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How to Maintain Boundaries with Libra Men When Dating
To avoid crossing into the friendzone with a Libra man, set clear intentions early and communicate openly. Maintain a balance between friendliness and romantic interest, and be mindful of not becoming overly comfortable too soon. Respecting your own boundaries helps keep the relationship on a romantic path instead of settling into a friendship.
Posted by 2Moon
Sag women —? ? ?? ❤❤??😘
haha right back at you!
The Sag/Libra bond is so amazing I just can't put it into words!
Posted by Fafa
Libras r so social I think it's hard to stay friends with the opposite sex. I find when I'm just hanging out with opposite sex just chilling they end up wanting more . I just don't want friendship. Tough for libras
I know a lot of male Libras with a LOT of female friends. Like, genuine friends only. What kinda girl stands out to Libras as "more than friends" if you know what I mean ?
Posted by Rozaeon
I don't know how Libra men works but maybe you should keep your distance a little, try to keep him guessing things about you to keep him interested or flirt a little moreAlso you can tell him that you are interested in more than friendship
I'm trying but his charm is so irresistible its hard haha!
I'm going to have to manage some self control
Posted by tiziani
The kind of woman that gets him out of his head and physically present is always a solid bet imo.
Elaborate... this is interesting
Posted by Fafa
Libras r so social I think it's hard to stay friends with the opposite sex. I find when I'm just hanging out with opposite sex just chilling they end up wanting more . I just don't want friendship. Tough for librasI know a lot of male Libras with a LOT of female friends. Like, genuine friends only. What kinda girl stands out to Libras as "more than friends" if you know what I mean ?
Most of the time my friends stay in friend zone because I don't find them attractive. Are these men attracted to u?
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He's a friend of a friend who has been trying to set us up for a while but I wasn't interested until I started talking to him every now and then and now I think we'll get along really well. I've been told he has a huge crush one me haha like high school
Posted by Fafa
Libras r so social I think it's hard to stay friends with the opposite sex. I find when I'm just hanging out with opposite sex just chilling they end up wanting more . I just don't want friendship. Tough for librasI know a lot of male Libras with a LOT of female friends. Like, genuine friends only. What kinda girl stands out to Libras as "more than friends" if you know what I mean ?
Most of the time my friends stay in friend zone because I don't find them attractive. Are these men attracted to u?
He's a friend of a friend who has been trying to set us up for a while but I wasn't interested until I started talking to him every now and then and now I think we'll get along really well. I've been told he has a huge crush one me haha like high school
So if he has a huge crush on you what's the problem? Sounds like y'all can be more then just friends if he is crushing on u
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I guess but I don't want to rush into things and really want to get to know him first. you know, form that foundation. My problem is this usually leads to the dreaded "friendzone" although I don't believe it exists
Posted by tiziani
The kind of woman that gets him out of his head and physically present is always a solid bet imo.Elaborate... this is interesting
That's pretty much the gist of it, in my experience. As long as I don't have too much time to think or fantasise, because the real thing is even better in her company then it's all good.
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I love this 🙂
Thank you
Posted by Fafa
Libras r so social I think it's hard to stay friends with the opposite sex. I find when I'm just hanging out with opposite sex just chilling they end up wanting more . I just don't want friendship. Tough for librasI know a lot of male Libras with a LOT of female friends. Like, genuine friends only. What kinda girl stands out to Libras as "more than friends" if you know what I mean ?
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Yes this!!! This is what i tried to ask earlier..
Posted by LordComplexity
There is no such thing as the friend zone. The only time someone is stuck being a friend is simply when the compatibility and chemistry isn't there. Or when they are too "nice" and pussy whipped to know how to transition a platonic relationship into a romantic one.Otherwise I know for a fact women always want a deeper connection in a relationship. So it is practically a requirement to be best friends.
Yessssss
Posted by Fafa
Libras r so social I think it's hard to stay friends with the opposite sex. I find when I'm just hanging out with opposite sex just chilling they end up wanting more . I just don't want friendship. Tough for librasI know a lot of male Libras with a LOT of female friends. Like, genuine friends only. What kinda girl stands out to Libras as "more than friends" if you know what I mean ?
Most of the time my friends stay in friend zone because I don't find them attractive. Are these men attracted to u?
That's exactly what i was thinking. When a libra man really really likes you, he won't be "friendzoned".
When i told my libra friend he was just a friend, he laughed and said; you really think you friendzoned me? Keep dreaming. I don't chase normally but you i will chase, and you WILL be mine...(The arrogant bastard 🙂)
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This is great! Still with him?
Posted by tiziani
The kind of woman that gets him out of his head and physically present is always a solid bet imo.Elaborate... this is interesting
That's pretty much the gist of it, in my experience. As long as I don't have too much time to think or fantasise, because the real thing is even better in her company then it's all good.
