Libragirl42
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Fellow librans how do you react to heartbreak
Posted by Libragirl42Yes girl I've gone through tons of emotions today. Just feeling really sad I didn't even get a happy birthday from him.
Hello fellow librans
I'm curious to see how you guys react to bad news in the love department.
Do you create assumptions and become a homebody worry wart?
I sure do hahaha
Usually there's the lets think of the worst case scenario
Panic
Spend the day miserable with a high chance of waterworks
Eventually that turns to rage (my current state.. Nearly) where I decide if I'm gonna say something I've gotta get angry to say it or I'll become a mess.
I've gotta pull myself out of the self pity party or It'll consume me for days.
Any one else a sooky la la? Haha
Posted by ladylibra21oh nooo! Happy Birthday lovely! Don't let him get you down. But I'm with ya, I've been bawling my eyes out this morning for no good reason - seems everything has piled on top of each other!Posted by Libragirl42Yes girl I've gone through tons of emotions today. Just feeling really sad I didn't even get a happy birthday from him.
Hello fellow librans
I'm curious to see how you guys react to bad news in the love department.
Do you create assumptions and become a homebody worry wart?
I sure do hahaha
Usually there's the lets think of the worst case scenario
Panic
Spend the day miserable with a high chance of waterworks
Eventually that turns to rage (my current state.. Nearly) where I decide if I'm gonna say something I've gotta get angry to say it or I'll become a mess.
I've gotta pull myself out of the self pity party or It'll consume me for days.
Any one else a sooky la la? Hahaclick to expand
What do you do to pull yourself out of it? I throw my phone to the other side of the room and indulge in a good tv series haha but I have to go to work so hopefully that'll be distracting.
It's like we're all great and fine when we're surrounded by others and distracted but as soon as you have a spare moment you start thinking again (shower time is the worst!) and boom it's back to stage one
It makes me sad how sensitive libras are because from my experience, 9/10 times they're good people but once they get fucked over they develop serious trust issues and I've witnessed my poor libra become depressed from a previous heartbreak. It's very upsetting, they love love so much and get completely crushed once it turned sour. For libras to recover, they usually spend a lot of time with themselves, copping and just spending some to think and reevaluate things. What's most important for libras is to surround themselves with positive and happy people. Also people who will give them endless love and affection. If you don't have that in a romantic partner, find it in friends, family, pets, etc. Good luck. Hope you feel better.
Also, reading books on your favorite genre always helps.
Distract your mind ^
Posted by goligoldPosted by mysteriousTaurusThis is me to a T
It makes me sad how sensitive libras are because from my experience, 9/10 times they're good people but once they get fucked over they develop serious trust issues and I've witnessed my poor libra become depressed from a previous heartbreak. It's very upsetting, they love love so much and get completely crushed once it turned sour. For libras to recover, they usually spend a lot of time with themselves, copping and just spending some to think and reevaluate things. What's most important for libras is to surround themselves with positive and happy people. Also people who will give them endless love and affection. If you don't have that in a romantic partner, find it in friends, family, pets, etc. Good luck. Hope you feel better.
My last heart break was devastating, I was completely broken for 2 weeks, it took me a year to get over, my current boyfriend has gone through the ringer developing trust in me and putting up with the fear off being hurt again. If it ever happens again, I will most likely change teams lolclick to expand
I'm sorry to hear that. Which sign hurt you? My libra friend was cheated on twice by an aries hoe. But I won't give up on him.. he just needs time to heal. He'll be back to his old self eventually. It's not about her, it's about the betrayal, the lies, the whoring around. That's what broke my libra to pieces.
Aw thank you. Are you still feeling heartbroken goldigold?
Posted by SugarfootHaha sounds exactly like me!! I'm all screw him I'm gonna get hot!! Then I eat comfort foodPosted by Libragirl42That rage part sounds familiar. Lol. I do alot of venting (bitching and complaining). Cry. Bitch some more, cry. Cry cry. Watch when Harry met Sally, watch Moonstruck, all volumes of Kill Bill. I try to find movies with women kicking men's asses. I visualize myself looking as hot as possible and dismissing my ex in the future as they lust after me with hungry eyes. 😄
Hello fellow librans
I'm curious to see how you guys react to bad news in the love department.
Do you create assumptions and become a homebody worry wart?
I sure do hahaha
Usually there's the lets think of the worst case scenario
Panic
Spend the day miserable with a high chance of waterworks
Eventually that turns to rage (my current state.. Nearly) where I decide if I'm gonna say something I've gotta get angry to say it or I'll become a mess.
I've gotta pull myself out of the self pity party or It'll consume me for days.
Any one else a sooky la la? Haha
If it's a rainy or cloudy day then I just cry and resume all other activities the following day. 🙂click to expand
Or i feel like I need to change something like my hair or get a piercing or something
Posted by tizianilol, I believe it. 😄
I listen to a lot of Usher and crooner songs. I sing loudly to them either in the car or in the shower.
