help libra woman in love

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Ive been dating this libra woman for 9 months. My question is how long do libras wait before moving forward. Ive done everything i could think of i dont mind dating but i feel at times shes holding back. And limiting us from getting to know eachother. I recently told her i felt like she didnt care because of her actions was aloof and she told me she hasnt found the one person to settle dien and commit but at the same time still dating me and got upset when I told her she wasnt serious about me. How do libras express their love i heard if they dont show u in actions then.. they not serious so why would my libra get upset when intold her how i felt. What do libras look for? Sadly my ex was a libra and she was nothing like my current libra i never felt like i had to question where I stand. Should i pull back keep it light i care about this person alot i feel they may lose me if they dont show me something😢 im doing 100 of all the work i dont understand why they would b upset because i express this to them and said they are careless about ne and i should just leave....they didnt say anything but ....if that's what u feel like doing. Do libras wait until its too late to fall in kove or catch feelings? Im slipping away.
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Posted by lovely77
Ive been dating this libra woman for 9 months. My question is how long do libras wait before moving forward. Ive done everything i could think of i dont mind dating but i feel at times shes holding back. And limiting us from getting to know eachother. I recently told her i felt like she didnt care because of her actions was aloof and she told me she hasnt found the one person to settle dien and commit but at the same time still dating me and got upset when I told her she wasnt serious about me. How do libras express their love i heard if they dont show u in actions then.. they not serious so why would my libra get upset when intold her how i felt. What do libras look for? Sadly my ex was a libra and she was nothing like my current libra i never felt like i had to question where I stand. Should i pull back keep it light i care about this person alot i feel they may lose me if they dont show me something😢 im doing 100 of all the work i dont understand why they would b upset because i express this to them and said they are careless about ne and i should just leave....they didnt say anything but ....if that's what u feel like doing. Do libras wait until its too late to fall in kove or catch feelings? Im slipping away.
She may still be unsure of her feelings. That would be the only reason I wouldn't enthusiastically move things forward with someone I'm dating. If after 9 months of dating I still don't feel strongly for the person, then I may never feel it. It sounds like she's simply stringing you along.

She may have been upset with you because you were indirectly dictating how she should be feeling about you and the relationship. We don't like to be told how to feel, and we definitely don't like to be accused of not taking something as seriously as the other person. Even if that may be true...
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Posted by lovely77
Ive been dating this libra woman for 9 months. My question is how long do libras wait before moving forward. Ive done everything i could think of i dont mind dating but i feel at times shes holding back. And limiting us from getting to know eachother. I recently told her i felt like she didnt care because of her actions was aloof and she told me she hasnt found the one person to settle dien and commit but at the same time still dating me and got upset when I told her she wasnt serious about me. How do libras express their love i heard if they dont show u in actions then.. they not serious so why would my libra get upset when intold her how i felt. What do libras look for? Sadly my ex was a libra and she was nothing like my current libra i never felt like i had to question where I stand. Should i pull back keep it light i care about this person alot i feel they may lose me if they dont show me something😢 im doing 100 of all the work i dont understand why they would b upset because i express this to them and said they are careless about ne and i should just leave....they didnt say anything but ....if that's what u feel like doing. Do libras wait until its too late to fall in kove or catch feelings? Im slipping away.
(1) she's not really into you. if we really like you we want to go to the next level soon. we are hopeless romantics
(2) someone broke her heart deeply and this gives her fear
(3) she has feelings for someone and she's not sure if it's you or that someone else.
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This makes sense too. They haven't we talk everyday. I guess it drives me crazy because tbey said they need time. We are pushing that 1 year mark in January. I guess i dont know what i mean to the. 100 percent but also i dont want to rush them. I just wnat know wjere i stand and they not really giving me that. Then when i said they dont appreciate me that really pissed i mean pissed them off. I cant help it if your actions show me u dont care and its taking u forever to mske us official. Maybe i just dont understand. But as u said they definitely need time to think and weigh options idk...what to do or think im just going with th3 flow