When do you give up?

I have been posting often about this Virgo woman and I am a LEO. While she ended it with me two weeks ago, we took a few days off and we are back at it daily. I through in some heavy doses of romance the other day, she responded with this is so beautiful. Then got a little cold yesterday. So, I may do no contact today.

So one of my friends (female) said just ask if your back or friends. To me, I do not need a title.

But, my question is when do you stop the music and move on? Moving on is a problem for me at the moment.

If you wanna get out just stop talking to her or tell her

You stop now because you said that she ended things. Understand that some women will still chat and flirt with you even if they have zero amorous intentions toward you. Those women still like attention and will shamelessly take whatever attention you continue to give it. It appears you're hoping to change her mind by continuing your pursuit, but you're forgetting one important issue, you don't KNOW this woman. Sounds like you're providing her with an emotional boost and allowing yourself to be strung along in the process. Cut the cord and find someone else.

Also know that people who are insecure will push you away to see how "hard" you will fight for them. This is not the type of relationship you want to entertain. It means that you'll be setting yourself up for a relationship built on passive aggressive behavior. This isn't worth your time when there are other (more emotionally secure) people out there with truly healthy mindsets regarding relationships.

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I have been posting often about this Virgo woman and I am a LEO. While she ended it with me two weeks ago, we took a few days off and we are back at it daily. I through in some heavy doses of romance the other day, she responded with this is so beautiful. Then got a little cold yesterday. So, I may do no contact today.



So one of my friends (female) said just ask if your back or friends. To me, I do not need a title.



But, my question is when do you stop the music and move on? Moving on is a problem for me at the moment.

Stop the music and she will quickly let you know where you stand click to expandclick to expand

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I stopped the music on Thursday and heard from her today. She asked me how I was doing and is worried about me. My guess is she is worried as I stopped writing.

*** asks for advice, doesn't listen to advice, will see another story regarding the same virgo again and again and again

Wow Moonshine.... very supportive I see.

Nice hat!

@forevercharm

I’m a Virgo woman and I think that I started to fall for a Leo man. I and him met in an online dating site last January and still talking until today. Sometimes I’m being silent to him because I wanna see if he will initiate a conversation first and he always does that.

As a Virgo girl myself, yeah I do the test to someone I’m interested in to see if he’s really into me or not because I need consistency and for me, I will pick a man who can be patient with me and understands my moodiness. If you can show her your patience, I believe that slowly but sure she will fall for you. Virgo girl is pretty sufficient being single so if we decide to give our time and attention you can consider yourself lucky lol. And if we decide to be with someone, we will be loyal to them no matter what.

And in return, I feel lucky to be with a Leo man because in my opinion they’re pretty loyal and very patient. (I had several ex and in my opinion my Leo ex is the best amongst all. We broke up not because one of us cheating on each other but because of our family disagreements).

Hope my opinion helps and I’m sorry for my broken English. I’m Asian. Good luck with your Virgo girl.

Oops I’m sorry for misspelling your username @4evercharm✌🏼

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Posted by 4evercharm
I have been posting often about this Virgo woman and I am a LEO. While she ended it with me two weeks ago, we took a few days off and we are back at it daily. I through in some heavy doses of romance the other day, she responded with this is so beautiful. Then got a little cold yesterday. So, I may do no contact today.



So one of my friends (female) said just ask if your back or friends. To me, I do not need a title.



But, my question is when do you stop the music and move on? Moving on is a problem for me at the moment.

Stop the music and she will quickly let you know where you stand click to expand

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So, I decided to stop the music. I have lots going on at work now. We talked about it on Sun night for a long while. So Tuesday...AM...she writes.... how are things at work. I did not reply. Today...she wrote again... please talk to me.... worried.

Superman77 - your thoughts are now appreciated!!!!!

Posted by 4evercharm

Posted by Superman77

Posted by 4evercharm
I have been posting often about this Virgo woman and I am a LEO. While she ended it with me two weeks ago, we took a few days off and we are back at it daily. I through in some heavy doses of romance the other day, she responded with this is so beautiful. Then got a little cold yesterday. So, I may do no contact today.



So one of my friends (female) said just ask if your back or friends. To me, I do not need a title.



But, my question is when do you stop the music and move on? Moving on is a problem for me at the moment.

Stop the music and she will quickly let you know where you stand click to expand

So, I decided to stop the music. I have lots going on at work now. We talked about it on Sun night for a long while. So Tuesday...AM...she writes.... how are things at work. I did not reply. Today...she wrote again... please talk to me.... worried.



