Hello I am new here? can any of you guys help me with this one?? Me aquarius lady him libra! We have had an utterly fab relationship for nearly two years however for thr past month due to both of our carrers we have been unable to see eachother much. Just the other day he rings and wants to cancel our weekend plans this is completely out of character. I should explain a bit more that we have a long distance realtionship and only se eachother on weekends but it has been the happiest most secure relationship I have ever had. Any way he rings and wants to cancel our plans, he had been saying that he was going to move nearer and leave his job but he chops and changes his mind all the time. He rung and told me that he wants it to end he feels trapped and our lives are going in different directions this is out of the blue? I am giving him space and not contacting him but will he come back? has he met someone else what is going on? I have asked him to tell me whether he is staying where he is or moving and asked him to decide as constantly changing is mind is hard to understand but I love him to bits and it is so out of the blue we have been really happy ——
how do I get my libra guy back
Thanks it is really hard though! I have been strong so far and not contacted him! Thanks for the advice he has signed for a further four year contract but I would have been willing to stay with the realtionship long distance oh man I really don't know what to say if he did contact me again anyway! It is times like these I wish we could see in to the future to see what the best thing to do is? But hey at this stage he hasn't contacted me at all so probably worrying about something that is not going to happen

Posted by Hypnotic1o1
No matter what happens, don't appear (too) needy .. this would only boost his ego, especially if he contacts u after a long time ..
u know what u want, if he doesn't know what he wants, then he's going to be confused on the long run, not u ..
you will be fine ..
(smh I sound like a woman ^^)
U make perfect sense.. >>> Not sounding like a woman, LOL..

Posted by Hypnotic1o1
aw thx ..
what can I say ? us libras are the best (when not cheating) ..
Have U ever cheated??
ahem break it up you two flirting! I have more news and now really don't know what to do. It has only been two days but I have just had a text from him saying I know you probably think I don't care but how are you doing? Oh my life what to do now!!!! I love him and want him back so much but I know he has gone to his parents tonight and I think they have talked him round a bit. But I hate playing games but he has really hurt me what do I do, he thinks I have gone to a friends party tonight but actually I am home and typing crap on this site. I do not want to be too keen or needy I really want to let this work out would not replying tonight be a good or bad thing to do to a libra?? is his text genuine after what he has put me through I am expecting flowers in abundance not a bloody text message!!!!! hELP ME YOU LIBRAS

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Posted by ctm
ahem break it up you two flirting! I have more news and now really don't know what to do. It has only been two days but I have just had a text from him saying I know you probably think I don't care but how are you doing? Oh my life what to do now!!!! I love him and want him back so much but I know he has gone to his parents tonight and I think they have talked him round a bit. But I hate playing games but he has really hurt me what do I do, he thinks I have gone to a friends party tonight but actually I am home and typing crap on this site. I do not want to be too keen or needy I really want to let this work out would not replying tonight be a good or bad thing to do to a libra?? is his text genuine after what he has put me through I am expecting flowers in abundance not a bloody text message!!!!! hELP ME YOU LIBRAS
Ignore him..
oh no!!! two conflicting answers

Scales? hahahhaa Just joking... Personally, I would ignore him...
I am not up to talking to him yet I am not sure what to do for the best he has knocked me for sox we have been so happy or so I thought I want to make sure he knows his own mind and it is not pressure from his parents who I get on well with—?
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