confused about a libra man

Hi everybody and thank you in advance for your input.

Here is my story: I met a Libra man a year ago at my work place. He said he was single so we went on a few dates and it was great.We also had sex. At that time there were no obligations, and no expectations, as that's how we both agree it to be. Later I found out that he was in a relationship and that made it a little bit rocky, I cut out the communication with him and seeing him. He moved away from here in August this year and since September he is been contacting me. We do not work together anymore since July. Did I mention he moved away to be with his girlfriend?

Here comes the interesting part: he's been trying to get in touch with me since September and I kinda tried to avoid him since my heart was broken because he lied.For the past few weeks he's been emailing 10 times a day and calling me telling me he is moving back for me, that he cannot live without me, and he cannot stop thinking about me, that he missed me since he left and he realized that he should've stayed with me, although we were never together.He is writing very romantic letters and he seems to be very sincere. I felt a great connection with him the moment i met him, but i always thought he is the one not seeing it and never told him how much i felt for him.

Is this possible, a year down the road, somebody to realize these kind of things? I know he is very charming and the women are all over him , so I am sure he does not lack choices.

He also asked me for a commitment, to be exclusive with him, he is coming to visit in January and wants to see me. I told him cannot commit to anything right now as he is on East Coast and I am in AZ and told him I need to think about it.

The more I tell him that I am not sure, the more persistent he is with his long romantic letters and phone calls. I never call him and just answer his emails.

what should I do?i do not want my heart broken again,let's not forget he left to be with her and I accepted his decision.I did not contact him and I wish him hapiness telling him that following his heart was one of the best thing he could do, although i was really hurt back then. we were also good friends while we were working together , sitting one feet from each other, so we do know each other quite well.

this is my very first time meeting a libra man as i usually get a scorpio, aries or leo...so i do not have experience at all regarding this sign.

thank you

Great Advise kennyg!! I can only reiterate what you have said and suspect more then anything he wants something he cannot have...you dear Pisces AZ !! The pain you still feel from your heart break in the past with him is there for a reason. So you continue to remember how it was broken in the first place. So you don't forget that this man made a choice and he did not choose you! You were not his first choice. That's what the heartache is there to remind you of!

Best of luck in how you handle your situation!

Why would you even entertain the notion of being exclusive with someone who is with someone else?

That is crazy.

The guy is a cheat and a liar. Where is the appeal? Sorry to sound harsh but you should want better for yourself. There is a world of men out there. Millions and Millions of them. Why get hung up on a boy?

***He also asked me for a commitment, to be exclusive with him, he is coming to visit in January and wants to see me. ***

However, he is still on the eastcoast with his girlfriend right?

If he is this flaky what makes you sure he won't move to another state for another woman even if he does leave his current girlfriend for you?