Any help with my new libra man

A month ago I met a guy online and we instantly had a great connection, the typical sag/libra spark that i've heard about so many times. We agreed to meet and did so 2/3 times and talked on the phone, not often but for a long period of time and kept in contact via text.
things seemed to be/are going great, but consciously in my mind i was trying to take things slow/avoid all the mistakes i made last time because the whole situation reminded me of my Libra ex from 2 years ago. I didn't want to rush anything.

How I fear as though I may be moving too slow/ he may be getting bored of me though we did hook up on our 3rd date but only because it "felt right" (it probably wasn't but oh well)

i've been busy with school work so i've been preoccupied and tried to give each other space whilst things were still feeling "new and exciting" but i feel like the spark might have left due to my actions. I don't know if he's still interested, he's been a little quite.

I'm so lost on what my next steps should be.

sagg girl with a venus in scorpio. curse my overthinking nature

At the same time I also feel like i may be coming on too strong. sometimes i can't help but initiate contact first and with the whole hook up thingg aaaahhh i don't know if that funked it all up. I also feel like I may be competing with other women which is throwing me offffff

Hooking up was a bad idea. He got what he wanted. You should keep yourself busy for now. He'll react in a weeks time. Stay silent. Mirror his behaviour!

Posted by SattyAries
Hooking up was a bad idea. He got what he wanted. You should keep yourself busy for now. He'll react in a weeks time. Stay silent. Mirror his behaviour!

i've been in denial but i think you're right, hooking up WAS a bad idea but hopefully not catastrophic. It just seemed so natural at the time but our communication has broken down a little since. We ended up hanging out again a week after though. we had an alright time. He know i'm very busy right now so i'm keeping myself busy but i cn't help but feel like i funked up AGAIN and I can't help but emotionally kick myself, i blame my scorp venus. damn why do i feel everything so intensely!

thank you SattyAries 🙂

Posted by 2Moon

hooking up? can be bad or good depending on the guy I think..


but I just wanted to say;
you are stressing too much! 🙂
just relax and enjoy your life... like a sag! lol

I think it was good for him because he got what he wanted and bad for both because I feel like the spark and exploration phase has gone. we've been in brief contact since but nothing like how it used to be.

hahaha i know i over-analyse and over think too much but i can't help it ! is that a sagg thing lol ?

Thank you 2moon 🙂

I want to plan something fun with him soon, once all our busy schedules have blown over. I don't want another date in which he comes over and the obvious happens. obviously only if we are still in contact once this all blows over. is this a good idea or will he be confused as to why i'm not inviting him over ? opinions ?

Posted by sagiluv
Libra men!

I'd say one libra man I met years ago who I was with many many many long years he said what he really liked about me was that I made him wait & no other woman had ever done that. Women were throwing them selves at him. Another plus was that when we finally go there, we were intimate 24/7 which no other woman was able to keep up like I did. So to him that was a plus. Most men most Libra men love sex a lot of sex but they also don't like an easy girl. Yes they are so confusing!

Dont stress too much, my fellow sag
if he's for you. Let him come around. If he's not for you,, let him go & find yourself a man that can handle you. Good luck girl

By the way have you ever met a sag man! 🔥 — That's great because they don't usually play any mind games and you'll know exactly what they want and how they want it. A lot less complicated and so much fun!!

I knew I should have waited, i was telling myself that before he arrived and then BAM haha. how long did you make him wait?

definitely feeling like he's given up on me. oh well