good kitty, good kitty...my Libra is a good kitty

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Hi everyone...so, after some this and that back and forth between my Libra and I, I just wanted to let you all know that my "I'm single till you figure out your stuff" has paid off in like 20 minutes and things have been calm, serene, quiet and quite lovely for a while now. πŸ™‚
He's redeployed and things are smooth.

I want to thank you all for putting up with my "Libranusitis".

Love you all!
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KOL - the single lasted 20 minutes πŸ˜„...he hated it. Hated it and didn't want to hear about it. πŸ˜„. Redeployed actually means that he is back home now. Don't ask - Army stuff is just weird. I grew up in it and still think it's just weird.
He's decompressing now. Anyways the point of this post was to Thank all for all the advice and points anyone made when I needed some help.
I'm being grateful and want to appreciate.
Even you, as much as you are a major PITA sometimes πŸ™‚

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Posted by brianafay
I missed your original thread so I have no idea what's going on...but my Leeb spent a year in Iraq and we just barely made it through honestly.

Things have never been the same.

If you ever want to compare experiences/get advice/ etc. PM me. πŸ™‚
I think everyone is probably sick of hearing about it by now πŸ˜›



awww...I know what you mean....they suck at LDR and deployments make them neurotic even more I think, lol....but it's over...he's landed back in US πŸ˜„.

I would love to talk to you. I'll emails you shortly.

As for the rest of you: thank you again for putting up with me and him. You all have been a major help when things were going South. πŸ™‚
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They really do suck at LDR. It's actually just pitiful.

We're about to be LD again if we stay together. I'm moving about 5 hours away in like 3 weeks. FML
Either we will break up again, for the 123908138th time....or he'll end up moving up there.

People are placing bets, and both sound completely probable. It's just like us.

We're crazy...but crazy about each other!
(I always say that, I'm a cornball.)
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I don't know if the LDR is going to work for us. I'm keeping a low profile, even if he is bent even now. I can't commit all out if he may pull the "idk, if I can do the distance thing" again on me. Don't really want to do the back and forth roller coaster. He has last chance and knows it. I've been very patient with him. We shall see what the coming weeks will bring. For now though, it's all good, but I'm not sealing this deal yet. There are always other options, and for now he is well aware of it. It just depends what he will do next and how him and I will play out.
See, also he still has 8 years of service, he wants to get 100% pension, he could be out in 3 years, but would much rather stay for 8. We shall see where his orders will throw him and how we will deal with travel and how soon I will be moving to him, or not. Lots of variables.
I did chuckle at the "123908138th time" lol - I had one of those too, lol...sometimes it just takes some juggling and than it all works after a while. I wish you the best and hope things will be good for you. They're good guys, just annoying sometimes and I find that they make issues where there are no issues. oh, well...men are such adorable babies at times πŸ™‚