Why libra men so difficult to understand

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Diamondnurse on Saturday, May 6, 2017 and has 14 replies.

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@Diamondnurse
9 Years

I don't get why me and libras can't see eye to eye. I want to know why is it hard for them to open up. They open a lil and shut you out when things are getting interesting. I guess i won't get it but i just wanted views on that. I have libra friends but it's so different dealing with the libra guys.

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@Dolluxxe
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Diamondnurse
I don't get why me and libras can't see eye to eye. I want to know why is it hard for them to open up. They open a lil and shut you out when things are getting interesting. I guess i won't get it but i just wanted views on that. I have libra friends but it's so different dealing with the libra guys.

Were you dating these dudes or purely platonic friendships?

Libra men AND women can have ADD in relationships. We weren't called the scales for nothing. Even the smallest crap can trigger our overthinking and make us run away.

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@Diamondnurse
9 Years

Just friends. Lately me and a guy friend been arguing alot because i feel like he lusting and i just want to be friends. I just get off he wants more than i could give. It's just hard understanding the libra men but i guess cause its the opposite sex that I'm encounter with. Libra woman are different but not difficult like the men.

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@Dolluxxe
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Diamondnurse
Just friends. Lately me and a guy friend been arguing alot because i feel like he lusting and i just want to be friends. I just get off he wants more than i could give. It's just hard understanding the libra men but i guess cause its the opposite sex that I'm encounter with. Libra woman are different but not difficult like the men.

Nah he's just being a guy. Leebs are playful though when single, no surprise there.

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@Dolluxxe
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Posted by tiziani
Posted by Dolluxxe
Posted by Diamondnurse
I don't get why me and libras can't see eye to eye. I want to know why is it hard for them to open up. They open a lil and shut you out when things are getting interesting. I guess i won't get it but i just wanted views on that. I have libra friends but it's so different dealing with the libra guys.

Were you dating these dudes or purely platonic friendships?

Libra men AND women can have ADD in relationships. We weren't called the scales for nothing. Even the smallest crap can trigger our overthinking and make us run away.

This is the person who said Libra men were stalking her.

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Huh? Since when did we become stalkers?

From what I know, Leebs will only stalk (mostly social media) if we feel something's not right and that's when we're being cheated on.

She must've confused us for our October bros/sis, them Scorps.

Silly girl.

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@Diamondnurse
9 Years

You going off a post from 2 months ago calling a libra a stalker. Yes i did have a libra stalker and he was a narc but anyways i was just curious why is libra men difficult to understand. I understand they category you as friends in the beginning but all i want to be is friends. All my friends are Libras but they all females. It was just a curiousity question nothing so serious. Libras do take things personally. Like bringing up post from while ago what does that got to do with my question now? I'm friends with a leeb guy now nothing to do with my past post. You don't have to be so sentimental and make it a personal post geeesh.

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@Diamondnurse
9 Years

I'm sag we can flirt too. But in the same token he acts like he wants to be more than just friends Im trying to be clear that's all i want to be. He says he lusts alot and i don't want to ruin the friendship because he is a good guy hes there when i need him.

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@ladylibra21
11 Years1,000+ Posts

He could be overthinking and intern mirroring you more than he should be. I know when I like someone too much I get caught up in mirroring them when I really just want to grab them LOL . I say be open and talk to him a lot of times if you bridge the conversation you open a canna worms to figure out really what is going on if you said "hey I don't feel like you're all that into me." You might shock him into a response actually make him think about what he wants. Also act this way when I like someone new but I'm trying to get over someone else.

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@Diamondnurse
9 Years

Posted by ladylibra21
He could be overthinking and intern mirroring you more than he should be. I know when I like someone too much I get caught up in mirroring them when I really just want to grab them LOL . I say be open and talk to him a lot of times if you bridge the conversation you open a canna worms to figure out really what is going on if you said "hey I don't feel like you're all that into me." You might shock him into a response actually make him think about what he wants. Also act this way when I like someone new but I'm trying to get over someone else.

He reminds me of the libra guy i just cut off months ago. But i don't know if he likes me or not. He says we are friends but he showing me he wants more. He asks me what i want in a relationship. He gave me alot of my answers on what he does with the issues i had with another leeb guy.

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Posted by Diamondnurse
Posted by ladylibra21
He could be overthinking and intern mirroring you more than he should be. I know when I like someone too much I get caught up in mirroring them when I really just want to grab them LOL . I say be open and talk to him a lot of times if you bridge the conversation you open a canna worms to figure out really what is going on if you said "hey I don't feel like you're all that into me." You might shock him into a response actually make him think about what he wants. Also act this way when I like someone new but I'm trying to get over someone else.

He reminds me of the libra guy i just cut off months ago. But i don't know if he likes me or not. He says we are friends but he showing me he wants more. He asks me what i want in a relationship. He gave me alot of my answers on what he does with the issues i had with another leeb guy.

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What is his Mars, Venus, and moon

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@Diamondnurse
9 Years

Libra moon Scorpio Venus Scorpio mars. He said he doesn't allow to many people to get close to him. We hang out everyday