becoming a mature libra and dating

Ok so I feel like I've reached the point of becoming a woman. I've excepted my strenghths and I'm ok with my flaws. I've learned what I want out of life and I know what I can not handle. I've become very comfortable with myself and excepting of the things that I dont necessarily like. I've experienced alot and truly feel wise.
This is all great .... but unfortunately now its so hard for me to take an intrest in anyone. Ill think ill like someone then find out that I dont. I just know what I want and have become very picky. Anyone else went through this or am I being to hard? I want somebody who can appeal to my mind and stimulate me.

Well, I am a guy and I am a Leo but I can tell you that what you are feeling is a sure sign that you are becoming more mature and it's very positive that it's happening early in your life; there are many girls probably twice your age that haven't reached that stage yet. You are not being to hard when you think you deserve the best, that's in fact very positive (at least for me) and will keep you away from many heartaches and problems. As for being to picky, your "pickyness" will also mature with time. IMO you are wise to want somebody who can appeal to you mind and stimulate you and that kind of person is not easy to find but when you do (and you will sooner or later) just be sure it appeal and stimulates you in a positive way 🙂

Thank you guys! Yea it just is weird to me. I still have plenty of giys chasing me probably because I dont pay any attention. They see it as a challenge I guess. I trust my judgment so I think ill know it when I find someone who can truly keep up with my mind. Lol this is gonna sound crazy but I was starting to wonder if I was gay... I'm not! I'm si proud of the improvement ivr made on myself. I know I have alot to offer and would rather not waste anytime. I'm only 20 so I know I may not find what k want for a long time but I refuse to settle just to settle. In order to have a good relationship you need to be able to stand on your own and be ok.

Ah, you're experiencing what any of us did when we were 20. I find that decade from 15 to 25 is basically the largest span on indecision in ones life. Being picky usually comes from not knowing what you want. But what people often forget that knowing what you don't want is no different then knowing what you want. The good thing is, being Libras, we compromise. Use that and you'll find the person for you. There is no perfect person or love, no matter how much we want it. But if you give people the chance and compromise then you find the "perfect" love. Or at least that's my thought 😉

Thank you 🙂 its just a weird phase and very boring when you loose interest in guys so quick. I'm picky because I know what I like and what I dont. There is no point in wasting my time or anyone elses. I'm glad I can be happy on my own tho and that I dont get into a relationship just for the hell of it.

It's really no different then making friends at a party. Most of the people you'll talk to are "friends" for that night and you'll never see them again. No one loses sleep over that and finding a mate is really no different. You are right that it's not good to waste each other's time, it holds you both back when you do.

Well considering that picture is old as well as my account here, your an idiot. Lol really!? My pictures are being examined in order to state your opinion? I was being goofy in that picture. You wouldn't know that because you dont know me. Get bent!

You thought I was upset? Lol oh man here comes the grammar police!! Lmao so um you were just stating that I'm immature because of a picture yet your the one starting problems with someone you dont know. My assumption of you is that you obviously have no life and that tgis is a form of entertainment for you. What a shame. 😉