Please I need your help :)

Hello

I am very much in love with my Leo man (late July). He is the ideal man for me. We are very similar in some ways. Its like I look at him and I see a mirror of me haha. We have been together for over a year. Currently he has broken up with me, we live together and we have broken up a few times this year. It has left me anxious, distraught, upset and still I want to persist with having a relationship with him because he does mean alot to me and i see great things together. We have alot of common interests and we like doing the same things.

My leo man wants me to understand him and I think I do, not fully. Because no one can understand another person fully. He wants me to listen, as he believes that our communication is pitiful because of me not listening. So what is he doing wrong? Because it takes two to tango.

My leo man gets hot and cold with me. But I always emit love energy to him.

We are so good together. I really want us back together. I have no idea what to do anymore. As I used to plead and write notes and we get back together.

Plus I dont understand why he doesnt look at me. Whats with that in Leo men?

Not sure what to do when a Leo man gets annoyed or angry with me. Because when he is angry or annoyed I feel it so strongly.

Right now he wants to be friends. As he feels that we are better off as friends. When i feel something more than friendship. He is stubborn but I cant pressure him to what I feel between us.

I am not sure if he is thinking more about his exgf that is why I think he broke up with me? She lives interstate but still they seem to have a connection. I have told him my view on that but he ignores me on it and thinks its a story in my head.


Again we live together and I really want to restart a new relationship with him as lovers/couple again. Not sure what to do there.

I always tell him I love him.

We do have a strong connection and I never want that to break.

I really hope you can help me with advice Leo people, thank you 😄

Smh. I never understood how people can break up but still live together.lol. I would be getting the heck on! Ugh. But leo's ego's are too big for me. I often get the feeling they want you to kiss there a $ $ . I don't like rejection, im a libra, so that is soooo not happening. If he knows how you feel, I've heard leo's like flatterey so keep at it, he will give in. My bestfriend of 11 yrs is like that. Personally she irritates me the way she expects men to bow down to her,and kiss her butt no matter how many times she rejects them she still expects them to keep at. I personally wouldn't do it. King of the jungle my behind. Im the prize too. And don't you never forget it, that's how my attitude would be. Darn leo's.lol.

Based on what you wrote and please 'bear in mind' im no leo expert! However, i am dating one and from my experience, i can honestly write, he's just not into you! ( at the moment) ..Now, my leo and i were suppose to be a ONE NIGHT STAND/FWB type of deal. Anywho, with us it was more as time moved on we started evolving into a relationship! I can also, honestly, write IT WAS NO PICNIC! But i had a habit of breaking it off with him and then going back..it became utterly ridiculous, Now we communicate , we spend quality time together, we listen to each other, we have eachothers backs...Anyways, I'd moved out and see if by you not being so avaliable he'll miss you ( if and only if) he's not completely over you and if he's not already seeing someone else!. Leo's are not as tough as they may seem! They love HARD! and will protect their loved ones! Try to let him go! for right now, he doesnt want you! at the moment...Sorry to be harsh!

You want to get him back, IGNORE HIM, yep lean all the way back, go have fun without him, just smile and laugh and have fun and don't ever allow him to see you hurting, don't GIVE him anything, don't emit love over to him, just go completely apathetic but always be kind if he initiates contact but for the most part try to avoid eye contact and avoid him if you can, I can almost guarantee you he will stop the BS and meet you in the middle.

The hardest thing you will ever do is shift ALL of your energy back onto yourself, you won't wanna do it, you'll want to continue giving him love and being there for him but the reality is, IT'S NOT WORKING SO STOP, back it up and do the opposite of what your doing and make friends outside of him, do your best to create a fulfilling life WITHOUT him, let him see you being so content, so happy that he won't help but want to stop hoarding himself all to himself and instead opt to join you in your fun content awesome happy life and when he does come over to you don't get all mushy and touchy, put some distance between the both of you so he can see what he's missing, put a great smile on your face, be warm but don't INITIATE anything about the break up, don't initiate affection and don't start any heavy talks about your feelings, he's not concerned about your feelings, he's concerned about his own feelings so even if he let his guard down you are still in the danger zone, so treat him like a friend when your around him.

If you can't do this then pack your bags and move or prepare to live on this roller coaster ride for the duration of the imaginary relationship.

You wanna see him want you back, FORGET ABOUT HIM, just stop making it about him period, shit he may even break down in tears LOL j/k but it's a very effective way of getting a lover back.

Email me directly on DXP and I can give you a great tip about break ups...

Well he was saying I love you until there was an upset on New Years Eve and now he has gone back to friend mode, when I didnt know we got back together? Very confusing.

He wants a partner that will understand him, where he doesnt have to explain - on the same wavelength. Surely after a year of being with him, we must have doen something right?

I dont know if he truly means what he says. Like he says he does but then he says something contradictory and I am thinking well what are we then? A couple or not?

God as much as I get confused by him, I love him so much. The up and down thing that leos do, reminds me of the wishy washy behaviour that Pisces do? He is very critical of me too.

I really want us back together. I pray everyday.

I do question if I back off, will he come back? If I become aloof?

