
spica
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Posted by curious visitor
express it the way a libra would express it. tell him that even though you care about him, you see that you two just aren't compatible, that you need something he can't give you and he apparently needs something you can't give him. etc.
but you have to believe it 100% before you say it, because he will know if you don't mean it.
and you can't be friends. i'm sorry. you can't unring a bell.

Posted by valeria25
why is it libras don't get on with scorpios and vice versa? I never really noticed...gosh..
but this is SO true with my mum who is a libra and my poor aunt who is a scorpio. My mother is a wonderful woman, yes, but she's so harsh and judgemental sometimes...it makes me in fear of her judgment at times. So strong and fierce and yet so, very dependent... and my poor aunt. My poor aunt has lost a child (my cousin) in an accident, and my cousin is the most beautiful little human being ever. My grandparents think that i'm their best/favourite, but they have always considered her top contender next to me. Because she was just a cheerful child with no malice, you can tell...
and my aunt, she's not the best person in terms of her life because she's had a tough upbringing. She gambles alot and is considered a terrible gambler, and has lost her capricorn husband (my uncle) because of her infidelities and gambling. My libra mother was generous and let her borrow alot of money, but each time, she was disapointed of my scorpio aunt's ways. And now my scorpio aunt has diabetes and is alone, and her only children hate her, because of her gambling and infidelities. But all I could think of, when i think of my poor aunt is how sad/tragic her life is, and how much suffering she has gone through. Yes, she brought in a lot of the stuff on herself, but everytime her name is brought up, i can feel the disgustedness from my libra mother. How disapointed she is in scorpio aunt and how she broke her capricorn's brother's heart, and how she never pays back the thousands she owes. Still, it doesnt stop me from thinking how tragic my scorpio aunt's life is, and how beautiful she is to me, somewhere in that lost soul of hers. And I try to tell my mother that she cant hold grudges (after all, my mother is libra/taurus), and let it go, and that money isn't everything. But it's just that she can't help but be disgusted at the unpeaceful, unharmonious life my scorpio aunt has gone through.





Posted by wtf?
spica..
could you hide the post where u quoted me ?
I was being emotional last night..
and still opened my mouth..
thank you..



Posted by valeria25Posted by spica
^^ Y.
Wow. LOL i dont know what you're trying to do, but if you're suggesting that I should leave my mother alone in her negative thoughts about my aunt, and just listen and listen and be complacent, so she can have hate then, that's just silly. Maybe if I were a more passive doormat daughter. But I'm NOT. She wanted my input, so I gave her some; my mother doesn't have to take my advise. She takes it into consideration and weighs it. That's all.
Uh. I dont think so, about mentally insane. LOL Those types of people who are criminals and mentally insane are SCARY!!!
Redeeming qualities of a serial killer/mentally insane? OMG...you can't compare that to another human being who has just serious problems in their lives. I'm not a psychiatrist. I dont think I can handle those types of people, because they could probably manipulative me and I dont like being manipulated. I heard/read that these types are very VERY intelligent and have super high I.Q.s and use that intelligence to manipulate the weak and the very sweet souls.click to expand

Posted by ArizonaRaspberryPosted by spica
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I actually wholeheartedly disagree with you; My boyfriend is a libra, and he's one of the harshest people I know. It's the only thing we ever fight about, is the fact that he's so harsh about people. He uses words that are unnecessarily harsh in terms of people who don't deserve it, he downs on people for the way they look all the time, and he picks at me for not seeing his point of view. I don't see how you failed to notice just how judgemental Libras are, because I sure haven't.click to expand



Posted by wtf?
our society is hella sick.. based on lies and fakeness..
doesn't seem to bother people that much..
*shuts it in front of the baws*
*kisses some asses till he gets to the top*
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if you're "functional" in a sick society..
how would you behave in a sane one ?
(where there wouldn't be so much mental gymnastics..)




