did I make a mistake?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by LizzyB on Tuesday, October 28, 2008 and has 10 replies.

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@LizzyB
17 Years

Im a Aqua Lady, and recently cut off communication with my libra man, because he just wasnt giving me what I wanted? But Im starting to think I made the wrong decision.. Im just tired of his minipulative behavior.. so im just walking away. Plus Im scared Im falling in love with him and he may not feel the same way. He knows I care for him, but he also knows I'm not happy with the way things are going. How do libras respond to this kind of treatment?

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@Sola
20 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

Im going through the same with my aqua..im libra!! It seems we?re scared of the same things and then end up in a situation that is so horrible. You need to really talk about feelings, even at the risk of them not being reciprocated. He wont respond, so you?d better make some kind of contact if you want him back. Just be direct, we like it.

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@LizzyB
17 Years

I was direct before..n he is stuck in his ways. So Im telling him I just need to not communicate with him for a while. I told him it has nothing to with him, its me. He's not dumb...he'll know why Im doing this. Im hoping he wont take it as rejection.

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@Chatz
19 Years1,000+ Posts

He wont take it as a rejection...you told him how you feel and its up to him now to do the same if he feels that way. Distance/not hearing from them is the way they let you know you were right that he doesnt feel the same.

Sorry, Ive been there and it hurts but its best that you know earlier than I realised. I still love mine but hate the way he was and what he did in the end....disappear altogether and pretend we would still be friends.....I know he'll make contact one day but hopefully by then I will hate him for everything LOL

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@LizzyB
17 Years

I told him if we keep this going only thing thats gonna happen is i could end up falling in love with you. So he should just erase my number and ill do the same. I didnt want to tell him this but I felt like I had to tell the truth . Im no godd at games.. but yeah so far he hasnt replied..we shall c.

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@LizzyB
17 Years

He's either thinking or thinking Im crazy and moving on with his life. I hate being on this side of situations. I wish I was him and didnt care, what he did. Like he probably does me. Now I have to find something to keep my mind of it.

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@LizzyB
17 Years

Thats ridiculous.. i make a decision n move on. lol I'd drive myself crazy tryin to come up with a logical answer for a month. I hope I wasnt to harsh but I had to do what I had to do.

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@cosmicgirrl
19 Years

you have to be patience.. and give yourself a deadline. i waited quiet long for my libra to make his decision but then again i pursued the relationship because he wasn't playing games i.e i got clear signal that he likes me at very first beginning & he's pretty consistent throughout our dating period.. dont push libra when he doesn't want to make decision cos you won't get it, make the decision yourself.. which from what i read is pretty much what you did. well done.. i had hard time letting libra on its own sometimes, but like chatz mentioned you have to keep your own sanity