Libra Mirroring

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Micha on Thursday, March 31, 2011 and has 20 replies.

Understanding Libra Mirroring Behavior

Libra mirroring is when a Libra individual subconsciously copies your words and actions as a way to connect and find harmony. This behavior reflects their desire for balance and mutual understanding. It is common for Libras to mirror others as a social and empathetic trait, helping them build rapport and emotional connection.

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@Micha
15 Years

Would someone be so kind as to explain this?
My Libra tends to copy things that I say and do. At times, it seems as if he's giving me back my words.
I want to understand better. Thanks!

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@spica
19 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Micha
Would someone be so kind as to explain this?
My Libra tends to copy things that I say and do. At times, it seems as if he's giving me back my words.
I want to understand better. Thanks!

I think you understand that, but you're just wanting feedback. It means he likes you and wants to get to know you better. It does not mean commitment in any way, so don't think that. Just enjoy the ride!

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@Micha
15 Years

Posted by spica

Posted by Micha
Would someone be so kind as to explain this?
My Libra tends to copy things that I say and do. At times, it seems as if he's giving me back my words.
I want to understand better. Thanks!

I think you understand that, but you're just wanting feedback. It means he likes you and wants to get to know you better. It does not mean commitment in any way, so don't think that. Just enjoy the ride!

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Yes, you're correct. Thanks spica!
We know each other well and are exclusive.
I'm just curious about this behavior and couldn't find anything on it.
Sometimes it's little things that are odd. Cute, but odd!
For example, never known him to chew gum EVER. I've even offered him a piece of gum on several occasions and he's declined. I, on the other hand, am obsessed with a particular brand of chewing gum. So, I get in his car and there are a couple packs of "my" brand of gum there and he happens to be chewing gum. It seems he's become a "closet" gum chewer of my gum! lol

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@LibraSweetie88
15 YearsLibra

Well I read somewhere that libras are adaptable to the mates and surronding and we pick up things and the more I thought about it I notice that I do this....I picked up little habits and phrases from guys I been in relationships and from my close circle of friends.

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@Micha
15 Years

Posted by LibraSweetie88
Well I read somewhere that libras are adaptable to the mates and surronding and we pick up things and the more I thought about it I notice that I do this....I picked up little habits and phrases from guys I been in relationships and from my close circle of friends.

There are a few other quirky little things like the chewing gum. I'm not complaining, just wondering. Really, I would prefer he NOT chew my brand of chewing gum if he doesn't like it. I don't want him chewing it just to please me. LOL!

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@Micha
15 Years

Posted by Freetobe007
This Libra guy I used to talk to would do that too! For example, if I started rubbing his back, he would start rubbing mine or if I said commented another guy's looks, he would say something about another girl. I'm not sure why he did it, but I got the impression he was trying to keep things balanced out between us.

Yeah, it's quite amusing.

If I say sweet things to him, I know I'm getting 'em right back. hahaha

Or, a "me too."

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@Micha
15 Years

Posted by size zero superhero

Posted by Micha
Would someone be so kind as to explain this?
My Libra tends to copy things that I say and do. At times, it seems as if he's giving me back my words.

Haha. Not to sound presumptuous, but I imagine that gets TERRIBLY agitating.

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At times, but we've established he's not good at expressing his feelings. I suppose this is his way of doing so. He is nothing but sweet, kind, and loving toward me. If it were the opposite, I'd be more concerned.
I just went and got a spray tan. I will lmao if I see him this weekend and he has a tan too. ๐Ÿ˜‰

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@Micha
15 Years

Posted by Pride of 0ctober
sometimes we find ourselves in relationships, so he might just be mirroring things he can relate to with u

I understand. We are very much in sync it's almost scary. I just don't want him to feel that we have to be TOTALLY alike in every way.

So far, I think Gemini & Libra are a good match. :-)

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@Micha
15 Years

Posted by QLIbraMale
women tend to do this often with new boyfriends they change their persona lol. We Libra tend to be bit quarky or goofy time to time. mirror sometimes reflects your persona upon us an vice-versa

Yeah, I've always treated others the way I want to be treated. Again, if I were getting a different type of treatment in return I'd be more concerned. He's a good person.

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@Pride of 0ctober
16 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Micha

Posted by Pride of 0ctober
sometimes we find ourselves in relationships, so he might just be mirroring things he can relate to with u

I understand. We are very much in sync it's almost scary. I just don't want him to feel that we have to be TOTALLY alike in every way.

So far, I think Gemini & Libra are a good match. :-)

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it is a very good match fme ive always had great chemsitry with geminis, i find that dual personality thing attractive for some f'd up reason

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16 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Micha
Would someone be so kind as to explain this?
My Libra tends to copy things that I say and do. At times, it seems as if he's giving me back my words.
I want to understand better. Thanks!

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19 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Micha

Posted by size zero superhero

Posted by Micha
Would someone be so kind as to explain this?
My Libra tends to copy things that I say and do. At times, it seems as if he's giving me back my words.