Posted by wtf?Like they may be easiest to manipulate because when somene's too good, they balance by invoking the bad side, when someone's bad, they then unleash their good side?
I used to be nice to some scorpio..
because she was "evil" and I wanted to see the other side..
I had to "work" for this..
but this was draining on the RL..
so, I decided to ignore her..
the thing is..
she likes me better when I am indifferent to her..
because she has to work.. to invoke the caring side..
now..
I know where the attraction was coming from..
both interested in the process, not the outcome..click to expand


Posted by wtf?
no no no 😢😢 lol
has more to do with pisces dual nature..
libra/scorpio will never figure a pisces out..
pisces is a constant mystery..
there's always be sthg to discover.. he/she'll never be bored..
same goes for the libra/scorpio..

Posted by wtf?Posted by spica
If Lib/Scorp clings on like tree roots, what are they implying?
(I will hide these when all said and done)
Like cling and never let go, is it a security blanket
some warped nostalgia
or friendship?
(if u cant answer this its okay)
I'll ponder on this.. I promise..click to expand

Posted by wtf?
no no no 😢😢 lol
has more to do with pisces dual nature..
libra/scorpio will never figure a pisces out..
pisces is a constant mystery..
there's always be sthg to discover.. he/she'll never be bored..
same goes for the libra/scorpio..

Posted by spica
Valeria, I'm just saying there are times when judgment is necessary. For instance, catching a criminal. If an Aqua's on the case, they probably could never truly identify a criminal. They empathise so much especially with the mentally ill that they SEE it as normal. or something. An aqua'll prolly befriend a serial killer becase he/she acknowledges the humanity behind that criminal.

Posted by wtf?
dangerous as in..
you're able to combine analysis with intuition..
*heavy drops of sweat*
we're coo..coo..cool, right ?


Posted by &2gedanow
Wow, some pretty deep thoughts in this here thread. How comes I ain't met many libras in real life?
It's like cancers, saggis, libras and geminis are just so rare and THREE of these signs I'm supposed to be really compatible with.
WTF? (No, no, not you, wtf, wtf as in the abbreviated QUESTION lol)
Actually... there's my libra half brother who I'm not really close to.
Which one's the cusp, anyway Oct 22 or 23? 'Cos I couldn't stand big bro back in the day because he acted like a little elitist sh**.
You know, he had this cold way of judging. Like my libra aunt. You know, where it's OBVIOUS that the screws were turning behind their eyes lol
Now he's found God and that's killed off any chance of closeness lol

Posted by valeria25Posted by &2gedanowPosted by spica
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For you, yes. but gross. For myself, I have this intuitive inner bell that rings off like i can see their auras, and I know, I should stay away from those types. When I read the papers on anyone who is mentally insane (I,e. the old man who raped his daughter continously and kept her locked up in a basement, living in Austria) that is just sick! How does one feel sympathy for such disgusting acts? He has done this for YEARS. Knowing that he has manipulated, controlled, abused, took away someone's freedom, ect and there are people who FEEL sympathy? I only feel sympathy for the WOMAN/daughter who was suffering.click to expand

Posted by valeria25Posted by wtf?Posted by valeria25Posted by spica
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I'm starting to think its a fixed sign thing.
awww come on, wtf, youre way smarter than that. LOL I said that ALOT, because the ones i met were mean and controlling. 😢 I think they used their "mental powers" for bad, and to controll others. Look at the FAMOUS libra guy Aleister Crowley. I was SHOCKED when I found out he was a Libra. And he used his "good" for bad??click to expand
Actually, Valeria, I think its highly unfair when you insult someone's intelligence to get them to agree with you. And your statement right here was downright manipulative. You may use it unconsciously, but thats the high art of verbal manipulation I have discovered used socially. You dont bring out a worst case example of an infamous Libra to support your point. That is not only far out, its illogical as well. Maybe if you bring in Aquarian serial killers then the argument may be balanced.

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How does one get rid of a Lib/Scorp male if they're in the push-pull dynamics?
Like a let go come here, go there scoot off thing?
That scorpio clawy manipulativeness and that Libra clinginess?
The terror that is being libra-scorpio. I think they are the most miserable beings on earth, man!
You know, like taking a knife to slice off the emotional connectiveness for a clean cut without the fuzz?
Also, is there truth that Libra males (in relationships) tend to speak in codes. Like verbal speak is sacred or something.
I read about a married Libra male still having communication problems with the wife. Seems like this is a prevalent thing.
thoughts?