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Dude my leeb is finally coming to visit!! Any advice? I guess itll be def be out of his head and into the real thing now!
Posted by Fafa
Libras r so social I think it's hard to stay friends with the opposite sex. I find when I'm just hanging out with opposite sex just chilling they end up wanting more . I just don't want friendship. Tough for librasI know a lot of male Libras with a LOT of female friends. Like, genuine friends only. What kinda girl stands out to Libras as "more than friends" if you know what I mean ?
Most of the time my friends stay in friend zone because I don't find them attractive. Are these men attracted to u?
That's exactly what i was thinking. When a libra man really really likes you, he won't be "friendzoned".
When i told my libra friend he was just a friend, he laughed and said; you really think you friendzoned me? Keep dreaming. I don't chase normally but you i will chase, and you WILL be mine...(The arrogant bastard 🙂)
This is great! Still with him?
I'm still resisting...and he is still chasing 🙂
We have a beautiful friendship going on and i don't wanna ruin it.
He told me i'm a coward and it's time to stop running from him
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Awww! Well don't wait too long, you don't wanna lose him and plus it just might become the best thing ever! Wish i knew men that were like that. He could be right. 😉
Posted by Rozaeon
I don't know how Libra men works but maybe you should keep your distance a little, try to keep him guessing things about you to keep him interested or flirt a little moreAlso you can tell him that you are interested in more than friendship
This right here.
Posted by Fafa
Libras r so social I think it's hard to stay friends with the opposite sex. I find when I'm just hanging out with opposite sex just chilling they end up wanting more . I just don't want friendship. Tough for librasI know a lot of male Libras with a LOT of female friends. Like, genuine friends only. What kinda girl stands out to Libras as "more than friends" if you know what I mean ?
Most of the time my friends stay in friend zone because I don't find them attractive. Are these men attracted to u?
That's exactly what i was thinking. When a libra man really really likes you, he won't be "friendzoned".
When i told my libra friend he was just a friend, he laughed and said; you really think you friendzoned me? Keep dreaming. I don't chase normally but you i will chase, and you WILL be mine...(The arrogant bastard 🙂)
This is great! Still with him?
I'm still resisting...and he is still chasing 🙂
We have a beautiful friendship going on and i don't wanna ruin it.
He told me i'm a coward and it's time to stop running from him
Awww! Well don't wait too long, you don't wanna lose him and plus it just might become the best thing ever! Wish i knew men that were like that. He could be right. 😉
I sure don't wanna lose him as a friend.
But a relationship? i gave it some SERIOUS thoughts...
He's absolutely a catch (libra with cancer moon, just ridiculously adorable, sensitive and sweet) and i care deeply for him but I know what he's looking for in a rls, he wants to be with me everyday (even now as friends), craves togetherness, souls emerging, spending all of our free time together, commitment, marriage...
Although it might seem like absolute heaven to most woman, to me it's very suffocating and scary (bad experience).
He absolutely hates the fact that i need a lot of space, and i do need A LOT of it, but he thinks it (I) will change once we're in a relationship. He's not being realistic about this and one of us needs to be.
I don't know what happened here. 2 1/2 yrs ago we already agreed that it wouldn't work (too many differences) and now all of a sudden he changed his mind?
My sweet sweet libra man....sigh
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I hear ya... I need lots of space too. And have lots of past shitty relationships so i know how that feels. But man sounds like he's made up his mind! Let him prove it to you 🙂
Posted by tiziani
The kind of woman that gets him out of his head and physically present is always a solid bet imo.Elaborate... this is interesting
That's pretty much the gist of it, in my experience. As long as I don't have too much time to think or fantasise, because the real thing is even better in her company then it's all good.
Dude my leeb is finally coming to visit!! Any advice? I guess itll be def be out of his head and into the real thing now!
Only thing I can say is take it in stride, be calm about it and be open. You know that you want to spend more time in person so don't to go to any extremes now that that has finally happened the one time. There's always going to be a natural high and adrenaline rush after anticipating something for so long, but that's never going to last long. 10 mins tops lol from that point on the rest is really up to you both to show each other how much more you can get out of your time in person together. As long as you're both open and warm, and dont spend the time trying to explain but just show, then the proof will be in the pudding.
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Great cool thank you.. I'm so nervous but i think it'll just click..... Hopefully!!!
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Without a doubt Libra men are my favourite. I have 7 Libra male best friends and I'm instantly drawn to them.
HOWEVER
everytime I consider getting into a relationship with one, we are already in the "friendzone" because I've had to much fun and spent too much time getting to know them.
I've recently met a Libra and I want to give it a shot. How do I avoid getting too comfortable with him and letting things progress into a relationship?
If you see what I mean ?