hi, ive been with my libra guy for more than a month now, im a pisces woman i know were only starting and we have along way to go, were good friends b4 we decided to have a relationship. were doing good, though we have our ups and downs like any other relationship. i guess thats bec we are exact opposites. he loves to go out, i like staying home, he's fond of making so many friends and talking to a lot of girls and i do talk to guy friends too and have friends but not as much as he have, lol. he thinks in a logical and analytical point of view whereas i think intuitively. him being a social butterfly isnt really an issue with me, ive learned to adjust to his personality though i become jealous but i wudn't tell him unless it really hit on me real bad and we'll always make room for adjustments esp him when we reach the point of me getting insecure and sometimes me asking for my space which drives him really crazy, he's always telling me even when he's still courting me, how he wants to marry me and be with me, so when i ask for my solitude he is out of his senses, just couple of days back we had a small arguement bec i find him overdoing his friendliness to the extent of him feeling bad when others dont find him interesting so i told him straight up what ive observe and he said something that hurt my feelings and i end up saying i wont talk for sometime, but i thought its not right so the next morning i message him and said i was sorry then eventually he was the one telling me he needs a break and he will not talk for some time to see how far he can go since he's always the one to talk to me first he's the weak heart between us as he said, i was hurt, i didnt knw its gonna hurt as if some1 stab my heart that the only thing i can do was cry and just say "okay baby", i was out of my senses never thought i'd feel that way so i thought now i know how he feels, but not more than an hour passed he message me saying he cant think of life or anything w/o me in it, lol soo cheesy. i trust him enough to give him so much space, i support him, i cheer him up, i take care of him, i make him feel loved, im his critic too, im passive and i was never possesive and clingy coz i dont want to suffocate him although i knw i hve the tendency to become 1 when i feel threatened in my relationship or worst is i'll just swim away. do u think my guy appreciates what im doing for him? he always tells me that "i'll give my love to all but heart to one, and thats u". thanks
