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This topic was created in the Libra forum by sweethearts on Monday, May 27, 2013 and has 10 replies.

How Libras Handle Guilt and Its Impact

Libras value harmony and fairness, so they often feel deep guilt after betrayal. They tend to seek balance by reflecting on their actions and making amends. Guilt can cause them to feel restless or anxious temporarily, but they usually work toward resolution and healing to restore inner peace.

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@sweethearts
20 Years5,000+ Posts

How do you handle guilt? If you have betrayed the one you love, how do you feel the next day and week and month/s.

How do you deal with it and how does it effect you daily...if at all?

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@aquarius09
15 Years10,000+ Posts

That's a really good post especially since sneaky seems to think that libra doesn't remember people they wrong by cheating or just overall hurting.

I am an aqua and although people would think air signs don't or wouldn't care, I only care when I wrong someone. If a person has a legitimate complaint about my behavior that has upset them, I do apologize. It rips at my soul until I do so.

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@angiedbc457
13 Years

libraCUSPscorpio I feel good at least im not the only one that took my Libra back after he cheated, im a Gemini and u were cheated on by a Gemini I am shocked.

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@heliumfiasco
14 Years1,000+ Posts

I will obsess and try everything in my power to make it correct and change the persons viewpoint of me... OBSESS! I'm not talking about cheating, just any betrayal what-so-ever. I will stop at nothing to repair it and if i can't, I will never forget it.

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@angiedbc457
13 Years

@kalin that's not right how is a person gonna make themselves be with someone that don't want them., and @ size zero superhero yes we have been over this, Hell I can't get rid of him. He refuse to go, I can't even get him evict. I have tried everything he keeps wanting to cling to me. I thought after a person shows a Libra that they don't want them or give them the cold shoulder they move on, but Hell not this Libra man he is holding on. I am even talking to other men and he still want leave. What's the problem? Why is he being clingy, why can't he get it that its over.

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@aquarius09
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Posted by angiedbc457
@kalin that's not right how is a person gonna make themselves be with someone that don't want them., and @ size zero superhero yes we have been over this, Hell I can't get rid of him. He refuse to go, I can't even get him evict. I have tried everything he keeps wanting to cling to me. I thought after a person shows a Libra that they don't want them or give them the cold shoulder they move on, but Hell not this Libra man he is holding on. I am even talking to other men and he still want leave. What's the problem? Why is he being clingy, why can't he get it that its over.

Can't get him to evict? Why not? Who is the landlord? And if he is mooching off you then I can see why you aren't gettin rid of him.

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@angiedbc457
13 Years

aquarius09 My landlord would not help they told me its my problem they don't get into people personal problems. And he has a job so he can go, and get his own place.

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@aquarius09
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Ohhh!! I thought you may have been the landlord. Then, yes!! Kick him out!!! Why is he still there? If you don't throw his things out, then that amounts to u being a sadist. You owe him nothing, especially when you said it numerous times that you want to move on with your life.

Here's the thing: he's not gonna move out!! If you think he's not moving out because he cares for you, then you're wrong. He doesn't love you. He uses you for your house/apartment. He has no problem when you talk to other men in his presence further strengthens my argument of him not carin for you. You provide shelter for him and that's why he's there.

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@angiedbc457
13 Years

aquarius09

But he got a job and still holding on, so I guess I just really have to bring a man here to just show him that I got another man. Maybe that will move him along.