Confused by the Libra Man

Im a gemini and recently met this libra guy, he found me interesting enough to want to invite me over for lunch. thing is that this Libra is a partner in the company I work for..(Complication) but we hit it off quiet well and actually slept with him too (Ooops). he says he wants to be with me and for us to be together and yes its still early days for me to get all excited. ive been single for years and i dont want to do anything to mess this up. could i be a office fling tho? or Are Libras true to their words... i do like him but im not desperate either. help

Posted by Blackangel
Im a gemini and recently met this libra guy, he found me interesting enough to want to invite me over for lunch. thing is that this Libra is a partner in the company I work for..(Complication) but we hit it off quiet well and actually slept with him too (Ooops). he says he wants to be with me and for us to be together and yes its still early days for me to get all excited. ive been single for years and i dont want to do anything to mess this up. could i be a office fling tho? or Are Libras true to their words... i do like him but im not desperate either. help

I'm assuming that he invited you to his home for lunch. Sorry but you do sound desperate. I think you need to step back from this situation and reassess the situation. Is he married or in a relationship? How old is he? How old are you?

The facts: you've been single for a long time. you don't want to "mess this situation up". You never mentioned whether you liked him, you only said that "he found you interesting enough to invite you over" which implies some self worth issues on your part. I don't think you can judge how serious he is about you now. Right now it looks like he's using you. I could be wrong.

Posted by Blackangel
ive been single for years and i dont want to do anything to mess this up.

DING DING DING.

DESPERATION x67849367894363

I mean really, if you were secure with yourself, you wouldn't give a rat's ass how long you've been single. Only desperate people whine and complain about being single. If you cannot be happy alone, then you cannot be happy in a healthy relationship. Emphasis on healthy.

If you weren't desperate, you wouldn't have slept with him so soon (unless you just wanted to get laid, then nvm), and you wouldn't be all worried about fucking this up when it's barely started.

Simmer down and see what happens from here on out. THEN re-evaluate what you should do/think about the situation.

okay I hear all of you.. yes im lil insecure at this stage going back into the dating game. hes 10 years older then me and i do like him. i do tend to over analyse situations and thats not good. i just wanted to get laid it had nothing to do with making him like me. well we may have slept with each other but he still is telling me he wants us to build something more than the physical.

yes you are right its still early days i should relax and be myself. enjoy the ride and see if we can really do this.

Posted by VenusStar

Posted by Blackangel
Im a gemini and recently met this libra guy, he found me interesting enough to want to invite me over for lunch. thing is that this Libra is a partner in the company I work for..(Complication) but we hit it off quiet well and actually slept with him too (Ooops). he says he wants to be with me and for us to be together and yes its still early days for me to get all excited. ive been single for years and i dont want to do anything to mess this up. could i be a office fling tho? or Are Libras true to their words... i do like him but im not desperate either. help

I'm assuming that he invited you to his home for lunch. Sorry but you do sound desperate. I think you need to step back from this situation and reassess the situation. Is he married or in a relationship? How old is he? How old are you?

The facts: you've been single for a long time. you don't want to "mess this situation up". You never mentioned whether you liked him, you only said that "he found you interesting enough to invite you over" which implies some self worth issues on your part. I don't think you can judge how serious he is about you now. Right now it looks like he's using you. I could be wrong.

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well im 28 and hes 10 years older. yes it was at his home and we had a great time. he is not married and no relationship thats if h is being honest. i do appreciate your honesty tho

you're welcome! 🙂 Try to figure out if you like him and decide whether you can handle a work relationship especially should it go sour. Try to keep your relationship a secret at the office until you decide what's best .

You are probably just a fling for him, if he does show interest it's bc he wants to continue having sex with you. Libra men that I know will want to take you out and have fun. They really love entertaining, being around people, especially their friends. Now, there are the exceptions b/c not all of them are so out going.. If it's sex, you will know. That is how every Libra has been with me. Every single one has been persistent to take me out and do stuff. I am also a Gemini Sun.

Libra men flock to me, I assume it's b/c I am a female. lol Also, I am not an easy catch. They don't like EASY!! (that's not to say they won't have sex with you b/c they will)

Love yourself and know what you bring to the table.

Posted by WateryGem
You are probably just a fling for him, if he does show interest it's bc he wants to continue having sex with you.

Given the age gap, I was wondering the same thing.

He could be genuine, too. Again, she just needs to chill out and take it a day at a time. His real intentions will show themselves.

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Posted by WateryGem
You are probably just a fling for him, if he does show interest it's bc he wants to continue having sex with you.

Given the age gap, I was wondering the same thing.

He could be genuine, too. Again, she just needs to chill out and take it a day at a time. His real intentions will show themselves.

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