuz he was happy to see me, i turned around, and sure enough my cap was staring daggers with a stern look on his face. i didn't initiate the hug! it also didn't help that a couple months later we were out with some friends and my best friend's new love interest was constantly kissing my face in front of cap. the guy was gay but it still didn't sit well with mr. cap. cap made sure to drape himself on me like an article of clothing for the remainder of the night.
so does the jealousy persist even if he knows that i tend to only make male friends? he knows it's because of my hobbies and interests that this happens. he also knows that i really want close female friends, it's just difficult in my situation.
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Well we are in the same boat! LOL I suggest you let him tell you. He will! It's new for me too, it is great. You know they say some places that we don't work, but I think that isn't true. What you want to ask, isn't a bad thing, but since your a LEO remember it's one of are traits to want constant verbal praise. If you feel it, it's there. Remember sweetie your 1st mind/thought is ALWAYS right. ALWAYS!!!! What ever you feel 1st is what it is. Be safe & don't sell yourself a dream, get to know him. It's always best. Get to know his flaws, if it's been 3month or less definitely WAIT.