100 percent true story.
Posted by mysteriousTaurusVery true...I love to read, and when ever I'm going through something even til this day, that's what I do..read and listen to music, and as Tiz said..Crooner music..I actually have an old CD that is labeled as Crooning..lol. Even though it's been some 30 years ago since my last real heartbreak, I do remember it. The scary thing is I only remember crying, being depressed and sad for all of about 2 weeks, and then I moved on. I was with the dude for almost 2 years though, so I was expecting to be depressed for a whole lot longer. I was in the Military at the time, and I just remember getting very busy with work and school. I guess it worked out because a few months later, I met and married the man I guess I was really supposed to be with, and that was 29 years ago.
Also, reading books on your favorite genre always helps.
Posted by LIb4LifePosted by mysteriousTaurusVery true...I love to read, and when ever I'm going through something even til this day, that's what I do..read and listen to music, and as Tiz said..Crooner music..I actually have an old CD that is labeled as Crooning..lol. Even though it's been some 30 years ago since my last real heartbreak, I do remember it. The scary thing is I only remember crying, being depressed and sad for all of about 2 weeks, and then I moved on. I was with the dude for almost 2 years though, so I was expecting to be depressed for a whole lot longer. I was in the Military at the time, and I just remember getting very busy with work and school. I guess it worked out because a few months later, I met and married the man I guess I was really supposed to be with, and that was 29 years ago.
Also, reading books on your favorite genre always helps.click to expand
Yay for you! 🙂 who broke your heart? Who are you with now?
Posted by Libragirl42Oh yes and yes. Throw my phone to the other side of the room and watch a couple of comedy tv series. For me night time just before falling asleep is the worst. Being alone or not occupied not doing something gets me thinking and that's no Bueno. If I'm left to my own devices I'll sit there and analyse everything. Everything. What went wrong why did it o wrong how did it go wrong who made it go wrong. I am far too hard on myself and that's something I need to snap the hell out of. I tried and gave it my best shot. I cared and I made an effort. Compromised. This was not my fault.Posted by ladylibra21oh nooo! Happy Birthday lovely! Don't let him get you down. But I'm with ya, I've been bawling my eyes out this morning for no good reason - seems everything has piled on top of each other!Posted by Libragirl42Yes girl I've gone through tons of emotions today. Just feeling really sad I didn't even get a happy birthday from him.
Hello fellow librans
I'm curious to see how you guys react to bad news in the love department.
Do you create assumptions and become a homebody worry wart?
I sure do hahaha
Usually there's the lets think of the worst case scenario
Panic
Spend the day miserable with a high chance of waterworks
Eventually that turns to rage (my current state.. Nearly) where I decide if I'm gonna say something I've gotta get angry to say it or I'll become a mess.
I've gotta pull myself out of the self pity party or It'll consume me for days.
Any one else a sooky la la? Haha
What do you do to pull yourself out of it? I throw my phone to the other side of the room and indulge in a good tv series haha but I have to go to work so hopefully that'll be distracting.
It's like we're all great and fine when we're surrounded by others and distracted but as soon as you have a spare moment you start thinking again (shower time is the worst!) and boom it's back to stage oneclick to expand
Posted by LIb4LifeSo glad it worked out for you in the end. What's your so's sign?Posted by mysteriousTaurusVery true...I love to read, and when ever I'm going through something even til this day, that's what I do..read and listen to music, and as Tiz said..Crooner music..I actually have an old CD that is labeled as Crooning..lol. Even though it's been some 30 years ago since my last real heartbreak, I do remember it. The scary thing is I only remember crying, being depressed and sad for all of about 2 weeks, and then I moved on. I was with the dude for almost 2 years though, so I was expecting to be depressed for a whole lot longer. I was in the Military at the time, and I just remember getting very busy with work and school. I guess it worked out because a few months later, I met and married the man I guess I was really supposed to be with, and that was 29 years ago.
Also, reading books on your favorite genre always helps.click to expand
Posted by mysteriousTaurusYou've hit the nail on the head. I've started to put up this wall and hard exterior because of horrible things happening in previous relationships. The trust issue is a big one. It's the reason me and the most recent guy couldn't work things out because I questioned him and he didn't feel he needed to put my mind at ease and just wasn't bothered. Though had it been the other way around I would've happily made the effort. The most loving relationship I had was with a Taurus. Sadly we were too young to sustain the relationship.
It makes me sad how sensitive libras are because from my experience, 9/10 times they're good people but once they get fucked over they develop serious trust issues and I've witnessed my poor libra become depressed from a previous heartbreak. It's very upsetting, they love love so much and get completely crushed once it turned sour. For libras to recover, they usually spend a lot of time with themselves, copping and just spending some to think and reevaluate things. What's most important for libras is to surround themselves with positive and happy people. Also people who will give them endless love and affection. If you don't have that in a romantic partner, find it in friends, family, pets, etc. Good luck. Hope you feel better.
