MY aquarian man cheated on me for another gal,but he now wants us to reconcile.BUt every time we fix things and he has to accept his mistake he tells me he ll go for this ather gal,AM I SAFE to reconcile with him>??
can i trust my aquarian again??
Ummmm it does not sound like a very stable relationship at all. I think you know the answer to your question already.....why would you want to stay with somebody who threatens to cheat again— WTF??

GIRL COME OUT OF THE WATERS!!!!!!

Lol at chatz. Yeah, your libra heart won't be able to handle this...move on.

You cannot trust them. They lie like gemini's. I got first hand experience from an aqua friend who lied for months among a group of friends and dated 4 gals from the same group without anyone knowing each other and none of us knew he was married(to a libra girl) with kids.
Only way to handle an aqua would be to deny them privacy and space.
Only way to handle an aqua would be to deny them privacy and space.

they are even more independant then arian's , they just do what they want and lie

wow... I am impressed ! a lot of other signs don't see through it 🙂 obviously not to all aquas but I know too many that use the unemotional or independent or space angle to string many along.
releh, like chatz says, you know in your heart of heart what to do. seriously blackmail ?
releh, like chatz says, you know in your heart of heart what to do. seriously blackmail ?
This is one of those situations where if you do go ahead and reconcile when it happens again all anyone can really say about it is: So, what did you expect?

no you are not safe to reconcile, he's a cheater and he seems to be manipulative and controlling, trying to control you with fear by threatening you with cheating, argh! first class assclown, they seem to be everywhere

trust is earned. has he earned it? would you be able to forgive him? would you be able to fully relax when he is not in front of you to watch him?

anybody that threatens to cheat again isn't worth trusting, please replace your wishbone for your backbone, wishing and hoping will not make him less of a cheater, if you can really look at him logically, not as you wish him to be but as he really is RIGHT NOW TODAY then thats what you gauge it all by, men that care about you don't say things and do things that make you doubt your decision, ugh these men that play head games and women that can't find some self respect, enough to say hey thats not cool...kick rocks
Yes you can reconcile but you will forever be nervous, anxious, in doubt and it will drive you crazy, you will be policing him and honestly thats no fun at all. If he's taking full responsibility and yet turns around and says I will leave you for someone else that means he's an irresponsible assclown that is messing with your head
Yes you can reconcile but you will forever be nervous, anxious, in doubt and it will drive you crazy, you will be policing him and honestly thats no fun at all. If he's taking full responsibility and yet turns around and says I will leave you for someone else that means he's an irresponsible assclown that is messing with your head

"they are even more independant then arian's , they just do what they want and lie" yeah, I have a venus in aquarius and thats what I do. My ex aquarius is the same way. He came over the other day and tried to fuck me when he has a girlfriend who he has been with for 7 months and their annervirsy was the next day. They kind just do what they want and don't really think about things.

I think sometimes their just too out of touch with their emotions to give a shit. They are even more logical and detached than a libra.
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