What should I do with this libra guy?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by SagGirll on Sunday, February 7, 2016 and has 7 replies.

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@SagGirll
10 Years

So here's the thing. I unintentionally make this libra guy upset over my jokes when he's been busy/stressed with his works. I already text him i'm sorry, just joking, but he ignored my text. I didn't text him after that so we're not talking for almost 2 weeks now. Should I just leave him with his space or should I try to looking for him again because now I feel a bit guilty.
Btw, I met this guy through friends on summer vacation for few days. We live on different country, and been texting almost everyday for 9 months now. We flirt to each other, make plans to travel together again, but haven't make it because our schedule doesn't match till now. Even though we clicked, we kinda realised our relationship won't go further because distance problem. That's why on this early year, I feel i kinda losing romantic interest on him, and it show on our text. I want us still being friends though, that's why i don't want we lost contact just because this small things. Any advice anyone?

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@Starry22
12 Years

Agree with Tiziani, theres nothing you can do with such people. You may want to put in the effort but eventually you will get exhausted.

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@SagGirll
10 Years

Thank you for answering my question. I'm also thinking that way at first. "I already say sorry and if you still upset and make some joke a big deal, then you're not worth of my time." But after 2 weeks of not talking, I'm start thinking again if I'm the one who being rude for leaving this relationship just like this, especially because of my mistake at the first place. If I need to give him more space before looking for him, how long more do I need to wait? Or is it okay if I just leave like this?

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@jeane
11 Years5,000+ Posts

i think it is fine to leave it as it is. you've apologised. hold no bad feelings towards him and just get on with things. he might get in touch in the future or he might not, there's not much else you can do from your end.

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@SagGirll
10 Years

Posted by busyeyes88
Posted by SagGirll
Okay, will follow the advice. Thank you guys^^

But do be mindful of yr tongue... Sags can have really nasty harsh tongues and their "jokes" can hit the other person quite hard...

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Yes, I realise that too^^ That's why I'm thinking if I need to approach him first again after giving some space?