Explain this Libra Behavior

Libra and I officially broke up about 4 yrs ago...maybe 5... I lost count. Every year until last year, we always ended up meeting for coffee because he wanted to apologize for the crap he put me through and become friends. The problem was that I fell for him each time and hoped for a relationship with him. There was always some tension there when we're together and I know he felt it too. Finally, last year, I got fed up b/c I felt that he's been stringing me along. I changed my contact number and wrote him a mean email and said that he will NEVER talk to me again...and F U and some other stuff that I know hurt his male ego. Well today, I bumped in to a mutual friend (but more of my friend) and he said that he saw him at a restaurant and the first thing he said to him was, " 'Capris' hates me!" He then asked a few things about me, but I didn't ask my friend what. Why does he even still care? Last time I talked to him was 1 yr ago and I thought he would be hooked up by now. I sometimes look at his page and he always have some sad cheesy quote on there, so I know he is lonely or sad. Pls explain this behavior.

He is confused, sad and sentimental. He probably still likes you, but if you continue, it will be a game of hide and seek that is akin to a vicious cycle. When a Libra is ready, they will not go round in circles. He just wants to string you along just in case he decides he wants you back again. Plus some emotional investment there.

Posted by Mr Nice
capris, He is stringing you along, libras are well known for this, they lie and will also do anything to make you thing otherwise. Advice get rid of him for good he's playing you big time. He aint confused he knows what he's doing, does he care? no.

i highly doubt that he's doing it on purpose.

libras need to feel wanted. you don't want him. he knows this. and it's been eating away at him.

it's a shitty thing to do, and a shitty way to act. but i don't think he's don't it on purpose. libras can do a lot of cruel things very much on purpose. but this isn't one of them. he's just insecure. and he probably does really feel guilty. libras dwell on the past. we talk about the past. we try to contact people we haven't spoken to in 10 years to apologize for the way we said something wrong the last time we spoke, something so minor they probably didn't notice it when it happened, let alone remember it 10 years later...well, we don't usually actually contact them, but we think about it, we fantasize about it. we keep a running list in our minds of the people we've wronged and the mistakes we've made. it's awful.

if he does it again, just tell him that you just weren't good together, and you've moved on. that you don't want to be friends. wish him a good life. that'll probably end it.

Posted by Mr Nice
capris, He is stringing you along, libras are well known for this, they lie and will also do anything to make you thing otherwise. Advice get rid of him for good he's playing you big time. He aint confused he knows what he's doing, does he care? no.

really? how many libras have u ran across

i thing that if u play the role of dummy then any sign can string u along

I have to admit that I am a little flattered, but I have no intentions in getting back together with him. I have moved on to a loving bf and sometimes I imagine myself rubbing in it to his face that I have moved on. I just never had the time so I lost interest in doing that....hehe. Maybe I do need some kinda closure and mend things with him if I ever bump into him again. I know he is a good person... but not a good bf.

These replies are very interesting.
Curious visitor, you once well pointed out that Leos give only to get back and I do see how that could be. Any (practical) ideas for a Leo to improve pop into mind from your interactions with Leos?
Any answer would be greatly appreciated 🙂