Botched Blow Job... ...

So...how do you get comfy having sex with someone you've know for 7 yrs as a friend...I seem to have him stuck in the friend zone like big time!!!...I'm trying to figure this out because a stranger could walk up to me and i'd @# $ % the @# $ $ ! out of him just fine but....anyone used to watch Girlfriends when Joan and William finally hooked up but she couldnt bring herself to have sex without acting stupid and over complicating the matter...well thats kinda what it is...except we've had sex its just that I get shy and nervous with him...of all people...any advice on getting over this— Lol...this is nuts...

go have sex with a total stranger to balance you back to normal. 😛

lol...then i'd be loaded with guilt...and tipped way off to the other side which really isn't a pretty thing...but thanks...

WOW... I know how you feel. Last year my best friend of 8 years and I decided to take things to the next level. Him being a Libra he is very sexually willing to please which is amazing!!!!! But because we knew each other for 7 years before we decided to become intimate, he knew every thing about me before he ever touched me. This has never happened to me before. I am introverted so I love being private and the guys I date know nothing about me, but he knows everything, plus now he knows me physically. There is no where to hide. That is a very scarey and vulnerable place to be. Maybe you feel some of the same feelings and it is making you shy and reserved around him.

With my libra I get embarassed when we start talking about it and I clam up because it is such a different dynamic than I am use to with him that I can't even fully wrap my mind around it, so I just don't talk or think about it.