Do libra women like to be dominated

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Well I have been kinda of seeing this libra girl we been talking and intimate for 6 mouths I told her i would like to be more but she doesn't want to be bc she just came out of 2 year relationship. She has a lot other guys talking to her including her ex she clams im the only one that she has sex with. I kinda believe her just bc it so hard to make her have sex u got to use every thing u got to make her. She says im the only one she can't control her sex urges when she is with me. But my virgo brain don't want to believe that. But any ways she is always talking about how she like a man to be in control and manly and dominating she likes it when guys get real loud and scream at her.. I really don't do that I do it in a different way a more passive way into making u do what i want. But Im guessing the reason she doesn't want to be my girl friend is bc I want scream at her and yell when she does bull shit. Her dob is October 15 1988.
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I also should mention she was rape at a young age so thats why she has sum sex issues but its not all about that she is the only one I could be myself around she says the same thing about me how she can be her self. She is very childish but it does not bother me, every other guy hates it that is what she says. she is the only girl I told I love u even the girl I was with for 2yrs I didn't say that. o and I do not give her money I know how girls can be so until they prove them self at sum level to me that is when I spend money on them. o and her dob time is 3am
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I am a bit confused. Are you talking about sexually dominated or dominated in life? They are two different things. My guess is she is really young and is uncomfortable in her own power so she gives it way. If you do get into a relationshp, you will probably find her too clingy and needy. She needs to conquer her fear of life. That will only come with age.

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The truth is, Libra is submissive. We like to please and follow a lead very well. However, the traits your libra is reflecting have nothing to do with sun sign. She is in need of help and is exhibiting all the signs of a rape victim.

The reason she sounds like a young girl is because the rape occurred when she was young, her development is arrested at the age she was raped. If she does not seek professional help, she will sound like a young girl forever.

Her need for dominance is a way she can relive her rape over and over. I imagine there was some other sexual abuse either you or she is not mentioning.

The best thing you can do, if you care about her, is encourage her to seek a therapist and begin to shed the identity her attack has left her with.
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Yes i want a man that will take "control" particularly in the bedroom and No if you yell and scream at me I'd be off running! Honestly I'm sick of guys that are always saying What do you want? I cant make a decision unless it is IMPORTANT to me, so where we eat or spend the day etc is not important...you decide! When it's an important issue you'll hear from me alright and you'll never hear the end of it because it's what I WANT!!!! I've made up my mind on that!