Superman77 - your thoughts are now appreciated!!!!!

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Oh Mr. Leo...ugh dude.

Stop with the online bs and find a girl IRL....this obviously isn't working out. Learn to cut your losses and move on but to somebody that you can see in person. It makes all the difference!

Trust...I'm dealing with a Leo man myself and things are pretty good...no hot and cold, no other bs (of course it's new and I have my freak out moments only to myself but still). And we see each other in person pretty regularly. If this was only online...I would bounce or be completely unsure and run hot and cold then bounce.

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Posted by 4evercharm
I have been posting often about this Virgo woman and I am a LEO. While she ended it with me two weeks ago, we took a few days off and we are back at it daily. I through in some heavy doses of romance the other day, she responded with this is so beautiful. Then got a little cold yesterday. So, I may do no contact today.



So one of my friends (female) said just ask if your back or friends. To me, I do not need a title.



But, my question is when do you stop the music and move on? Moving on is a problem for me at the moment.

Stop the music and she will quickly let you know where you stand click to expand

So, I decided to stop the music. I have lots going on at work now. We talked about it on Sun night for a long while. So Tuesday...AM...she writes.... how are things at work. I did not reply. Today...she wrote again... please talk to me.... worried.



Superman77 - your thoughts are now appreciated!!!!!

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@Superman77 sounds like you hit it on the nose.

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Posted by 4evercharm

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Posted by 4evercharm
I have been posting often about this Virgo woman and I am a LEO. While she ended it with me two weeks ago, we took a few days off and we are back at it daily. I through in some heavy doses of romance the other day, she responded with this is so beautiful. Then got a little cold yesterday. So, I may do no contact today.



So one of my friends (female) said just ask if your back or friends. To me, I do not need a title.



But, my question is when do you stop the music and move on? Moving on is a problem for me at the moment.

Stop the music and she will quickly let you know where you stand click to expand

So, I decided to stop the music. I have lots going on at work now. We talked about it on Sun night for a long while. So Tuesday...AM...she writes.... how are things at work. I did not reply. Today...she wrote again... please talk to me.... worried.



Superman77 - your thoughts are now appreciated!!!!!

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Oh Mr. Leo...ugh dude.



Stop with the online bs and find a girl IRL....this obviously isn't working out. Learn to cut your losses and move on but to somebody that you can see in person. It makes all the difference!



Trust...I'm dealing with a Leo man myself and things are pretty good...no hot and cold, no other bs (of course it's new and I have my freak out moments only to myself but still). And we see each other in person pretty regularly. If this was only online...I would bounce or be completely unsure and run hot and cold then bounce. click to expand

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Notice how I am not responding? Maybe I am moving on. Yet, all of a sudden she is all worried and talk to me. I appreciate all of your help and advice. I do agree in real life would be best.

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by 4evercharm

Posted by Superman77

Posted by 4evercharm
I have been posting often about this Virgo woman and I am a LEO. While she ended it with me two weeks ago, we took a few days off and we are back at it daily. I through in some heavy doses of romance the other day, she responded with this is so beautiful. Then got a little cold yesterday. So, I may do no contact today.



So one of my friends (female) said just ask if your back or friends. To me, I do not need a title.



But, my question is when do you stop the music and move on? Moving on is a problem for me at the moment.

Stop the music and she will quickly let you know where you stand click to expand

So, I decided to stop the music. I have lots going on at work now. We talked about it on Sun night for a long while. So Tuesday...AM...she writes.... how are things at work. I did not reply. Today...she wrote again... please talk to me.... worried.



Superman77 - your thoughts are now appreciated!!!!!

click to expand

Oh Mr. Leo...ugh dude.



Stop with the online bs and find a girl IRL....this obviously isn't working out. Learn to cut your losses and move on but to somebody that you can see in person. It makes all the difference!



Trust...I'm dealing with a Leo man myself and things are pretty good...no hot and cold, no other bs (of course it's new and I have my freak out moments only to myself but still). And we see each other in person pretty regularly. If this was only online...I would bounce or be completely unsure and run hot and cold then bounce. click to expand

Notice how I am not responding? Maybe I am moving on. Yet, all of a sudden she is all worried and talk to me. I appreciate all of your help and advice. I do agree in real life would be best.



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Moving on means not giving a shit that she is responding or worried. You're pulling the old "ignore her" trick to get her to chase you and build up that ego. That's not moving on...

Either shit or get off the pot with this one!

Each day that passes, I am less under her spell.