Do Libra men come back?

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MsTaurusLady1982
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Got into it with libra guy really bad. He kept promising to do better and he never did. I apologized for all of he hurtful things I said but I really don't care to be friends with him bcuz he seemed to just tell me what I wanted to hear. The calls stopped and texts and I know he probably found someone else to occupy his time..... I just wanna know do libra men come back after a bad argument, breakup or do they move on? Do they regret hurting someone who was there for them?
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Posted by beautifuldiaster
Libra men in my experiemcenwill always return to their main squeeze. If this was temporary you may be left hanging in the rafters.


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The big question is why do you want someone back who never changed like he said he would?

It's an endless cycle, dear. I've been there with an immature Libra before. All talk, no action. If the actions don't follow their flowery words, you won't be seeing the guy you hope he goes back to/says he will be.

The fact he couldn't respect you enough to change the behavior that you had issue with says a lot about him. Why do you want someone back who is like that?

If he has other options, you will be one of many and his return will be based on self centered reasons and not of genuine interest.
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Posted by gemguyaz34
He's just trying to balance his options and weigh where he stands. Give him some time. He will begin to wonder about you depending on how serious your relationship with him is. And yes he likely does regret it if he said something hurtful because I know personally Libra's do not like confrontation. They need time to consider all things.
This could be true, but the red flag here is his all talk no action bit that she has an issue with.

That whole "Oh yeah, sorry, I'll change" *turns right around and keeps doing it* bit is indicative of his lack of respect for her as an individual.

Honestly, chances seem as if this guy just bounces around and that is exactly what he's doing right now.
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If she places the ball in his court he will need to make the decision that he WANTS to change or else. He will need to make that decision but must do it on his own and not take forever to do so. Though it may be difficult to understand this and why it is taking so long, at this time the best she can do is leave the ball in his court and do her own thing. He will come around in time if he's serious.
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Yes, but you're leading her to believe that she should wait around for this fool and owes him some sort of apology. You conveniently left out the "do your own thing" in your initial comment.

Why should she apologize when she said she already had? From what she's shared, he was a big part of the friction between them and it bothered her. She apologized for herself, but he continued to do what he said he wouldn't do.

No apology from her is necessary from what has been shared. Remember, you're trying to HELP the OP, not the offending person she's having problems with. No need to protect the brotherhood of douchebaggery here. Less enabling, more encouraging, kthx.
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Posted by gemguyaz34
Not here to argue kthx
Then make better, clearer points that give beneficial advice.

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Posted by LadyJuicy
Got into it with libra guy really bad. He kept promising to do better and he never did. I apologized for all of he hurtful things I said but I really don't care to be friends with him bcuz he seemed to just tell me what I wanted to hear.
If that's the case, then why do you care whether he comes back or not?
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