Haha. Not to sound presumptuous, but I imagine that gets TERRIBLY agitating.

At times, but we've established he's not good at expressing his feelings. I suppose this is his way of doing so. He is nothing but sweet, kind, and loving toward me. If it were the opposite, I'd be more concerned.
I just went and got a spray tan. I will lmao if I see him this weekend and he has a tan too. ๐Ÿ˜‰

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I bet he'll draw the line on that. But your Lib sounds so sweet. Looks like he's very much into you!
When my lib 'mirrored' me I know he is right by my side mentally - almost melding - because that's what people in love do - they're like the same person - so he's testing it and 'feeling' you out.

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@LibraSweetie88
15 YearsLibra

Posted by Pride of 0ctober

Posted by Micha

Posted by Pride of 0ctober
sometimes we find ourselves in relationships, so he might just be mirroring things he can relate to with u

I understand. We are very much in sync it's almost scary. I just don't want him to feel that we have to be TOTALLY alike in every way.

So far, I think Gemini & Libra are a good match. :-)

it is a very good match fme ive always had great chemsitry with geminis, i find that dual personality thing attractive for some f'd up reason

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I would have to agree my first love was a Gem and 10 years later u can still see the love in our eyes when we are around each other.....our relationship just feels so easy......@ Pride I think we like the twins because it keeps up entertained like two different ppl so twice the fun lol

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@Micha
15 Years

Posted by LibraLuv

Posted by Micha

Posted by size zero superhero

Posted by Micha
Would someone be so kind as to explain this?
My Libra tends to copy things that I say and do. At times, it seems as if he's giving me back my words.

Haha. Not to sound presumptuous, but I imagine that gets TERRIBLY agitating.

At times, but we've established he's not good at expressing his feelings. I suppose this is his way of doing so. He is nothing but sweet, kind, and loving toward me. If it were the opposite, I'd be more concerned.
I just went and got a spray tan. I will lmao if I see him this weekend and he has a tan too. ๐Ÿ˜‰

Hahaha...if he got a spray tan I would laugh him out the room. In regards to the mirroring, I had to think back on this I've done this at times when something new has been introduced to me. But I wouldn't continue doing it if I didn't like it.

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Seriously, I would crack the heck up!!!!!!

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@Micha
15 Years

Posted by UrsaMediocre

Posted by Micha
Would someone be so kind as to explain this?
My Libra tends to copy things that I say and do. At times, it seems as if he's giving me back my words.
I want to understand better. Thanks!

??s?_uโ€”โ€” โ€”โ€”?q puโ€”?s?pun o?? ??uโ€”? ??
??sp?_o?? ? ??q โ€”? buโ€”??b s,โ€”? โ€” s?? sโ€”โ€”s โ€”? 'sโ€”โ€”?? โ€”? ??op pu?? ?s ?? โ€”โ€”?? sbuโ€”โ€” ?_do?? o?? spuโ€”? โ€”_q??_? ?
??sโ€”โ€” uโ€”?_?dx?? o?? s?? puโ€”_ os ??q ??uoโ€”?os p_?no??

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Cute! ๐Ÿ˜‰

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@Micha
15 Years

Posted by spica

Posted by Micha

Posted by size zero superhero

Posted by Micha
Would someone be so kind as to explain this?
My Libra tends to copy things that I say and do. At times, it seems as if he's giving me back my words.

Haha. Not to sound presumptuous, but I imagine that gets TERRIBLY agitating.

At times, but we've established he's not good at expressing his feelings. I suppose this is his way of doing so. He is nothing but sweet, kind, and loving toward me. If it were the opposite, I'd be more concerned.
I just went and got a spray tan. I will lmao if I see him this weekend and he has a tan too. ๐Ÿ˜‰

I bet he'll draw the line on that. But your Lib sounds so sweet. Looks like he's very much into you!
When my lib 'mirrored' me I know he is right by my side mentally - almost melding - because that's what people in love do - they're like the same person - so he's testing it and 'feeling' you out.

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Thanks so much...appreciate your kind words!!!!!

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@Micha
15 Years

Posted by LibraSweetie88

Posted by Pride of 0ctober

Posted by Micha

Posted by Pride of 0ctober
sometimes we find ourselves in relationships, so he might just be mirroring things he can relate to with u

I understand. We are very much in sync it's almost scary. I just don't want him to feel that we have to be TOTALLY alike in every way.

So far, I think Gemini & Libra are a good match. :-)

it is a very good match fme ive always had great chemsitry with geminis, i find that dual personality thing attractive for some f'd up reason

I would have to agree my first love was a Gem and 10 years later u can still see the love in our eyes when we are around each other.....our relationship just feels so easy......@ Pride I think we like the twins because it keeps up entertained like two different ppl so twice the fun lol

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It is such an easygoing relationship if you can get past the initial communication issues. Thanks to everyone for your feedback. It's nice coming here to get your opinions. Appreciate it always!!!!!!