I love my leo man because he has this amazing energy about him. I respect and admire him so much. I look at him and send out so much love energy to him. He is the twinkle in my eye and the flutter in my heart always 😄

Well he was saying I love you until there was an upset on New Years Eve and now he has gone back to friend mode, when I didnt know we got back together? Very confusing.

He wants a partner that will understand him, where he doesnt have to explain - on the same wavelength. Surely after a year of being with him, we must have doen something right?

I dont know if he truly means what he says. Like he says he does but then he says something contradictory and I am thinking well what are we then? A couple or not?

God as much as I get confused by him, I love him so much. The up and down thing that leos do, reminds me of the wishy washy behaviour that Pisces do? He is very critical of me too.

I really want us back together. I pray everyday.

I do question if I back off, will he come back? If I become aloof?

I love my leo man because he has this amazing energy about him. I respect and admire him so much. I look at him and send out so much love energy to him. He is the twinkle in my eye and the flutter in my heart always 😄

When you place so much value on a man he's bound to LOOK DOWN at you and begin to slowly devalue you and lose interest. You have to change and I don't think you can right now because you are deeply involved with how YOU FEEL about him and it's hindering your ability to think in a more logical manner. As long as it's about "getting him" and "fixing" your relationship your relationship won't change least not long term.

It has to be natural, you can't use being aloof and backing off as control mechanism to get a certain result, you genuinely have to let him go and go live your life in such a way that says I love you but I love me more and that's when you see him value you and value the relationship more. Right now he's in a position of power and he won't share himself with you as long as he know you are placing so much high value on him and on the relationship that you'll ALLOW him to mistreat you, he'll continue to pull your strings by pulling you in and then pushing you away and YOU ARE CONTRIBUTING TO HI BEHAVIOR by not letting him go.

You win when you let go, you stop needing to fix the relationship, you stop allowing yourself to be pulled in and pushed out, you still love him but you love YOU more by not allowing someone to play these kind of relationship games with you, of course you'll still live in the same house, still have the same feelings for him but he's no longer your main priority, you are your main priority, once he see how much you value yourself, how little you are trying to salvage the relationship and he gets to experience this for himself, he'll stop being a King tyrant and come over to your side and nurture you and put some energy into the relationship. You have to stop treating him like a lover even when he's inviting you in to treat him that way, treat him like a friend until you are officially BACK together and you are not officially back together until you have the actually confirmation that you are a couple again.

Kick him off of that pedestal you got him on so you can SEE and be a bit more logical on how to deal with this really hard place you're in with him right now or he'll always DevalUE your worth, he'll always look down at you like your peasant. Kings need peasants to wipe there feet on and to remind him that he's King. Don't be that girl.

There are ways to get a lover back but you have to get some CONTROL over yourself, over your feelings or this relationship will probably remain just the way he wants it to remain, virtually over.

He's lost respect for you b/c you are not respecting yourself, he KNOW he's mistreating you and for you to allow him to do it makes him feel he can't respect you and makes him feel like the relationship is more of problem, something he doesn't want.

Leo men want a Queen not a doormat.

Posted by tiki33
He's lost respect for you b/c you are not respecting yourself, he KNOW he's mistreating you and for you to allow him to do it makes him feel he can't respect you and makes him feel like the relationship is more of problem, something he doesn't want.

Leo men want a Queen not a doormat.

tiki33 hit the nail right on the head!

Thank you Tiki 33

What I am struggling with is how to be that Queen. Sick of being a doormat becoz clearly it dont get me anyways :S I am too nice for my own good

Thank you for yoru reply

thank you

Its funny. If I am watching something and my leo man talks to me. I dont look back and then he asks Am I alright? But if I am talking to him, he doesnt look at me, I dont question (anymore) are you alright? Because I have been advised never to ask a man if he is ok? They dont like it.

Is funny how tables turn around so quick. If I dont do something a leo likes then its not appropriate to them. COnfusing.

I had a 5years relationship with a great leo guy. But, something really bad happened between us, i did break up with him.

I don't know if i could help you, but my leo always told me no one is able to fully understand him except me. My leo was actually loooove to be showered with attention. He was also kinda insecure, which need to give him reassurance from time to time. ALWAYS. My leo guy really love 'drama'... When he was kinda sulking (His thing and actually i always think that he did take almost roles as a woman in our relationship, he agreed that too. Funny.)so with pleading, begging and sweet talks will just easily melt him. If you really want him back, then win him first. Let him throws out everything in his mind and from his heart. And do LISTEN. Don't ever encounter back when he tells something. Let him finish first and then tell him everything how sorry you are- if you did wrong thing.

My leo man looks so strong and courage from outside, but actually he has a such soft heart inside of him- easily get touched and REALLY know how to appreciate something which normally men don't. Really had a big heart too. Not a vain one, but praising (honestly) with all things he did good or his determination about serious things can make him flatten and motivated. WELL, MY LEO REALLY LOVE THAT MUCH. Put him as the first priority other than anything or everybody. He wanted so much affection too. Maybe he was kinda a bit CLINGY, i don't know yours.


Correct me leos if i did tell wrong, but that is all explained about my leo who always wanted to be with me forever ( he always wants me back....even until now)