Should I wish him a happy birthday?

Hi,

Long story short, I had a passionate chaotic relationship with a Leo.

He broke off things two weeks ago despite saying he misses me but i infuriate him at the same time, blocked me on facebook but then unblocked me a week after but no contact.

His birthday is coming up into weeks...

What should I do? Will he be hurt or he won't care?

Thanks

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What you should do depends on why you are doing it and what you want to happen afterwards.

Oh Lord, I sound all deep and stuff like Mufasa.

Will he be upset if I don't wish him a happy birthday or think I've moved on?

Don't send him a text or any wishes...make him wonder why you haven't...and he will! Why would you bow down to him when he was the one that dumped you..it is his turn to miss you and act or you really meant nothing! And then you should move on.

what sign are you?. i would just give him his space. let him cool down.

@sweetheart, thank you.

But if I don't wish him a happy birthday he will think I've moved on and will too. Or if he likes me will contact me?

I'm virgo.

Posted by Alex1234
I'm virgo.

Welp, that would explain why you are analyzing this to death.

Dribble or shoot.

I know virgo people are quite analytical.

I also know Leo are proud. He might appreciate if I forget his birthday.

Well... I will wish Mr. Leo a happy birthday for sure.

Even if we are not talking. I want him to be happy that day in receiving my wishes.

Hell... last year after 5 years, I even sent Mr. Virgo a Happy Birthday card.


I think taking that step will help me working on my own ego. I do it and that's that!

Do how you feel comfortable with. The outcome will not change, Alex. He will not change his mind just because you sent him 'Happy Birthday' wishes. It is not about investing on something. It is about pure good feelings you have for him. If you feel expressing them, go for it!

Alex, I thought you were not going to talk to him because you were afraid of what his response was going to be and was over analyzing his every action or lack of action. Have you spoke to him since the last time you posted? Did you guys reconnect? That was a couple of months ago....if you haven't talked how do you know he hasn't moved on? Or are you stinging him along?

He contacted me and said he wanted us to be together again. Then I did hesitate because he went on two dates but said he couldn't forget me.

Them I brought up the past a lot and we fought again.

I finally had very harsh words against one of his female friends as she creates trouble between us. As I said that, he immediately said I ve moved on out of the blue on the phone, blocked me on face book, then unblocked a week later. No news since a week.

But he also said that he comes back all the time as he can't let me go.

Will he think I've moved on if I don't wish him a happy birthday?