3 hour conversation to... nothing?

Hey all,

Just wondering if one of you librans can shed some light for me. I've had a pretty turbulent friendship with a libra man for a little over 3 years now. Throughout our friendship, there has always been an intense connection that went beyond friendship, though we never owned up to it.. until recently. He is basically the male version of myself, my "twin soul", if you will. It is because of this intense connection that our friendship became so strained. After months of not talking due to confusion on both parts, we have opened the lines of communication once again, this time owning up to what we've felt for each other basically since the moment we met. Our conversation lasted 3 hours and ended on a very good note. He even told me that his entire family knows about me and that they tell him that he should never let a girl like me go. He agreed. However, I have not heard from him in about 3 weeks now.. What's the deal?

Well, there has to be something that you are leaving out here and/Or some denial on your part about some things.

One, yes Libras are very indecisive when it comes to their emotional affairs, but then again don't forget that Libra is the sign of love. They are always constantly seeking companionship & aren't usually the ones to see it & let it pass by. They're smart enough to atleast GRAB IT first (and if they lose it afterwards, then that's a different story). It seems like this Libra hasn't even grabbed you yet & that's leading me to believe that he may not see you for more than friendship like you think.

The problem is, the average Libra has a mental connection with most of the people that they know, so it's hard to tell & distinguish who they love from who they only just like alot. And let's just say that this Libra feels the same way about you that you feel about him: if he's being so distant & so detached then his moon is def. NOT in Libra OR you're misreading his signals to you b/c of being blinded by your own emotions. There are several reasons for why he's being this way:
1. His heart is still with someone else & even though he feels the connection with you, he will never completely attach to you b/c his heart won't allow him to.
2. He saw something in you that he didn't like or couldn't adapt to long-term, but b/c he's selfish, he might do everything to keep you around until he can see that you're getting too close. And the minute you get too close, he'll all of the sudden detach b/c his intentions were NOT for you to get so close.
And plenty more

Hello again,

Thanks for your replies. 🙂

sweet- I am a leo
krys- Thanks for your insight. Yes, you are right. I have left a lot out, as our story is a long one. In the period when we were not speaking he began professing love for me to mutual friends and colleagues, going to great lengths to reach me, but I, being stubborn, refused to talk to him for months. He's very focused on career, as am I, which could also be an explanation for his disappearance. Either that or it's the classic case scenario: He chased and chased and chased and finally conquered, therefore, he stopped trying.