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How'd you know if a libra guy avoids you because he despises you or if it's because he has feelings for you?

lol KOL!

If he likes you, you'll catch him sneaking looks at you and then looking away. We are shy and less confident when we really like someone...not our usual smart confident selves.

If he despises you it's because you have done something that totally goes against his morals/beliefs and you'll know without a doubt. He'll be short with you and it'll be hard to hide the disgust he feels if he even has to talk to you. He'll try not to look at you even if you are asking him something directly or evade the question altogether!

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lol KOL!

If he likes you, you'll catch him sneaking looks at you and then looking away. We are shy and less confident when we really like someone...not our usual smart confident selves.

If he despises you it's because you have done something that totally goes against his morals/beliefs and you'll know without a doubt. He'll be short with you and it'll be hard to hide the disgust he feels if he even has to talk to you. He'll try not to look at you even if you are asking him something directly or evade the question altogether!

LOL. Hmm. He's a little of both. I always catch hi, looking at me but when I do he looks away. There was also an instance when he smiled at me as I was laughing with my friends and he seems to enjoy watching me but by the time I saw his smile, he suddenly made a straight face. lol. And he doesn't talk to me. He seems to avoid me. He doesn't even reply to my IM's. What is he?

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Posted by sydneyhughes27
How'd you know if a libra guy avoids you because he despises you or if it's because he has feelings for you?

Despises you usually he'll respond to you with his back turned, I've done this few girlfriends/ex's. Feelings for you usually he'll respond high/low uncomfortable voice an or act timid or nervous. Hope this helps.

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Hmm. We don't usually talk but he did that once. When I was asking him where he'll transfer schools. That was when he was sitting in front of me. After I asked him, he turned around and scribbled something in my notebook. Says he's testing his pen. lol

Looks more like he likes you but lacks confidence with you for what ever reason...why do you think that is?

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Looks more like he likes you but lacks confidence with you for what ever reason...why do you think that is?

Hmm. I think he does too but he's confusing me. Maybe it's because of his friends. Two of his best buds had a crush on me but I turned them down. Maybe he's thinking that I'll turn him down as well and it wouldn't be good on his part because there was a girl in his past that he loved so much who was just stringing him along and is now with another guy. He says he doesn't want a girlfriend at this point. But I wanna take it slow and I wanna know him better. I just don't know how to approach him.

You don't!

You let him know you are interested and it's alright for him to approach you. Don't take the fun out of the chase for him or you...😉

How would I let him know? I think things are a little more complicated this time because a libra friend of mine tried to make him jealous by mentioning another guy in our conversation and she made it loud for him to hear. Lol. I think he's frustrated. He kicked a chair in front of him after hearing the guy's name a few times.

Well no wonder you feel like he despises you...how long have you been playing games with him?

These things can be almost irreversible if you don't quit now. Try taking a breather, giving him some time out and keep you silly friends out of it!

Maybe you might be able to salvage something but I think you need to assess exactly the way he sees you and what you have portrayed yourself to be in his eyes first!

honestly, you are stuck between a rock and a hard place, and you're basically screwed.

once a libra decides that something isn't going to happen, it's not going to happen. if he's acting weird, it's because he's trying to lose interest in you.

unless you toyed horribly with his friends before turning them down, i doubt he hates you. libras tend not to despise many people. there's people we don't like all that much, but few we'll genuinely dislike. and if we do, we don't so much avoid you. we just get a cold look when interacting with you, a stiff hate grin and frighteningly direct eye contact.

he probably does like you, but he's made up his mind. sure, you could probably change it. but it would take a lot of work. a ton of work. way more than it's worth if you just want to get to know him a bit.