Do you recall me post? He wants back

Remember me, I posted a while back about leaving Libra lad.

He wants back. I'm just confused now.

If you have already made the decision to move on, then you should move on. Libras will always return when they value your friendship. It didn't seem to take him long to return btw...lol.

just when I decided to move on he decided to come back. I even deleted all his contact information. I don't want to go through this again. We talked and he said that other interests in other people are gone, he's learned that they don't have what he's looking for and there isn't any attraction. I like everything he has to offer minus his indecisiveness.

Yes, mainly his indecisiveness. Although he did mention that he did have other attractions but those didn't work. Like they were not interested in him or he felt that they had something that he wasn't attracted to. My fear and this is making me insecure which makes me not the Leo woman that I am and that is making me want to leave is that he may change his mind again like he did in the past. If ya'll remember, don't know if anyone here remembers my story is that he did this twice in almost a year already. He comes on strong then backs away. Someone said on here that its a good sign that a Libra man has stayed this long with me but that just one part drives me crazy. I'm usually straight up on what I want and confident all around but with him I'm a little different I guess fearing hearing that he's unsure.

How does someone win over a Libra, especially a Libra man? I find this challenge interesting and it is tempting me to go after. Darn, he is messing with a Leo. ; )

* Although he did mention that he did have other attractions but those didn't work. Like they were not interested in him or he felt that they had something that he wasn't attracted to.

I would give this one a miss mainly because of what you are saying here. He isn't empowering you and making you feel good about you and this is during the EARLY stages. If you stuck it out, 7 years from now he will have eroded your whole sense of self-worth. Ain't worth it honey. Let this one go and find a guy who makes you ROAR!!!

you are absolutely right about that. Now, just to get myself to say no. For some reason it is so hard for me to say no to a Libra. Yikes, you just reminded me of my ex. Libra as well and hard for me to say not to him and did similar BUT, I'm not saying that all Libras are like that.

easiest way to win over any libra? make them decide. it is hard to make a decision (especially if we don't have to), but when we do, we stick to it. and will usually become much more passionate about our choice as time goes on, even though sometimes it's just because we hate being wrong.

if you let him stay indecisive, he will. believe it or not, libras are usually excellent at making snap judgements. but if we are given time to decide, we wait til the deadline comes before we do.

so tell him the deadline is now.