he dissapeared.....

Haven't heard from him in over a week. No "goodbye, its been fun but I can't see you anymore." No nothin'! I'm too stubborn to pick up the phone and get the closure I want. Guess it's just another case of, "hes just not that into you." Should I be preparing myself for a return of this MIA libra?

Yes. Libra's can't leave anything for good - unless there was closure.

But don't wait around. Libras can take a long time, a few weeks is a piece of cake, nd days are nothing. Live your life - let him find you.

thank you. Wish I didn't care. But I do.

hahaha! Yea, trust me, my head is trying to talk my heart into that right now. Life without a libra male has always been EASIER!

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thank you. Wish I didn't care. But I do.

I know excatly what you mean. If you could reach in and turn it off like a switch you would. Just remember; if it is meant to be, it will be. Nothing you do, or won't do is going to change it.

Plus, anyone who loves themselves enough will know that a week of not speaking is unacceptable. If it's all love; he will come around. If it's not - he won't.

I must add though.... DON'T CHASE HIM. Libras love to chase. You need to become that unattainable girl. The one that got away.

If it was good - he will realize it. If he doesn't, then he did you a favor.

Should I be preparing myself for a return of this MIA libra?

Well whether or not he comes back depends on how long, serious & good the relationship/friendship was. If you've only established a sexual relationship with him, then no he's probably not coming back. If you've established a semi-serious relationship with him, he might but then again might not come back. It all depends on what made him detach from you in the first place. Now if the relationship was very serious & his & yours emotions were both deeply involved, then let me assure you, HE WILL BE BACK. And in this case, he may not be back to stay permanently, but he will atleast come back, even if just to test the waters 1 more time.

The thing people have to understand about Libras is that yes, while they are very indecisive, especially when it comes to matters of love & of the heart, once they make the decision to emotionally detach from you, they are DONE. So to an extent, it's not always a good and/or fulfilling them when they reappear again if they no longer have the ability to love you the way they used to. From what you're telling me, I'm assuming that your relationship with him was EITHER very short-winded OR was very long.
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Thank you for your words of wisdom. I used to be that annoying girl who would chase and could never get over rejection. If I ever hear from him again, it will not be easy. I already deleted his number and if he ever does call or text, my ice queen self will not reply. The only way I would ever talk to him again is if he showed up at my work or at my house....Knowing libra guys, im sure its a possibility. I felt a deep connection with him, and i truly believe one day he will realize that I AM indeed the one that got away....by that time though, there is a huge possibility ill be over it....if thats the case, "it just wasnt meant to be."

p.s. i know everyone can be accused of "only wanting what they can't have" but i really believe libras are more apt to this behavior then other signs.

If the relationship was very short & had no real foundation or basis for feelings being attached on both ends, then I'd just say, take this as a loss & move on b/c he's not coming back. Libras will talk to & lead on anyone, but actually feeling the craving to stick with that person only comes when their feelings are deeply involved. If you & him had a short little fling, where YOU're the only one who developed feelings, then honey he's gone for good.

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If you were in a long-winded relationship with him & he disappeared like this, then he will be back. It might take him a long time b/c when he leaves it's his way of retreating into his shell to think (b/c he feels that if he stays, he won't ever be able to think rationally or clear his mind). If the relationship ended on a horrible note or ended b/c of betrayal on your part, then he is def. going to come back. He might not come back with the same willingness to love and/OR be loved like he used to, but he will reappear, even if just for 5 more minutes. Libras do hate letting go of something b/c they are always in fear that maybe they didn't think things through for long enough & possibly might've made the wrong decision.
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What you ALSO need to know about Libras is that usually before the relationship even ends, they are already considering and/OR already detaching from you. And sometimes it might take the relationship to finally be over & usually in this case, once a Libra is gone, they're out for good. But in these situations, they never came back b/c they had plenty of time to think, even though they were technically still IN the relationship (before it ended)

When a Libra leaves their partners high & dry, it's important that you stop worrying about whether or not he's going to come back, how you should react or handle the situation. Once he leaves, YOU are the only person left standing & YOU have to make the decision of whether or not you can handle someone being cold or insensitive enough to just disappear. The true question is, if he does come back, will you take him back?

See me, I feel that communication (even in the toughest of times) is the MOST important. And if whatever I did OR didn't do to you made you THAT mad that you said "F the communication, I'm OUT" then I'll go ahead & make the decision to cut you off even before you make your way back to me. You have to take the control. Expect the best, but prepare for the worst. Figure out how you'll really feel about him if he DOES come back AND figure out how you'll be able to handle things & cope if he DOES NOT come back. No, don't email him or contact him. Remember that he left w/o so much as a "goodbye" b/c that was his way of cutting off the possibility of any contact happening. If he just needed some space and/or time, he should've just said so & trusted that you would understand & NOT point him for it. But oh no, if he just left w/o taking your feelings into consideration and/or w/o focusing on communication first, then that tells you alot about him & how he handles things in his life. No one likes a quitter, not even the most passive, weak or heart-broken woman. And don't be suprised if he comes back EXPECTING for you to be waiting with wide arms, b/c if you do this you'll give him the impression that he can do whatever he wants, & come & go as he pleases. Yes, you might be able to breath again & might get him back, but is it worth it to get him back at the expense of your heart being broken or you always resenting him for leaving you for dead like that? Once you figure out the answer, you'll know how to proceed

I'm not gonna lie, it was a sexual relationship. It lasted about 2 months. We both commented on the fact that we had awsome chemistry and were really comfortable around eachother. Both of us had just ended relationships and were not ready for something intense or heavy. It wasnt all sex based though, we hung out and could talk about anything. Libra man said to me one night, "I think were going to be friends forever." This seems like a pretty bold statement and makes me feel like he is going to try and come back into my life at one point or another. I really miss him 😢 I think he sensed the fact I was starting to get feelings for him and backed off? or maybe he started to get feelings for me and backed off? or maybe he doesnt care about me at all and i made up this fairytale in my head? I may never know and this is what bugs me the most. I have too much pride to find out though. When it comes down to it, he burned me. So if he ever does try to win me back he better be prepared for my icy aqaurius wrath.

I do take responsibility...it doesnt make it feel any better though. We were friends too. We werent JUST having sex. I have expected this all a long....i didnt go into it thinking that it was going to end up some kind of fairytale. These kinds of things happen even if you do set requirments and standards. One thing about emotionally unavailable men is that they put on a great facade.

He texted me today. I did not write back. What you said is true, i need to take responsibility for my actions. I went into the relationship without feelings and now that i do have feelings for this guy i cant just have casual sex with him, so unless he feels something for me too and makes it KNOWN then the relationship is over.

I just think its funny how libra men always come back....

and im proud of myself for being stronger this time then i was with my last libra guy. He would always come back to me and he KNEW he could. In fact, he still tries to, poor lil man child. lol I'm finally testing my will power. I'm going to be strong, i need to be strong. I'm not going to settle for less.

if there is an emotionally unavailable man anywhere around, i swear, im all about him. It's a problem I have but the 1st step is realizing it. I guess I like a good challenge.

I want to text him back so bad right now but i need to be strong for myself!

I don't think he is going to give up that easily. Honestly, I can see that me not texting him back is going to make him want me even more.