Help - Why is my Libra ignoring me?!

Okay so I am an Aquarius. I met this Libra guy in about four months ago in school while being in a relationship with a Pisces for 7 years. This Libra guy would text me frequently but understood that I was in a relationship. Last month, I found out my Pisces was cheating on me (with another Pisces) and of course I was devastated. My Libra friend was super supportive, brutally honest about his opinion on the matter but I really appreciated his advice and outlook. He sprung it on me that he really liked me and invited me out. I accepted, but when he preceded to tell me that it's time to move on and see what else is out there I pumped the brakes and told him that while I agree I do not want to rush into anything and would like to be alone for a while. The conversation took a weird turn and needless to say he's been weird ever since. He won't text me and if he does he'll ignore my response. Did I push him away? Should I keep reaching out to him? I'd hate to lose him as a friend!

Cut all ties.

You aren't losing a "friend" because he never was your friend. He was an opportunist. He waited in the wings until your relationship went south and he jumped at the opportunity to get with you. This is why having some male friends is a fuck fest. They're biding their time and then they pounce.

I had the same shit happen with a Leo dude. All his advice to me when I was going through a break up was nothing but self serving bullshit so he could swoop in.

I also had a Pisces friend who I had to drop because he was also waiting it out for me to finally "fall" for him. He'd get emotionally abusive/manipulative if he even sniffed another guy on my radar. When it finally sunk in that I wasn't going to be interested in him any time soon, he started treating me like shit and I had to cut ties because I just couldn't deal with it anymore.

But this guy you're dealing with? It's JUST been four months, honey. It's not like you're fretting over a friend of decades. On a realistic timeline, dude is a small blip in the scope of things. And considering it's only been four months it even further cements that he was likely only your "friend" because he wanted more from you than friendship. The fact he's behaving how he is now says he's not really your friend, does it?

In regard to the last line, do not even think any of this is your fault because you are not really to blame for his immature temper tantrum. He can go fuck himself, tbh. He pushed himself away. Like Doll said, cut all ties. This guy isn't friend material, let alone relationship material. He's just another immature twat that needs to be thrown back into the water.

Cast your line and try again. This one's a dud.

Posted by topes
Question is: How much did you reveal about the baggage you carry from the previous relationship. Aquas are not good at keeping their mouths shut and can easily turn potentials off with their nonsensical rambling.

You clearly did not read the post.

Hes upset bc he wanted you and you weren't ready. Pretty simple.

Posted by boxcarmirnta
Hes upset bc he wanted you and you weren't ready. Pretty simple.

Or not interested. He is not entitled to her or her emotions because he happens to be interested.

Posted by Airfairy215
Okay so I am an Aquarius. I met this Libra guy in about four months ago in school while being in a relationship with a Pisces for 7 years. This Libra guy would text me frequently but understood that I was in a relationship. Last month, I found out my Pisces was cheating on me (with another Pisces) and of course I was devastated. My Libra friend was super supportive, brutally honest about his opinion on the matter but I really appreciated his advice and outlook. He sprung it on me that he really liked me and invited me out. I accepted, but when he preceded to tell me that it's time to move on and see what else is out there I pumped the brakes and told him that while I agree I do not want to rush into anything and would like to be alone for a while. The conversation took a weird turn and needless to say he's been weird ever since. He won't text me and if he does he'll ignore my response. Did I push him away? Should I keep reaching out to him? I'd hate to lose him as a friend!

Us Libra hates rejection. I feel like if you want him as a friend, tell him that straight out and that you do care about him as person.

If you want to be more than a friend and worrying about committing into a relationship. Just say that you'd like to see how things goes between you and him. Make him feel wanted and loved, listen to him and be there for him like he did for you.

If you don't want anything from him. Just say sorry and leave him alone.

he didnt wait for you to heal from previous relationship.. he just wanted to be with you...

a friend doesnt do that.. no matter the sign..

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
You aren't losing a "friend" because he never was your friend. He was an opportunist. He waited in the wings until your relationship went south and he jumped at the opportunity to get with you. This is why having some male friends is a fuck fest. They're biding their time and then they pounce.

I had the same shit happen with a Leo dude. All his advice to me when I was going through a break up was nothing but self serving bullshit so he could swoop in.

I also had a Pisces friend who I had to drop because he was also waiting it out for me to finally "fall" for him. He'd get emotionally abusive/manipulative if he even sniffed another guy on my radar. When it finally sunk in that I wasn't going to be interested in him any time soon, he started treating me like shit and I had to cut ties because I just couldn't deal with it anymore.

But this guy you're dealing with? It's JUST been four months, honey. It's not like you're fretting over a friend of decades. On a realistic timeline, dude is a small blip in the scope of things. And considering it's only been four months it even further cements that he was likely only your "friend" because he wanted more from you than friendship. The fact he's behaving how he is now says he's not really your friend, does it?

In regard to the last line, do not even think any of this is your fault because you are not really to blame for his immature temper tantrum. He can go fuck himself, tbh. He pushed himself away. Like Doll said, cut all ties. This guy isn't friend material, let alone relationship material. He's just another immature twat that needs to be thrown back into the water.

Cast your line and try again. This one's a dud.

I agree that men and women can't be friends. There are always exceptions, but two straight people, no

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i dont know. i have a male friend .. know him for 15 years.. nothing ever happened between us.. we are like brother and sister... he is married now, im in a stable relationship.. so it might be possible

but this guy is not a friend..

Posted by Koniuchaa

Posted by rockyroadicecream
You aren't losing a "friend" because he never was your friend. He was an opportunist. He waited in the wings until your relationship went south and he jumped at the opportunity to get with you. This is why having some male friends is a fuck fest. They're biding their time and then they pounce.

I had the same shit happen with a Leo dude. All his advice to me when I was going through a break up was nothing but self serving bullshit so he could swoop in.

I also had a Pisces friend who I had to drop because he was also waiting it out for me to finally "fall" for him. He'd get emotionally abusive/manipulative if he even sniffed another guy on my radar. When it finally sunk in that I wasn't going to be interested in him any time soon, he started treating me like shit and I had to cut ties because I just couldn't deal with it anymore.

But this guy you're dealing with? It's JUST been four months, honey. It's not like you're fretting over a friend of decades. On a realistic timeline, dude is a small blip in the scope of things. And considering it's only been four months it even further cements that he was likely only your "friend" because he wanted more from you than friendship. The fact he's behaving how he is now says he's not really your friend, does it?

In regard to the last line, do not even think any of this is your fault because you are not really to blame for his immature temper tantrum. He can go fuck himself, tbh. He pushed himself away. Like Doll said, cut all ties. This guy isn't friend material, let alone relationship material. He's just another immature twat that needs to be thrown back into the water.

Cast your line and try again. This one's a dud.

I agree that men and women can't be friends. There are always exceptions, but two straight people, no

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That's not what I said.

It is possible, but it heavily depends on the individuals.