How can I make the first move on a Libra?

I've been growing a friendship with a Libra guy for about three years now. I am a sag.

I had broached the idea of dating about seven months ago but he was trying to patch it up with a former relationship at the time and told me he'd like to be friends.

I now believe that he might finally be ready to be more than friends. I know from reading these boards that Libra's are constantly re-thinking their decisions and I am thinking it might be worth find a new approach to us potentially being more than friends.

I read about how Libra's like it when you make the first move but how aggressive does that first move need to be? If I open up and tell him how he makes me feel, is that too much emotion? Should I just walk up and kiss him? It's all about the balance with Libra so where is the line between aggressive enough and leaving it to open for him to over-think the whole thing?

Thanks!

I think you should just make a date with the libra and talk to him point blank, tell him how you feel about him and asked if he is ready to start something new. Talk to him as if you were a friend, that is all it takes.

I would definitely be as open and honest as possible. Libra men love that. Just go up to him and tell him how you feel. He'll love your honesty and confidence.

Dont keep beating around the bush. We are too simple to understand complicated people. 😛

So I should just go up to him and say it....I'd be lame if I say, put it in a letter or email?

Yeah, I know, not the assertive girl that would turn a Libra head. Yet for some reason anytime I gear myself up to do it, I get around him and just get lost in the conversation we're having and walk aways going "wait....shoot I didn't say it again."

no u gotta say it. not sms or mail. make it simple - "I want to sleep with you from tonight".

"If I open up and tell him how he makes me feel, is that too much emotion?"

This or some variation.

Don't start talking about your feelings. Talking is a mental endeavor with us Libra men. We will intellectualize the emotions that are being talked about and it will turn into a detached hypothetical situation.

When you are standing or sitting close together start touching him, turn to him and look at his eyes then his lips and start leaning in and don't let it just be a display of your desire to have more than a friendship with him....get lost in it and let the sparks flow from there.

Libras really need to actually do something when it comes to emotions to understand where they really lie and where the other person really lies. He can think about his attraction to you but once he materializes it it will start to become real and tactile to him.

If he is really attracted to you which only you can really tell if he is, once you initiate it will progress very smoothly and very passionately.

Libras are a lot better at displaying their affection than talking about it. We are very good at detaching something and looking at it from all angles, when it comes to affection and romance we really need to feel uninhibited in being able to SHOW the other person how we really feel or what we are really feeling in that moment. The other person making the first move enables us to do this without worrying about weather or not we are taking something to far.

The only thing is once you do this you will jump start a freight train. You have to be prepared to let a Libra express himself. He will do a very good job at reading you and knowing exactly what it is in the moment as soon as you touch. If you want to passionately kiss and touch that is what he will do to communicate with you, if you want to make love to him he will know and he will do. He will go exactly where you want and not an inch further. We are REALLY GOOD AT THIS.

You just have to start it.

Thank you to everyone who replied.

nicodemus- I really appreciate your response. My pulse quickened as I envisioned any myself getting physically close as a way to express my interest.

As an update, he and I have had conflicting schedules and have not had a chance to hang out in several weeks. I'm not giving up though.

And if anyone else wants to throw out their ideas, I am certainly up for more suggestions. Obviously what works for one may not work for another so I'll certainly take the advise and use it to come up with a way that I hope will work for me.

Thanks again,
CT_Sag

We sound so confusing but simple at the same time. I never thought about to this extent before. I am so glad that I found this site. Now, I even understand a little better.