How do you know if a Libra is not interested?

ok..so I went on a date with a Libra, went well, and we decided to hang out again. Unfortunately he got sick and was in the hospital for a few weeks and he contacted me to tell me so. This weekend he asked if I wanted to go join him with his friends (that were coming down from out of town) to go downtown for st Pat's festivities or he can see my friday. I agreed on Friday and Friday came around, it was was 9ish, and he hasn't called so I decided to text him if we were still hanging out. He called me back right away and from the sound of his voice I got the impression that he forgot and he apologized. He said he was at dinner with his friend, and he asked if me and my friends wanted to join them at a bar afterwards. My friends already made plans and were already out, so I said I'll just text him if I make it downtown for the parade and I did. He replied 1 hour or so later while my friend and I were eating and drinking downtown. I told him I will go to the bar he said he was at after we were done eating. After abour 45 minutes he replied back that he was going back home for a bit (this is around 4ish pm)and said, "holla at you later," but he didn't contact me tonight. I just feel like he didn't make much effort to see me. Is it just me or is it because his friends are in town? my friend said that he's just being a boy and hangin out with his friends. opinions please.

he will be happy with an air or fire born girl. drop him and find someone else

"Maybe it's been a while since you met, so he's kind of forgotten the spark and excitement with which he asked you out, he just has to see you again, if he liked you and asked you out the first time"

This is exactly true in what I've found in Libra men in my own personal experiences. I've been with mostly libras (I'm an Aquarian)& sometimes the spark between us would be great & non-stop. But sometimes if I didn't call or text or keep any communication with them (out of probably just waiting on them to budge first) I'd notice that the gap between us would just keep growing & growing. But as soon as I dropped my stubborness & called or communicated first, we'd hang out & the spark would IMMEDIATELY come back & shortly after, it'd seem as if we never lost touch. Libras almost have short attention spans. You have to stay within reach of their eyesight & when you can start detecting a little difference, make sure you come back into his limelight again & if the flames are still there then you have nothing to worry about. It's when you bring yourself to him again & he acts like you barely exist that you JUST MIGHT have a problem

he wasn't very respectful to invite you and forget about the plans, then asked if you wanted to meet him downtown and not get back to you until an hour after you texted him. then he decides to go home after you made the effort to drive downtown to meet him. he sounds like a user.

find another guy. this one is a loser.

You shouldn't have to worry. One less Libra is a blessing.

my plan is to wait and see if he contacts me again. It has been a month since our first date (he was in the hospital for 2 weeks). Maybe he has forgotten the sparks, I'm almost ready to move on.

Its been a month? Uhhh yeah, move on.