I still have feelings for this messed up Libra man. Help!

Hello guys, I'm a sagittarius sun, capricorn moon and pisces rising. He's libra sun, pisces moon and leo rising. So we broke up due to him "has no feelings for me anymore." He said I deserve someone better than him. I still love him and has been trying to get him back for a few weeks now. But then I discovered something that led to a face-to-face talk: right after the breakup, he started chasing a female friend of his.

He insisted that he "really likes" her, ever since they were freshmen (we're all same age, now 3rd year in college). The thing is, back then he was still in a long distance relationship and I wasn't even in the picture. He left that rls and came to me only 3 months after we met. We had that bond sort of like a soulmate bond, which drove us madly in love. The female friend wasn't the cause for our breakup. He said he didn't cheat, he only saw her as a friend the whole time. She knows about me, about the previous LDR gf. Now that we broke up, he thinks the only one left on the back of his mind he has feels for is his "real love". I don't believe that feeling he has for the female friend is even real. Like if it's real as it should be, why didn't he consider her before jumping into a rls with me? Was she even important to him at the start? I don't blame her, I blame his unstable heart. During the talk, there was this moment I stood up before him and he said: "You look beautiful in this angle." I was quite shocked, if he really has no feelings for me then why he still sees me attractive? I said "guess what, you still love me." he paused for a minute and said "as a friend. Because you're a great girl. Too great for me." He looked sad and ashamed during the talk.

He has insecurities, thinking that he hurt me emotionally and he's an asshole for doing that. And he has a huge ego for which he doesn't want to reconcile because he scares everyone would think he's shameless and inconsistent. Though I asked him had he ever thought of reconciliation and he said yes. I just wanna know that could there still a chance to get that Libra guy back? And what's going on in his mind? I can't give up now, there're a lot in him that no one else can see, not even that female friend, except me and... I really want to be there for him. Even though he's flawed, he's still my nemo.

I read this the other day. It's twee but it might help you.

Libra men suck they just do I just hear one thread after the next after the next regarding how they just suck!

I really respect him for breaking it off from you before he pursued this chick most men 99.9% of the time don't give women that level of respect so I can understand why you may want him back.

Libras are not the kind of zodiac where once it's over it's absolutely done like some other zodiacs. So I would say that there's probably a chance in the future to get him back but it's best to not chase a Libra and it's kind of best to chill in the cut for a while let him miss you for a minute.

Sagi optimism. A blessing and a curse.

Posted by Wynter
Sagi optimism. A blessing and a curse.

Esp from a woman; from what I've learned (from my Saggy ex-bf) they DON'T pursue you; they leave you alone. Well, I take that back, on FB & cell I had to block him. On POF, he came back asking me, "Are you still mad at me?" I blocked him yet AGAIN! She's a female Saggy...cupid keeps digging his arrow into her heart. Sigh!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by Wynter
Sagi optimism. A blessing and a curse.

Esp from a woman; from what I've learned (from my Saggy ex-bf) they DON'T pursue you; they leave you alone. She's a female Saggy...cupid keeps digging into her heart. Sigh!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Are you kidding boo? Are you fricking serious? I had to get a restraining order on a Sag. Maybe his Mars was an Aries I don't know what it was but it was the worst experience of my adult life.

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Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by Wynter
Sagi optimism. A blessing and a curse.

Esp from a woman; from what I've learned (from my Saggy ex-bf) they DON'T pursue you; they leave you alone. She's a female Saggy...cupid keeps digging into her heart. Sigh!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Are you kidding boo? Are you fricking serious? I had to get a restraining order on a Sag. Maybe his Mars was an Aries I don't know what it was but it was the worst experience of my adult life.

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Yep, his Mars wasn't on Aries....eek! Aries! They are soooooooooo stubborn! (my sister is Aries). Yeah, David finally left me alone. Jerk even asked my girlfriend for her phone number (she's DESPERATE, and Leo) while at my birthday party and the stupid idiot gave it to him! That sealed my deal and I didn't want anything to do w/him. David was embarrassed too, because his church friend (we attended church together) told, him, "Don't treetrunk it with Eva, she's a good woman!" His friend also told him NOT to treetrunk it with Eva....obviously, he didn't take their advice. I bounced! Sorry you had to get a restraining order....ARIES GRRRRR! 😡

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: why do you think Froggie to me, "You attract fire signs, but in the long run, they are not compatible with you" (she read my birth chart as to "Who to date").

So what's the update OP?