Any Libra girl with ascendant in Sagittarius?

Do you always cheat?
I know that libra girls love parties, love to smoke, and drink, and you prefer relationships...but why you cannot be faithful? It's hard for you to resist when you drink a little, and somebody is flirting with you...

I'm libra sun, sag rising and aries moon. No, I'm not like how you described it.

When I'm in a relationship, I honor that commitment and stay faithful because I respect my partner and the relationship we built. I've always had clear boundaries.

I'm very picky too. I don't just flirt with anybody. I reserve all the naughtiness for my partner. Only he gets to see that side of me.

Well, this girl cheat sometimes when she's drunk, and then admits that to her partner, and they break up.

Dunno if it's because of her age...she's 21. And she is never serious. She didn't cheated one possessive guy, but dumped him after 9 months because of that.

Did you played mind games? Do you appreciate when someone is direct and honest?
Are you somehow reserved/stiff at the beginning of the relationship?
When do you usually get exclusive with someone, and do you date more people at once until you decide to commit?

Also, when she cheat, and according to her, it happens rarely, she always admits that, and break up because of guilt. Then starts to criticize herself, and says that she's a jerk, and doesn't deserve attention, that she feels stupid, etc. And prior to cheat, she always texted first, and was interested. Is that an excuse, or what?

Everything you're questioning is because she's a silly 21 year old girl. You're old enough to know this already. Go find a grown up woman and quit trying to rob the cradle.

Did you played mind games?
NO

Do you appreciate when someone is direct and honest?
YES

Are you somehow reserved/stiff at the beginning of the relationship?
No, i am open to my feelings. No reservations.

When do you usually get exclusive with someone, and do you date more people at once until you decide to commit?
It usually takes 6 months to 1 year before I take them seriously.
I dont date more people. I can only do 1:1. It doesn't really take me that long to assess if the person is a good match for me or not. Usually around the 3rd month I already have a pretty good idea if I want to pursue more with the person or not.

She is young. Leave her alone & let her have her 'fun'. She isn't ready for anything serious yet.

Yeah, she obviously isn't for something serious, even though I don't know how she managed to be with that possessive guy for 9 months without cheating him. She would continue to be faithful to him, but she just couldn't continue with that pressure.

And I know that she was interested in me, and didn't wanted to break the contact, but I deleted her when I was angry, and that was it. Honestly, I knew that I could expect something like that because she likes to drink a lot, and to party, but still...

Maybe I was just way more serious after that short period, and should take it easy. But she def has problems with self-esteem and she's very self-critical. And as many libra's, she love to flirt a lot, and is always chatting with many males...

I gave up two months ago, I was just curious. I will need to be more cautious in the future.

it seems like what bugs you the most is that she didn't cheat on the other guy.

Well, to be honest, yeah, but not only that. We had great connection, and then it all went fast in the wrong way. When she cheated, it was after 3 months, or sometimes more, and she didn't cheated that guy for 9 months, and that is not coincidence. I assume that she didn't cheated that possessive guy because of her low self-esteem, otherwise she would dump him quickly.

He was regularly checking her messages, and all that. I gave her all freedom that she wants, and she didn't appreciate it enough. So yeah, it bothers me. I liked her, and wanted to spend more time with her. That is the main reason. But nevermind, it's over.

Now I met another libra-sag girl, there is the same connection, very similar attitude, but this time, she's 26...if we go out on a date, I know that she will be attracted...no doubt about it. 😉

Update: I chatted with that libra/sag girl all day long, and tomorrow also, there was lot of teasing, and fun, and in the last her message she was playful also, and then, all of sudden, she doesn't write me anymore, and when I ask something, she ignores that. No logic at all.

With every libra girl I started to chat, it was like this, but till the end (messaging non-stop). I didn't screwed up anything, so I don't understand. I even didn't replied always when she texted, and whenever I did respond, she would return message almost instantly...so I don't get it...
Ok, maybe she liked someone else more, but it still doesn't make any sense, cause, as I said, it didn't happened to me before with any libra...

AesmaDaeva, did you ever ignored someone you like at the beginning all of sudden, and what could be the problem from your point of view? What could turn you off?

Is it maybe cause I didn't asked her to go on a date with me after those two days? Anyway, I will not text her anymore, I have enough self-respect, I'm just curious, because it doesn't make any sense, cause everything was so smooth until that point...

Posted by ozzzy

AesmaDaeva, did you ever ignored someone you like at the beginning all of sudden, and what could be the problem from your point of view? What could turn you off?

No, I don't really ignore anyone it's just sometimes, I get sidetracked and forget to reply to people. Sometimes, I don't reply immediately if my reply will be lengthy but then I'd forget about it. 😢

As for turn offs, well, I can't make a long list since haven't thought about all of it now I'll just tell you what's on top of my head.

I don't like:

hypocrites
backstabbers
fault-finders
naggers
mean and condescending people
those that also put down others to make themselves look good
assholes
drug addicts

ok gtg now that's all i thought of right now

Posted by Hotbeefy
Cheating is a choice and not from personal planets.

That's right. It's not really about the astro placements.

Cheating is a conscious & deliberate act. It doesn't just happen. Anyone is capable of making that choice.