Pride hurt?

Hi, guys!

So, long story short. Met this guy on internet about a year ago. We were living in different countries at that point and he was traveling a lot, so we kept contact for good few months until we end up catching each other in our home country. It was absolutely great chat with him over these months, as I felt that he had opened up to me over the time and he was always trying to reach out, daily. Always sending random messages.. Unfortunately, when he came to our home country back for the summer, I was super busy with work. We kept postponing our meeting, however, then we agreed on a meeting, but my plans changed, I cancelled. From there it went downhill. Almost no messages, no contact, nothing. Just few likes here and there on IG. I reached out few times, but it was not the same. Now few months have passed and we have started to talk again.. slowly, but surely, I feel that he starts to open up a bit again, however, being very distant for most of the time. So, I guess, my question is... did I hurt his pride in some way, when cancelling our meeting? Is there a way how to make it right again? Is there a possibility to win this man back?

P.s. he's Libra Rising, Leo Sun and Mars & Venus in Virgo

Yes

Who knows

Maybe.

They are some moody bitches ...that's for damn sure!!

hahah male taurus here, i know the feeling meet a girl online too talked non stop but suddently stopped... he probaly over thinks and is hurt that you wont pay any attantion to him immature indeed but thats usally the case with online relationships

thanks guys for the answers! much appreciated!

still, i'm not entirely sure what I did wrong.. we were just having a good conversations and then decided to meet. it was not even planned as a proper date.. so I thought maybe this was a Leo & their pride thing, if they feel like they have been rejected.. but all I understood now is that probably he is immature. oh, well 😄

Posted by HeartofTopazz

So you two have never met?

unfortunately, no, we have not.. 😂

Posted by HeartofTopazz

Posted by QueenL

Posted by HeartofTopazz

So you two have never met?

unfortunately, no, we have not.. 😂

You probably seem like a big ol’ juicay catfish

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of course I do.. 😄

I was going to say, the Leo probably thought you were catfishing him, or at least got cold feet. Granted life happens, but canceling last minute on somene who you're meeting for the first time is never a good look.

It's easy to blame a Leo's "pride", but really Leos can be very hesitant when dealing with people we've never met in the flesh. We are ver physical creatures. Even if a Leo connects with you online, part of their mind will be doubtful of you until you're in front of them.

I personally can't feel a real connection with a person I've never met face to face. Until a physical meeting takes place, I'm completely fine with torching the digital connection if I think someone is up to shenanigans.