@libwman
I am exactly the same! I'm starting to feel resentment now, it isn't my fault I know I did nothing wrong. I threw myself onto an online profile last night to stop my pity party and a few compliments later from other guys made me feel happy again 🙂
I would love to just leave it and if he never speaks to me again I can deal but he has my pants haha and I have his and I really want my tracksuit pants back because they are sooo comfy. So now I'm peeved I'll probably have to have the " i get it you aren't interested gimme my pants" talk -____-
I am exactly the same! I'm starting to feel resentment now, it isn't my fault I know I did nothing wrong. I threw myself onto an online profile last night to stop my pity party and a few compliments later from other guys made me feel happy again 🙂
I would love to just leave it and if he never speaks to me again I can deal but he has my pants haha and I have his and I really want my tracksuit pants back because they are sooo comfy. So now I'm peeved I'll probably have to have the " i get it you aren't interested gimme my pants" talk -____-
Posted by mysteriousTaurusHe was another Earth sign dude...I have no idea what it is about me and Earth sign men...lol, but all of my relationships have been with mainly Taurus men, 2 caps and 1 Aries that I know of, but I ended up marrying a Cap. Aside from the one Fire sign guy, I do believe every other guy was an Earth sign.Posted by LIb4LifePosted by mysteriousTaurusVery true...I love to read, and when ever I'm going through something even til this day, that's what I do..read and listen to music, and as Tiz said..Crooner music..I actually have an old CD that is labeled as Crooning..lol. Even though it's been some 30 years ago since my last real heartbreak, I do remember it. The scary thing is I only remember crying, being depressed and sad for all of about 2 weeks, and then I moved on. I was with the dude for almost 2 years though, so I was expecting to be depressed for a whole lot longer. I was in the Military at the time, and I just remember getting very busy with work and school. I guess it worked out because a few months later, I met and married the man I guess I was really supposed to be with, and that was 29 years ago.
Also, reading books on your favorite genre always helps.
Yay for you! 🙂 who broke your heart? Who are you with now?click to expand
🙂
Posted by LibWmanAw yay, I was with a libra for quite some too. I've had 3 libra romances. And several libra friends, enjoying every minute of it! 🙂Posted by mysteriousTaurusYou've hit the nail on the head. I've started to put up this wall and hard exterior because of horrible things happening in previous relationships. The trust issue is a big one. It's the reason me and the most recent guy couldn't work things out because I questioned him and he didn't feel he needed to put my mind at ease and just wasn't bothered. Though had it been the other way around I would've happily made the effort. The most loving relationship I had was with a Taurus. Sadly we were too young to sustain the relationship.
It makes me sad how sensitive libras are because from my experience, 9/10 times they're good people but once they get fucked over they develop serious trust issues and I've witnessed my poor libra become depressed from a previous heartbreak. It's very upsetting, they love love so much and get completely crushed once it turned sour. For libras to recover, they usually spend a lot of time with themselves, copping and just spending some to think and reevaluate things. What's most important for libras is to surround themselves with positive and happy people. Also people who will give them endless love and affection. If you don't have that in a romantic partner, find it in friends, family, pets, etc. Good luck. Hope you feel better.click to expand
Posted by Libragirl42this is me up until the rage bit. i just get really really glum. then i run the things over and over in my mind. i oscillate wildly between being miserable and numb and then after some time i see things much more philosophically and begin to focus on the good and all the learning that has come from the experience and then i'm ok!
Hello fellow librans
I'm curious to see how you guys react to bad news in the love department.
Do you create assumptions and become a homebody worry wart?
I sure do hahaha
Usually there's the lets think of the worst case scenario
Panic
Spend the day miserable with a high chance of waterworks
Eventually that turns to rage (my current state.. Nearly) where I decide if I'm gonna say something I've gotta get angry to say it or I'll become a mess.
I've gotta pull myself out of the self pity party or It'll consume me for days.
Any one else a sooky la la? Haha
I talk about it with another air sign until reason and logic hits me in that powerful way; this reminds me of the reasons I made the decision and it fuels me with the power to move on. I block and cut off all communication from heartbreaker and grieve, I literally let it all out. I cry the ugly cry, I have learned the sooner I stop fighting it and let it out the sooner the heartbreak will be gone. Then I get preoccupied with creative outlets and call the next person on the list.
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I'm curious to see how you guys react to bad news in the love department.
Do you create assumptions and become a homebody worry wart?
I sure do hahaha
Usually there's the lets think of the worst case scenario
Panic
Spend the day miserable with a high chance of waterworks
Eventually that turns to rage (my current state.. Nearly) where I decide if I'm gonna say something I've gotta get angry to say it or I'll become a mess.
I've gotta pull myself out of the self pity party or It'll consume me for days.
Any one else a sooky la la? Haha