conflicting messages - are libras gone?

I've heard some conflicting messages about libra on the web. Sometimes its said Libras like to come together again and again and fall in love, other times it says when a Libra is done, they are done. So I don't really understand which one it is?

Am I right in thinking, if you are in a relationship with a libra, and they leave, so that it isn't a clear breakup, then if you allow them to go comfortably by not trying to get emotional and not texting them that much, then potentially they could come back again, and see how they feel. Because they didn't fully decide before? Or when they are gone, they're gone?

I guess the best thing to do it let them go and just not think about them, and if they come back then so be it, it's hard but it's the only way?

When they get cold and distant, they pass a difficult time in their life and most of reasons are not in connection with you or your relationship, but with their life, career, family, etc..
Come back, depend what means for them in their mind when do it. They may come back just to have you as a option or a simple friend . They may come back also cold and talking to you as they never did before ( arrogant, cold, dirty words to your address, etc.. ) and you will move on when you see this, because you can't see the one you loved once, to treat you as a nothing. Well, Libra do this , and without regrets . They think , if you don't like it, move on. So, you have to choice, to stay in this relationship that is not a relationship again , or to move on for something better.

Posted by tiziani
"when I'm done, I'm done" is just something people say out of pride to not have to deal with the feelings that come with it being over.


It's not about going back. It's if you can change together and grow together. There's no going back to how it once was, only moving forward to bigger and better. The question is do you need to do that together or apart?

+1 Tiz..because as we age we realized that everyone makes mistakes just as we do, and some relationships are worth revisiting if there was a bond. Things are never the same once they go astray, so all you can do is build on what you have and see where it leads. You'll have to decide if the effort is worth it, and nothing beats a failure other than a try.

yeah I think this is correct, she passed a difficult time in her life, and it was nothing to do with me. What we had was good. but she wants to forget. I have a hard time understanding it, and you're right, I am left feeling like one of her options. I hate it, to feel controlled. But at the same time I know I'm a good guy. And I was fine before I met her.

I hate forgetting ex-gfs and have never done so before but I think this one I must. I need to forget I ever met her and forget I spent any time with her.

Posted by AriesJo

yeah I think this is correct, she passed a difficult time in her life, and it was nothing to do with me. What we had was good. but she wants to forget. I have a hard time understanding it, and you're right, I am left feeling like one of her options. I hate it, to feel controlled. But at the same time I know I'm a good guy. And I was fine before I met her.

I hate forgetting ex-gfs and have never done so before but I think this one I must. I need to forget I ever met her and forget I spent any time with her.

Well, in that case, if you're sure she wants to forget or be done with you, then by all means move on. Just use discretion when taking advice on matters of the heart because not everyone will have the same experience. If she treated you like the dirt at the bottom of her shoe, then yes..DO YOU and forget about her.

lol, when a Libra treats you as an option, you're better off dropping them. It won't change.

I think the best way is not to follow anyone advice here, just follow your heart and what you want and focus on it. The result depend of your efforts and if you think this effort is worth or not. Good luck !

for me it depends how much we have been through together. i think it is a case where i am continually getting hurt then at some point there is a breaking point from which there is no return. it takes a while to get to that stage though, especially if it is a romantic relationship.

but i agree with tiz as well, you can never go back to the way things were anyway, once some damage has been done you can move forward together in a better way or foolishly try to repair it and fail.