Should I make the next move??

I am a Libra woman. Yesterday I spent the most awesome day and night with a Taurus male. It is now 8:30 the next day and I haven't heard from him. The sex was amazing! He was so complimentary and attentive. I'm not sure if I should make the next move. Please advise!

First time hanging out with him or no?

Yes, it was my first time hanging out with him.

its only been a day, wait a few days..

He kept acting and saying he was shy, very little eye contact.

Until it was cuddle time lol

if he hasnt contacted you in a couple days then sure text or call him! it is 2015 after all 🙂

Without going too much into detail, wait and see. Try contacting him but don't put all your eggs in one basket.

honestly he was probably shy. when i am around some libra males they are sooo attractive and the chemistry between taurus and libra is so intense that i literally cant take it and i find myself looking away from their eyes because the intensity is so strong

Lol I will mysterious and def won't hemispheres.
that is interesting, there was intense chemistry.

Lol I will mysterious and def won't hemispheres.
that is interesting, there was intense chemistry.

do u know when his exact bday is? and when is urs?

His is May 6th, mine is October 10th
So what we had sex?

We both wanted it, so?

Damn no morals for your self or what...smdh.

Yeah argee with Kalin. No shame, no harm, and no drama your into fwb that's cool. Lol

hope I didn't run a chance at a future ltr with this Taurus, based on some of the comments sounds like I may have. Feeling sad now_ ?

Well I am first decan, so maybe second decan like that kind of stuff right away. I don't though. Good luck.

Posted by rnbabs
hope I didn't run a chance at a future ltr with this Taurus, based on some of the comments sounds like I may have. Feeling sad now_ ?

Welcome to the Harem!

LTR is now off the table unless you have something about you which is different from his other herd, but that's slim chance. FYI those looking for LTR don't typically put out the first time, we Bulls enjoy mystery, and by giving it up just like that you've ruined that exploration and shown him just what kind of girl you really are. Which is fine for him because hes a man with needs and you will suffice but in terms of anything real or true, that's over. Best advice I could give is to bail and next time keep your damn legs shut! Unless of course you like being slutty, then by all means it just never be true and what's the point? Non Taurus Women SMH.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Well I am first decan, so maybe second decan like that kind of stuff right away. I don't though. Good luck.

That's what I was trying to get at but didn't want to crush you or anything... it's not just Taurus but most men won't take you seriously if you want a relationship but sleep with them the first night then you've pretty much screwed yourself. Unless we're looking for a booty call then showing sexual restraint actually build respect and let's us know you're the relationship type. Better luck next time.

Posted by busyeyes88 the type you want to meet your mother and that is what makes them DEADLY!!!!!!!

Every Father or Mother I have met absolutely loved me. In fact a lot of the dads complimented me on my sense of style, one even remarked how our dress style was similar. It's been my experience that I have a lot more in common with parents than I do their offspring. LOL.

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Posted by busyeyes88 the type you want to meet your mother and that is what makes them DEADLY!!!!!!!

Every Father or Mother I have met absolutely loved me. In fact a lot of the dads complimented me on my sense of style, one even remarked how our dress style was similar. It's been my experience that I have a lot more in common with parents than I do their offspring. LOL.

Lol lol That would be your leo rising coming into play there!! Taurus is lethal!! Lol

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I still hang out with that dad from time to time.Years later.... Pisses off his daughter to no end because she's since got married to this other bloke and her parents can't stand him but they love me. lmao.

In my defense, her father is my friend. :p

He is a fellow coder, although he primarily coded for software companies in silicon valley back in the day and we have a lot of commonalities and interests so we get along famously. lol. His daughter broke it off with me because I reminded her of her father and she called me "boring". So she went and married a lad who looks like a member of an 80's hair band and still wears an earring in his ear. Every other word out of his mouth is "Duuuuuuuuuuuddddddeeeee" and "That's far out brah". I've only encountered him a few times and I find him annoying. lmao

@Busy.. April 28, at your service.

Lol..love, beauty, and sensuality...

I'm honestly surprised how many women see no harm in a one night stand with someone they're romantically interested in until it's too late....

she is a grown woman she can do whatever she may please with whoever she may please. take care

rnbabs,

It's over if you are looking a relationship. It's not gonna work out that way. If you force the issue then he will treat you like a slut. He will use you
over and over again.

Posted by rnbabs
I am a Libra woman. Yesterday I spent the most awesome day and night with a Taurus male. It is now 8:30 the next day and I haven't heard from him. The sex was amazing! He was so complimentary and attentive. I'm not sure if I should make the next move. Please advise!

@rnbabs I can't say I entirely agree with the consensus that your prospects for a ltr are doomed. Would it have been better to get to know him on a personal level before sex? Yep, but as someone else said, that applies to all men when the goal of a committed relationship is concerned. Best step you can take from here, is to find out what his values are and highlight where yours and his align. Show him where your traditional values and ideals come in. Ideally, let him contact you... if it hasn't happened within 4-5 days go ahead and feel him out by contacting him. All may not be lost. Having said all that, don't let him take you for a ride. If anything, Taurus respects someone with standards and convictions, so show him what those are and please stick to them

Lol... quoted the wrong person.

No morals, slutty, keep your damn legs shut? LMFAO. check yourselves.

Thanks, noodle, so many judgemental people on here.
we are both aduls, not kids in our 20s
we are both recently divorced and not looking for a serious relationship right now.
we.simply enjoy each others company.
was.with him again yesterday.
he is a gentleman and very respectful.

Posted by rnbabs
Thanks, noodle, so many judgemental people on here.
we are both aduls, not kids in our 20s
we are both recently divorced and not looking for a serious relationship right now.
we.simply enjoy each others company.
was.with him again yesterday.
he is a gentleman and very respectful.

so be it. So why are you asking if you should do your next move? and he shouldn't have to disrespect you the fact he have your legs free.

you're just in your 20"s? is that 21 or max 25? lol.

So just enjoy his company don't come and asking what's your next move. That is not your role actually. That is for a guy.

This is 2015, why should a woman wait for a man? Before you comment, make sure you read what was said. You sound like an idiot.

Posted by rnbabs
This is 2015, why should a woman wait for a man? Before you comment, make sure you read what was said. You sound like an idiot.

hahaha. that is you. lmao. I think what you said is just a mirror of yourself yet you don't want to know it. Others put their comments and you don't like. so Why are you posting and asking others opinion. lmao.

I don't think sleeping with a guy on the first date is a slut. To each it own.... everyone is different and we shouldn't be so judgmental towards ppl. We all have done things out of character at one time or another...