How do I get my libra man back??

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WynterEason114
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Well his name is Eric, and we have been dating for a month now since then I've seen him twice in my life time, He told me he loved me and he told me he don't ever want me to cry while I'm with him and he said he will never leave me as long as I don't leave him, he told me all of his girlfriends broke up with him and after that he just started focusing on other things, but when he found me he thought I was the one for him and we was in love, he used to text me long paragraphs and he used to be so nicE to me , but after that it's like he started to be kind of boring and texting me slow, so I told him how I feel and basically he said he was gonna change and stufF,but he just ended up doing the same thing again, and I texted him and I said Eric I can't do this anymore, I was really sensitive and I was on my cycle at the moment so basically I didn't mean what I said, then he texted back and said what u mean by that, then he was like nvm I get the msg, then after that I texted him how I felt and that I wanted to be with him again, and he just started ignoring my msgs , he facetimed me once but my phone was on sleep mode so I didn't know he called until I got on my phone so then I texted him were u meaning to ft me or it was on accident, still no reply , then I went on his Instagram and I seen I was on his page or in his bio anymore,then I told him that I was sorry and he still hasn't text me back, he just be reading my stuff and not saying anything , he told my friend he is focusing on other things right now, what should I do? How can I get my baby back?? 😭 he's a OCTOBER 12th libra and I'm a April 11th Aries I at least Want him to be my friend
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rockyroadicecream
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Is this an online relationship?

...he pulled the typical Libra act- all hot and heavy and then backed off once he got what he wanted from you.

Just leave him alone and go do you. If he's going to be back, he'll be back. If he isn't well, you won't notice because you've continued on with your life. Life's too short to chase after someone who doesn't want to be there.
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Posted by AriesIntrovert16
I love the classic Libra/Aries relationship.

Libra and Aries meet, They "fall in love" after two weeks, Libra backs off, Aries says some crap he/she doesn't mean, Aries and Libra breakup, Aries realizes his/her mistake and chases after Libra.

Rinse.Repeat.

I need to find one.
Or

Libra and Aries meet. They hate eachother and don't get along.

In the end they become bffs or get into a relationship.

I've had it go both ways all my life. Either we get along great at first and they prove to be of the crazy variety, or we don't get along initially and end up becoming good friends. I have one who I've been friends with since the early 2000s. We both didn't get along all that well to start off, but now have been friends for like 8-10 years haha.
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Posted by AriesIntrovert16
I love the classic Libra/Aries relationship.

Libra and Aries meet, They "fall in love" after two weeks, Libra backs off, Aries says some crap he/she doesn't mean, Aries and Libra breakup, Aries realizes his/her mistake and chases after Libra.

Rinse.Repeat.

I need to find one.
Or

Libra and Aries meet. They hate eachother and don't get along.

In the end they become bffs or get into a relationship.

I've had it go both ways all my life. Either we get along great at first and they prove to be of the crazy variety, or we don't get along initially and end up becoming good friends. I have one who I've been friends with since the early 2000s. We both didn't get along all that well to start off, but now have been friends for like 8-10 years haha.
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Aww, either way sounds good to me!
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I DONT WANT TO SOUND INSENSITIVE. But I'm a libra so i know what probably went through his head. Unfortunately you have to move on because once a Libra starts texting slow and stops giving extra attention you already lost them. We as libras feel like its our job to never make a person feel like sh** so even if we do loose interest in a relationship we would NEVER tell the other that were ready to end it. Libra's are known for walking out of peoples lives and acting like the relationship never existed just for the simply fact that we don't like conflict so we will just pretend like you never existed. We don't try to be mean and spiteful its just how we deal with things. So when you broke up with him, I'm sorry to tell you but I doubt that he was hurt at all. Girl just move on because I must admit we as Libras have the tendency to cut people off once we aren't interested and we loose interest fast. He might talk to you down the road but DONT REPLY he will only be texting or calling you so that he can figure out if you still care for him, and he would only benefit from that because you would be feeding into his ego. And once you feed it to him he will drop you like a fly again just to mess with you.
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Posted by luckiedollsmith
I DONT WANT TO SOUND INSENSITIVE. But I'm a libra so i know what probably went through his head. Unfortunately you have to move on because once a Libra starts texting slow and stops giving extra attention you already lost them. We as libras feel like its our job to never make a person feel like sh** so even if we do loose interest in a relationship we would NEVER tell the other that were ready to end it. Libra's are known for walking out of peoples lives and acting like the relationship never existed just for the simply fact that we don't like conflict so we will just pretend like you never existed. We don't try to be mean and spiteful its just how we deal with things. So when you broke up with him, I'm sorry to tell you but I doubt that he was hurt at all. Girl just move on because I must admit we as Libras have the tendency to cut people off once we aren't interested and we loose interest fast. He might talk to you down the road but DONT REPLY he will only be texting or calling you so that he can figure out if you still care for him, and he would only benefit from that because you would be feeding into his ego. And once you feed it to him he will drop you like a fly again just to mess with you.
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I get lazy with a lot of things, but not my relationship or love interest. If I do, then that means something turned me off, or I’m second guessing on if I truly like the person. If we are just talking and I do this, it’s most likely because I like someone else. I’m not going to be rude and say that, I’ll just fade off.
However in your case since the two of you were in a relationship I’m going to say something about the relationship turned him off. When you told him how you felt you should’ve asked him how he felt. If he’s a more mature Libra he would tell you the truth. If not he walk right around your question. You did him a favor when you dumped him.
Also, I would also say he was probably focused on something and since we Libra’s would LOVE to try and multi-task we have a one track mind. Any time we try to do a million things at once something or (someone) always gets the shorter end of the stick. When you dumped him it might’ve pissed him off or irritated him.
Give him space, don’t call or text for a while. I’d give it a minute like probably a few weeks to a month then I’d reach out and say “hey, hope all is well.” And leave it alone.